Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

Hi ..

Request your suggestion.

We met in a marriage before 10 yrs . Spend time for 10days became very close and seperated. She went to her native place and I came back to my Native.

we are contactless till now.

Now ...I came to know that their relatives are trying to do her marriage with me.

No contacts with her now.

Is is better to have a positive mindset on this girl based on our frendship before 10 yrs. ???

I cant just ignore their offer simply.... coz she may be the better match for me .

Please suggest me ...wht to do now ?

2007-10-23 20:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by hazarath r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we all get pissed off at times but theres such a thing called lettin it go,but i dnt know y he always goes on n on n on in arguments saying horrid things n then its me to blame for mking the initial comment.though that was a result from his action.apologizing doesnt wrk.y has he a short temper,by the way its only with me not with his family.wat do i do?

2007-10-23 20:48:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My roomate always bursts in at 3 AM, drunk, and starts walking and knocking into things. He then starts watching Seinfeld on his computer on really loud volume and usually eats something very loudly. I usually wake up and cannot get to sleep. To top it all off, he falls asleep soundly and starts to snore. I've talked to him but he does not stop. What should I do?

2007-10-23 20:46:11 · 14 answers · asked by Bobbo 2 in Friends

2007-10-23 20:44:19 · 21 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 20:35:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sylvia R 2 in Singles & Dating

how do you know when your a slut i have slept with 250 women in the past month is that a problem????
and no i dont have any stds

2007-10-23 20:34:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This might seem really stupid but would it bother any other women if your guy read a newspaper with page 3 models in it once in a blue moon. Like if he was waiting for a sandwich to be made at lunchtime or something?

2007-10-23 20:34:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, I know this is a shallow question and the weight/size of the diamond shouldn't matter when choosing an engagement ring, because its just a symbol of love and all but I'm just curious...
Please don't insult me for wanting to get her a big diamond.
It's not like I have a lot of money but my partner will be wearing this ring for the rest of her life so I want to get something considered heavy (in carats). How many carats do you think is average?

2007-10-23 20:34:08 · 38 answers · asked by bananas4breakfast14 2 in Weddings

i'm 20, my bf has no job yet, but he is responsible person. I'm living with my mom. My 1 brother has 2 baby and did not yet marry. my other broher's wife is pregnant too but married last year.. They both have no work-also their wife.. they are still finding.. my mom is a Christian and teaching the word of God and we, her children (4) grew in the love of God but I don't know what happened to us.. I still believe that in every person, comes disapointment.. now, my mom is very depressed because of my brothers and i don't like to add in my mom's burden.. My mom dreams for me is to have job, marry before having a baby.. i felt guilty that I ruin her dreams and I don't like too to destroy her reputation.. many people respects her a lot for advising and teaching the word of God.. What will I do now? Will i marry my BF now that I'm pregnant or marry him after I will gave birth? How about abortion? no one knows yet that I'm pregnant for 1 month except my BF..help me out.. advice me..pls..

2007-10-23 20:25:30 · 11 answers · asked by cute 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 20:22:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dated my ex 2 years we broke up like 4 months ago now hes asking for my help with his problem

2007-10-23 20:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by shyhotchick242006 2 in Singles & Dating

diff understanding of things, diff cultures, diff age groups affects thinking, and of course diff locations diff upbringings. i am from Delhi, India.

I am a guy and thinking of getting married. i am going for arranged marriage so before that i want to assess the personality of the candidates/females. cos i do not want any crook, evil, dominating, selfish etc kind of a girl.

I want a adjusting, loving, mature, understanding, and not a crook kind of a girl.

so how do i assess the girls. since i am not a psychiatrist.

what are the ways of assessing a girl or a person through conversation .

what are the other things by which a person can be assessed as in his overall personality.??

Thanks for answering and your precious time.

Take care .

have a nice day.

God bless u.

