Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i test him out on the 2nd date? I have a feeling he doesn't remember me as a child but insisted he does
2007-10-23 19:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by angelgirly111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SEVEN years and he is not done partying or being responsible? Sorry girl... this is not the guy for you. You can do so much better! Tell him your busy. Or tell him your going on a date with a guy who has a degree and doesn't live to party anymore. He's probably just after sex, and wants to see how low your standards are in order for him to sleep with you. DON'T DO IT. Please.. . Be strong and tell him no thanks! And listen to your womanly intuition. That will tell you a lot more than what some shady party guy with no degree or ambition tells ya!
2007-10-23 19:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so suddenly you're "dating"? Look, he's hanging out with you and getting to know you. If he's being that blunt about being an irresponsible mess he's not just trying to score. And don't read too much into the e-mail instead of a phone call. Maybe he sent it late at night, or while you were working, or from work or whatever.
Are you interested in this guy? Is that the hang up here? He's a self confessed loser, not a prize catch. So you need to decide what you want before you start testing him. If you're seeing something that's not there, then don't rush in.
2007-10-24 03:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys dont call. but we do email.
if i meet a girl online, i will call, because women like that. but once we meet and start dating, i will email.
if he didnt try to get you into bed on the first date, he is not just after sex.
i would guess ,however, that he does not want a long term serious relationship either.
2007-10-24 02:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he is just interested in sex. but be wary. he may just want someone he can trust, because you seem like a familiar person like you are his childhood friend. and he is puring his heart to you letting you know what he feel about himself and his achievement in life.
you said he didn't try to impress you, maybe he just wants to be friends with you.
2007-10-24 02:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by tolu_thegame10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