i dated my ex 2 years we broke up like 4 months ago now hes asking for my help with his problem
2007-10-23 20:21:48 · 13 answers · asked by shyhotchick242006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to deal with is own problems and be a man and be resposible for his actions.
2007-10-23 20:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-25 09:53:58 · answer #2 · answered by kristen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great ex. I must say he was madly into this girl. What help does he want from you? Does he want you to launch an investigation on why the condom broke and the girl got pregnant?
Stay away from him. He got her pregnant, it's his duty to look after the welfare of the mother and child. If he talks about abortion, try to convince him otherwise. But you stay away from all this. It's not your problem and you need not act like the Messiah!
2007-10-23 20:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend how nice for you to be concern with the problem of your exboyfriend. I admire you for that! Unwanted preggy is a result of uncontrolled emotion of both sides. Sometimes we have to face the truth that this is a sign of immaturity of both parties, but what can we do we are just human subject to temptation. We have to face the problem squarely with a win-win solution. If they love each other, they could settle down by getting married. But if they don't they should arrive in a solution that no one will be put in a bad situation. Definitely abortion is not a solution because it is against God, specially if you are a Christian.
Just a little advice to you my friend, please try to examine the sincerity of your exboyfriend, is he telling the truth, maybe he is only making a ploy.
2007-10-23 20:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by EDRO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's asking for advice- give it to him. he might be feeling confused right now and you're the best person to ask-i'll assume that you know him well since you've been in a relationship with him.
he should be decided that he's willing to spend his whole life with the mother of the girl if he decides to marry her. nowadays, with broken marriages and separation/ divorces are at all time high, marriage in "accidents" such as these is not advisable. however, tell him that it's not the child's fault- thus, he should take responsibility for his actions. give support to the child-emotionally and financially.
now, if he's asking you for help re financing the child, that's a different story ;-)
good luck!
2007-10-23 20:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by kazak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to p.ss off. Who does he think he is asking you for advice on getting another girl pregnant. On the other hand, if it was a mutual break up, then try and help cos he would still be your friend.
2007-10-23 20:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by susie h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that although you would like to remain in contact with him, the best person to talk to this certain situation would be the child's mother.
Kindly congratulate him on his soon to be addition to his family and tell him to have a nice day.
2007-10-23 20:25:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him to take his problem to someone else. Tell him you'll give him the number to a good listener. Her name is operator. She'll be glad to direct him in the right way.
2007-10-23 20:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings that its not you....
If you have no problem in giving him advice and still maintaining your distance, go ahead.. it doesn't hurt to be nice. Clearly, he values your opinion.
2007-10-23 20:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.
This is SO not your problem!
Please, stay OUT of his situation. He created it, probably while cheating on YOU.
The guy is BAD NEWS. Stay AWAY!!!
2007-10-23 20:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