Bye,

2007-10-23 20:18:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jerry Maguire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex husband and me start going out at high school i got pregnet when i was 16 and we have a girl.I drop out of high school so i could start my family things change he got mad at everything and was jealous of everybody that talk to me.I never cheaded on him and one day i got tired of his bad attitude and left him.After a month i started going out to clubs with my friends and start having fun i did not want to think about him.I was like this for two years until one day i got pregnet of my best friend we were drinking and i told him that i miss my husband and that i love him alot and he told me that he loved me and that he could make me and my daughter happy.I did not want to be with him because i see him as a friend know my son is 4 and my ex husband got married and haves a 2 month old daughter and everytime he comes to pick up my daughter i get sad because i want to tell him that i love him and that i will never forget him i need help his married and i dont want any problems.

2007-10-23 20:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it in this day and age, people still have to worry that their family will disown them for being who they are.

It is miserable to see that people are afraid of their own family's reaction to their sexuality.

2007-10-23 20:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

been with my bf for almost 3 years (will be 3 in Feb). we have wonderfully loving relationship but it's had ups and downs due to me being diagnosed w/PMDD about 5 months ago (now see a counselor and take meds). we dont live together but i spend all my time w/out my 3 daughters at his house. he's 29 no kids, never married and i'm 28 w/3 girls from previous marriage.

he loves my kids (sees them at least once a week) and we are VERY close. have discussed moving in and living together but he says things have to fall into place and can't be rushed.

we are seeing my counselor together tomorrow and she asked us to answer 2 questions but not show each other the answers. well i emailed him the questions so he wouldn't lose them and he accidently emailed me his answers!! pls read rest...

2007-10-23 19:59:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

guys, any reason why you will like flirting with this one girl (who is already taken), care for her so much. and you do not want sex, do not like her in that special way. flirt because you like her as a friend? is it possible

2007-10-23 19:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does love ever feel the same? i've split with my ex 5 months ago and i still miss her terribly, i still love her and can't imagine been with anyone but her but this isn't going to happen and if it ever does it won't be for many years. She was the first person i've ever really truly loved. Will it ever feel the same to fall in love again? i can't imagine feeling anything towards anyone else like i did with her. Does love feel the same the second time around or is it not as strong?

2007-10-23 19:52:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so yeah, last saturday, there was this 2 to 3 year old toddler who came over to my house since his mom is a friend of my mom's. so i was kinda bored and came over to watch him play and decided to play toy cars with him on the rocks surrounding my fish pond. so when i was playing with him, he suddenly came close to me and placed both his hands onto my shoulders and i don't know if he wanted to give me a hug or if he was about to fall and needed support.

i catched him and said "wow! wow! wow!" thinking at that point of time he was about to lose his balance and fall or something. so i can't figure out what that cute little kid was trying to do. but anyway, i feel so touched and started to feel motherly the whole time i was with him. so is that good or bad for a 14 yr old kid who before this thinks that toddlers and babies are troublesome and irritating?

2007-10-23 19:49:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

so yeah, last saturday, there was this 2 to 3 year old toddler who came over to my house since his mom is a friend of my mom's. so i was kinda bored and came over to watch him play and decided to play toy cars with him on the rocks surrounding my fish pond. so when i was playing with him, he suddenly came close to me and placed both his hands onto my shoulders and i don't know if he wanted to give me a hug or if he was about to fall and needed support. i catch him and said "wow! wow! wow!" thinking at that point of time he was about to lose his balance and fall or something. so i can't figure out what that cute little kid was trying to do. but anyway, i feel so touched and started to feel motherly the whole time i was with him. so is that good or bad for a 14 yr old kid who before this thinks that toddlers and babies are troublesome and irritating?

