Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

The girls are wearing brown and green dresses and the guys have their mossy oak vests and ties. I am not sure what to use as the center pieces and wedding favors. What kind of flowers should I have? Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

2007-10-23 07:19:31 · 12 answers · asked by Erin Shel 1 in Weddings

I am sorry and would love to see the kids.... gave you everything including custody what more can I do....long shot I know.... what the hell....

2007-10-23 07:19:14 · 9 answers · asked by AzNative89 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey guys,
I am Single and am searching for someone. I never meet women in bars or nightclubs I prefare places such as Library, Book Stores, Malls, Coffee shops and even even STREETS. And honestly I have met really attractive women with amazing personality responding positively to me and they were very welcoming to my approach. But my question is that sometimes I can't get out of my head and get SKEPTICAL and I wanna ask you GIRLS, DO YOU LIKE and ENJOY and get FLATTERED when a guy you HAVE NEVER MET BEFORE APPROACHES you in the STREET or LIBRARY or GYM whatever and tells you SINCERELY that he FINDS YOU 'ATTRACTIVE/CUTE/CLASSY/CHARMING etc...)??? and than starts to flirt with you because that is what I do when I approach women I like I Honestly tell them why I came to talk to them a compliment and start flirting and getting to know her and MOST IMPORTANTLY IF YOU LIKE THE GUY WOULD YOU DATE HIM REGARDLESS of his LOOKS?
Most importantly, DO you know that it is hard for GUYS to approach?

2007-10-23 07:17:25 · 10 answers · asked by Abond008 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never especially liked the Cowboys, but I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE football & he's taking his roommate instead. Who thinks that he should take me instead?

2007-10-23 07:15:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He came to live with us 2 & a half years ago after living with his mum. (She moved around so we could not find him or her so when he moved in with us at 11 he was a complete stranger to us) From what we can gather & from what we know about his home life, it appears domestic violence was common place as was swearing & shouting at each other, he basically ran riot with no proper supervision or care. She has 3 other children with the man she lives with & it seems that it was always made clear to Josh that he was different & not really wanted there. Since he has moved in with us we have bent over backwards to help him adjust to living with us, constantly reasuring him how much he is loved & wanted in our family, but dispite this he bullies our children with really spiteful hurtful words that reduce my son to tears. Our son has gone from a happy go lucky confident child to a nervous wreck. We have spoken to him about his bullying and told him it won't be tolerated but still he does it Help

2007-10-23 07:14:34 · 18 answers · asked by Muddyblackcat 1 in Family

My stepsons mother is so verbally abusive he is having nightmares and cant stand to be around her. I want to do something to help but how without causing problems???

2007-10-23 07:13:32 · 27 answers · asked by Beverly C 3 in Family

my fiance and i are wanting a nice garden wedding but his parents are upset because they are very catholic, we are non practicing catholic and bapitist. how can i make them happy, without changing what we want...

2007-10-23 07:11:52 · 29 answers · asked by s_denay 2 in Weddings

Have you found that your gutt feelings are Usually right?
I have this gutt feeling today that is eating me alive today.. what do you think?

2007-10-23 07:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Grace's Mommy.. 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we have lived together for 2 years. We have seperate bedrooms. We have our own beds, closets, bedroom furniture, and personal possessions. This is something that works for us. We are people that like our space. We still sleep together - usually in my room. Only occasionally, like when one of us is sick, or if one of us has to get up super-early; do we sleep seperately.

The thing is, when our friends come over and notice this, we get a lot of judgement. People think we are completely weird, and don't get along or something, which is not at all true. We get along great, and we think it's because we give each other the space we desire. We don't constantly need to be with each other all the time. We think this is what makes our relationship great.

My question is: Do any of you have seperate bedrooms? If you don't, would you if you could? Or do you think our situation is bizarre the way our friends do?

2007-10-23 07:09:03 · 55 answers · asked by Maeve 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 07:09:03 · 80 answers · asked by zora 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 23, single, have a good job. I'm a friend of a very nice 40 yo doctor. His wife passed away 5 years ago and he lives with his 12 yo daughter. She's kinda sweet, likes me, om my bday she gave me a wonderful card. We've gone out a fews times. About 2 weeks ago she started asking me those questions she'd ask her mom: periods, breasts, sex, etc. She tells me about her life, her feelings, dreams, good and bad moments. She told me how she misses her mom and how she needs some mother figure, though she gets along with her dad, who loves her dearly.

