My ex spouse said I sent him an email admitting to lying in our divorce which could reverse some decisions the judge made. Is there anyway to prove that I didn't send it? I think he logged on to my account and sent it to himself to reverse the decisions! HELP!
2007-10-23 06:57:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Email is a regular form of communication between since we seperated. But I've kept every email I've sent to him and received from him. My attorney has been informed that he has my password and I changed it as soon as I figured out what he had done. I'm wondering who I would get to "trace" or prove he sent it and not me. How do you prove it?
2007-10-23 07:12:10 · update #1
yea tell them to trace the email, if it came from his home or office or wutever, and u can prove that u were somwhere else at the time and place he sent it, then u dont have to worry...
if u want to track i suggest u buy this software at
http://www.emailtrackerpro.com/
it will trace it easily
2007-10-23 07:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by TheReaper 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is a question for your lawyer and maybe even for a computer expert. There may be a way to track the e-mail to learn exactly what computer it was sent from and what time. If you could prove you weren't at that location at that time, and that your husband had sufficient access and knowledge to hack into your account, you would certainly be able to raise doubt as to the credibility of the message? Furthermore, was this a one-time thing and not your habit, or does he have a whole bunch of messages from you at different times? In other words, was this a typical way for you to communicate with him--if not, that might help your case. It may just come down to "he said, she said" in court. You need to do everything you can to come across during the proceedings as the calm rational one so the judge will see that you are credible.
Be very careful, he is probably tapping your phone calls and/or recording your conversations too. Better limit contact to with other witnesses present, or better yet through the attorneys at this point.
Talk to your lawyer and listen to his/her advice. If you don't have one, it's time to get the best one you can possibly afford.
2007-10-23 07:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by arklatexrat 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
He would have to prove its authenticity.Since it is a possibility that he knows your passwords and such, there is a chance that it is in fact a fake. So therefore I dont believe there will be any rulings based on that email. If it is in fact found out that he conjured up this email, then his credibility will be at stake and the judge will probable sway in your direction.
2007-10-23 07:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by vixxen 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call your e-mail provider and ask them to tell you the IP address that the e-mail came from.
On your computer if you go to Run and type in CMD
a little black pop-up box will appear
type in: ipconfig
look for the IP address - that's unique to YOUR computer.
Write down the IP address the e-mail provider gave you, if it doesn't match, you know your ex probably sent it.
You might also want to get the IP address from your work computer too, so he can't try to say you sent it from there.
2007-10-23 07:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, judges in divorce court have nothing better to do than reverse their decisions. They live for it...because there aren't enough divorces going on out there to keep them busy enough as it is.
Close all your accounts and open new ones with new passwords and let the last contact you have with him be you telling him to knock himself out. Because if you didn't send one it would have to come from someone's computer and it wouldn't be yours, it'd be his...every computer has its own personal code which attaches to every email, every webpage, etc.
2007-10-23 07:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you have children that is all that you discuss with him. Anything from that point you refuse to discuss. Tape some of his calls to prove he is harassing you...and never respond on the phone to him by using bad language but be calm after he has rattled on and ask him to please stop. Just imagine the judge listening in on your response to him and let him hang himself!
2007-10-23 07:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has to prove it and I would suggest changing the password on your email, which is something you should have done a long time ago.
2007-10-23 07:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
enable me guess...Bar or strip club? adult males will continually do what they go with they don't look to be very sturdy at hiding it yet us as woman in love do not see it because we are blinded by their love. commence paying more suitable interest to belongings you'll likely observe so a lot more suitable lies now that you spot one you'll commence to ensure all of them. adult males do not care in the experience that they damage us noticeably in the experience that they are comfortable in a courting or marriage and understand they could ruin out with that crap. you go with to confront him and ask why he felt the go with to do what ever it truly is you obviously requested him no longer to do and ask him how he ought to like it if the shoe change into on the different foot.
2016-10-22 21:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are perfectly safe. They cannot take an unsubstatiated email as evidence of anything, I do recommend you change your email company and password so it cannot happen again.
Good Luck
2007-10-23 07:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by mn lady 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes but it is going to be along process tell the judge that you did not do it and let them investigate the will go into his comoputer and they can anilize it and they can see the time and date it was send they can get him on this it is condisdered fraud he will be in deep ****.
2007-10-23 07:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