2007-10-23 19:47:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i test him out on the 2nd date? I have a feeling he doesn't remember me as a child but insisted he does

2007-10-23 19:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by angelgirly111 1 in Singles & Dating

So my ex-GF of 5 years has moved on to someone who doesnt even measure up to anything close to me..so i figured ok she moved on right so i wanted to stop talking to her and that was it cut all contact..well she keeps iming me at random just to say hi or hey even if i have told her before to leave me alone..i have even hung out with her a few times once we cuddled and watched movies..but she still has the BF that she now says shes in love with..i just see it as its not my problem what she does while shes with him..but im just wondering if i should stick around and be her friend to maybe see if we could get back together or should i just leave it be and ignore her ims or anytime she tries to contact me or ask to hang out?

2007-10-23 19:45:55 · 10 answers · asked by YOUR M 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends include as one of their "bestfriend"
some of my friend says that w could only have one best friend... what should I consider?

2007-10-23 19:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Love is life,Love is Feelings,Love is Effections,Love is Everything.

2007-10-23 19:35:03 · 9 answers · asked by kanna M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend went out last night with his co-workers because they were supposed to have a business meeting, but they ended up going to a strip club. I know it's not cheating, but we have 2 babies and I don't think a family man should go to strip clubs.
He says he didn't do anything wrong because he told me he went there.
I just don't think it's right for him to go to strip clubs, when he could be home helping me with the babies? He's never home as it is.

Am I wrong?

2007-10-23 19:32:46 · 7 answers · asked by Trish 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 29 years old divorced woman. I didn't have sex since my divorce and its been 3 years. My family is very conservative and its a shame to have sex in our culture but i'm really tired of it. I feel that i can't take it anymore but all the social and cultural barriers prevent me from doing it. Is having sex will make me a slut in the eyes of others? I get many offers from men at Work and always tempted to say yes and do it. I'm really confused.

2007-10-23 19:31:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been together for almost two years, and recently he expressed to me that he did not love me at all. he said he hadn't loved me for a long time. i just dont understand how you could tell someone you love and dont mean it. thats hurts so much more than to just not say it at all.

2007-10-23 19:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I met this girl (girl A) like 2 months ago and since then we have hung out a lot (we go to different schools and live like an hour away)...I fell for her really fast and it is something that hasn't happened to me before....but like when we were watching a scary movie at the jumpy parts she would sorta burrow into me, and a little bit ago we went to a haunted house and it seemed to go ok but afterwards I was texting her friend (girl B) about the next night (me and girl A were supposed to hang out) and she told me that she (Girl A) really didn't want to go (it was to someones house to watch a movie) and I couldn't contact her (A) to find out, and when I replied with a sad face (lol) she (B) asked if I really liked her...well I told her I do and she (B) replied that she (A) likes this guy from her school and she knows he likes her back and so when I told her, I would wait to see what happens with that, she (B) just kept saying not to wait and its ok if I find someone to go with them

2007-10-23 19:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by Adda Badda Slavia 1 in Singles & Dating

From an ex to his ex--- "Who knows, maybe one day in the future we could finish what we started.. All I know is, I put all that time into our relationship, the other guy ended up with you"

2007-10-23 19:29:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She fell in love with a happily married classmate and they met in a remote resort and none of them informed their respective spouses.Neither his wife nor me know of their secret email correspondence till I found her passionate love letter.He cut off this relation later though she contacted him on phone.When I contacted him he said it was only a frienship and that he did not know she was loving him till I told him.She even dragged me to a lawyer but refused to give divorce as she never thought of it anytime of her life, even during the affair though the letter suggests otherwise.Now she asks me to forgive her and I feel she loves me now.But she gets so wild and disrespectful sometimes that I wonder whether my life with her is worth so much pain and insult except for two wonderful kids who we love very much.For the past 9 months,she has been very nice to me and I am also beginning to love and respect her unlike in the past.She asks me to trust her and never bring this up as she lovesme

2007-10-23 19:27:39 · 23 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i test him out on the second date? I won't hookup with him.

2007-10-23 19:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley K 1 in Singles & Dating