Well, she needs as bra and asked me to help her get her firts one. This is a very important moment in a girl's life, I don't know if I should. But she'll get hurt if I say no.

I'm afraid I get involved w/ the girl, I'm not sure about my relationship with her dad.

2007-10-23 07:08:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you approach some one with something you heard on their voice mail but they don't know you knew how to access their voice mail? So one your wrong for listing to the voice mail but what you heard may lead to other problems in the relationship.

2007-10-23 07:06:33 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 07:05:27 · 17 answers · asked by Sexy_Beast2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 07:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how long can adultery be used as grounds for divorce after theres been reconciliation?

2007-10-23 07:05:17 · 17 answers · asked by 1848smt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been together for the last 2 1/2 years. Granted our relationship hasn't been perfect and I fault myself way more than I fault her. Well last week she decided to end it and just be friends. I'm totally crushed, I don't want to eat anything I'm having trouble sleeping and this is all I can think about. However, she is still spending some time with me or will still talk to me on the phone, for instance tonight were suppose to walk the lake, Friday we'll have lunch, and Saturday I'm going to a wedding with her, and she's going to a game with me. She says she has no interest in me and her right now, and were just going to be friends. If she only wanted to be just friends would she be spending this much time with me right now or even though she denys it, is she giving me the opportunity to show her I do still care about her, and that I want this to work. I really want me and her to get back together, but I just can't tell from these mixed signs what she wants.

2007-10-23 07:00:35 · 23 answers · asked by Advice 4 in Marriage & Divorce

between seperate households/parents? What do you do if the parent keeps doing it?

2007-10-23 07:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex spouse said I sent him an email admitting to lying in our divorce which could reverse some decisions the judge made. Is there anyway to prove that I didn't send it? I think he logged on to my account and sent it to himself to reverse the decisions! HELP!

2007-10-23 06:57:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My parents say they will only pay for my wedding if I wait but if they find out I did not they will disown me.

2007-10-23 06:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Princess J 1 in Singles & Dating

obviously most relationships have that honeymoon phase, but theres just this feeling that i cant shake about this man. it feels like "holy sh*t, i cant believe i found you".. please excuse my language, but its the only think that always comes to mind. we actually can speak to each other without saying words. i feel like i know he is the one meant for me, but could i just be wrong?

2007-10-23 06:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 06:53:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a final year medical student, and 3 months ago i got married to a guy who didn't finish school.

he is now meeting my friends,mostly professionals, but he seems to have communication problem because he doesn't know anything much.he only read news headlines, no books and doesn't even watch the news.

i feel very embarrassed about this, and i think he should read to be able to talk about something.i have asked him to read anything at all, but he gets angry with my advice.
i bought him sports n music magazines,but he just looks at the pictures and considers it "Read".

any advice on how to get him to read?

2007-10-23 06:53:42 · 24 answers · asked by lina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive had this guy friend for over a yr..we met in school and I moved to another state but we've kept in contact. Recently I visited him and we kissed but never talked about our feelings (as I had to head back home). Then he contacted me and I invited him to visit me. He said he'd love to once he gets some free time (he's a huge school load). Last conversation he asked how long I'm going to be around (as i'm thinking of travelling). Told him at least a few mths so he said maybe at next vacation he will visit but he's thinking of going to his parents instead (who live in another country). I told him I wont invite him again. This is wrecking my head. I know family is important but I feel I'm wasting my time. What do you think? Also, I'm the one who is now saying 'hi' on chat. Maybe its that its so long distance its difficult. Please help me? ps we get on really well. Guys in particular what do you think?

2007-10-23 06:53:12 · 1 answers · asked by profe 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been together for about a year now, the relationship started off on the wrong foot. A month into the relationship, she tells me that my boss (who is married) was her ex, who is also her boss... This made my work environment very uncomfortable but it also opened up my eyes about his behaviour towards her. I always thought he was very affectionate towards her, yet knowing what I now know. My perception became clearer, he acted that way because he was still interested in her. I mean, if he was married and they had a relationship, why would he respect ours. He has constantly been flirting with her, tapping her nose with paper, pushing her, always staring at her, and he even walks behind her computer to see who she's emailing.

Also, it isn't just him, she told me 4 to 5 months into the relationship that she still had feelings for him. She answered a Yahoo! question stating that she didn't know what love meant up until a couple of years ago, which was the time that she

2007-10-23 06:51:37 · 22 answers · asked by tc 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Has anyone else experienced this?
Most parents I come across show an immense interest in the lives of their kids, from what they're studying in school, to where they're working, who they're dating, etc.
My parents seem to show absolutely no interest in our lives. It was as though they were completely oblivious to the fact that, surprise surprise, kids grow up, and we won't always just want to play catch in the backyard.
It goes further than that though. They're downright dead-weights. My brother is marrying into an Italian family next year, and the first thing out of my mother's mouth was a complaint about the location -- barely any congratulations!
Anyone else struggle with parents who seem inconvenienced to have children? Both of them make great money. Additionally, they haven't put any money aside for our weddings, educations, etc.
I'm independent and can manage on my own two feet, but it's simply about the fact that they don't seem to really care. It's a HASSLE for them.

2007-10-23 06:51:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is a long story. I have two daughters. The youngest was playing in a soccer game. The oldest was asked by an officer of the league to ref the game. When we got to the game, I sat down and heard other parents from the opposing team complain because my two girls. Saying things like, "Isnt that so and so's sister refing??? Well I guess that's how they win their games." Incinuating that my oldest would be biased in the game. I walked away at the time . I have come to find out that parents went to the other coach and compained after the game. I am really upset, my daughter is 10 years old. She just wants to ref soccer, not cheat for her sister. (If anything she may be harder on her sister!!!) The same parents went to the president of the league as well. What shoud I do now??? Do I address the situation, just let it blow over? Or should I take it up with an officer of the league.

2007-10-23 06:50:07 · 8 answers · asked by julie A 3 in Family

Has anyone else experienced this?
Most parents I come across show an immense interest in the lives of their kids, from what they're studying in school, to where they're working, who they're dating, etc.
My parents seem to show absolutely no interest in our lives. It was as though they were completely oblivious to the fact that, surprise surprise, kids grow up, and we won't always just want to play catch in the backyard.
It goes further than that though. They're downright dead-weights. My brother is marrying into an Italian family next year, and the first thing out of my mother's mouth was a complaint about the location -- barely any congratulations!
Anyone else struggle with parents who seem inconvenienced to have children? Both of them make great money. Additionally, they haven't put any money aside for our weddings, educations, etc.
I'm independent and can manage on my own two feet, but it's simply about the fact that they don't seem to really care. It's a HASSLE for them.

2007-10-23 06:49:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have met this girl online that I am talking to. She is planning on coming over with her friend soon, when she comes over as my Friend's Girlfriend. She expressed to me yesterday that she has these feelings, and I expressed them too. But she said that it seems like it is happening too fast; I agree. However, we both came to an agreement that we should just let things happen as they come, if they come. But now my friend seems to know about everything we talk about. Seems she talks to him, but I don't like it. This friend was know to screw me up, especially with girls in the past. He's an evil sob, that will try to control my relationship, and make sure girl doesn't fall for me. He's done it before. I've know him 17 years. I didn't talk to him for years. But I met here through his girlfriend. So, how do I tell her I don't want her to talk to my friend about us, without pushing her the wrong way? I can't tell her about our rivalry thing can I?

2007-10-23 06:47:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i can i let them nowthat it was someone in my family without feeling so guilty he has two kids and i dont want to mess up the life. it was like i didnt think he would ever do some thing like that his wife just passed away and i thought he was better then that and now i dont know what to do

2007-10-23 06:45:08 · 14 answers · asked by angelbicth234 2 in Family

pics of heart shaped wedding cakes?
Thanks!

2007-10-23 06:43:45 · 14 answers · asked by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 in Weddings