Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

i'm kindof having a little (ok a large) guy problem. i am a freshman (im 14) in my high school. i like a senior(he's 17). i really do like him, he's very funny and really smart. he's even a little bit cute! the only problem is he is really shy, so i dont know if he's sending me signs too or not. he smiles at me evertime he sees me in school, and he sends me facebook messages at least 2-3 times a day. ive only known him for a few months, and i dont know if i should make the first move or not. PLEASE HELP!!

2007-10-23 15:20:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next year and was wondering if it was tradition for me to get my future wife a wedding present. I would ask her but that would kill the whole tradition type thing and I dont want to mess anything up.

2007-10-23 15:20:07 · 37 answers · asked by Kenneth E 1 in Weddings

2007-10-23 15:19:03 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Have you ever said something inelegant to a person you greatly admire, not knowing how much you would hurt that person? Well, I have. How do I get that person to believe the sincerity of my apology?

2007-10-23 15:18:15 · 9 answers · asked by dvatwork 7 in Friends

I am only 14. But my father is emotionally and mentally abusive. I could go on for hours about how horrible he is and it's not just because i am a teenager. He is a horrible man. Is it possible for me to take him to court so i can stay at my mothers full time? What kind of lawyer would i need?

2007-10-23 15:17:16 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, if they somehow aware of such consequences are likely to arise, why not just stay unmarried (without kids of course) instead of wasting loads of money on a wedding which lasted only a painful few years confusing the public . There are other meaningful things to do than this in the world!

2007-10-23 15:16:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 15:14:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-23 15:13:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Girls, both good and bad, prefer to date bad boys while they're young; they ignore all the nice guys, making us suffer in lonliness and despair while they go out and have all sorts of sexual pleasure with other men. But those bad guys dump them like they deserve, and now they want to marry a nice guy--the same nice guys (many of them virgins) whom they have selfishly neglected.

I, for one, will not tolerate such selfishness! Why should I take a sexually used girl? I don't want her, especially because she neglected me for the loser that abused her. It is for this reason that I will be searching for a modest foreign wife, not some selfish, used-up ***** in the States.

2007-10-23 15:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So obviously you are married, since you clicked this question :-) Im just curious..What are things you know now that you wished you had known before you were married? For example, I wish I had known to save up money..something like that?

2007-10-23 15:12:17 · 21 answers · asked by Susan F 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 15:11:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can any one help ;)

2007-10-23 15:11:24 · 7 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 25 and a stay at home of 2 small girls. My husband works full time and is finishing up his last semester of college, so he's gone from about 6:30 am to 6:30 pm, then we eat dinner as a family, put the kids to bed, and then he does homework or just relaxes. Lately I've noticed that our sex is different (doing stuff he's never done before - we've been together for 7 years) and he doesn't seem to care if I take off after the girls go to bed to run errands - even if I do it often. I had a dream last night that he was having an affair with a coworker. I was curious before, now I'm suspicious. Dumb, I know - it was just a dream.

Is this all in my imagination or would you be suspicious?

2007-10-23 15:10:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 15:09:58 · 2 answers · asked by andmic510 5 in Singles & Dating

ok well there is this guy in a grade higher than me. and i am pretty sure he likes me but im not sure...whenever i get hurt, he is always the first one to help me. when ever he is around, his best friend comes and hugs me and doesnt let go and then the guy i like kicks him. and also there is this halloween dance coming up this weekend...he hasnt asked me to it, but hes been talking about it to me...i think that he likes me but i am really confused...he is always around me and is always looking out for me....does he like me??

2007-10-23 15:09:28 · 4 answers · asked by .:volleyball:. 1 in Singles & Dating

we have some issues and lately he has removed is wedding band and said that he doesn't trust me because i filed a EPO a few months ago and when we went to court we talked about working on our marriage and that is what I thought we were doing and he has recently said that I could take his world away from him at anytime and he just doesn't trust me and he has resevations about us.when I try to bring up this and ask questions he blows up and says I need help if I can't understand his feelings and that I have to make everything about ME. I am to the point where I am afraid to say anything to him regarding us,but I feel if I don't we sre going nowhere.He likes to go to bars and drink and this last time he did it I asked him to wear his wedding band and not to be acting single and he once again said there you go making MY night into you. HELP I need some advice!

2007-10-23 15:07:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so every relationship i gave had has never worked out. i always doubt it. before i go to bed i feel that the relationship is good but throughout the day it makes me sick to think about it. am i not really ready to date yet??? is it me or him? i feel embaressed to be seen with the guy always because i think to myself i really dont like him??? but it has happened with every guy! if i talk to him its fine but then i stop and 5 minutes later... DOUBT! what do i do? is this a commitment issue?

2007-10-23 15:04:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this guy is really clingy and after only 2 weeks he says he loves me. i hvae tried to make up excuses about having allot of work and not being able to date him and he is like ill wait for you.... blah blah blah.... and i love you and thats for sure. Ive broken up with him like three times but somehow he guilts me back in by saying he loves me. He guilted me into saying i love him when i dont! and like the night i broke up with him after he said he will wait forever he says he has a new girlfreind. and then guilts me into saying that i love him... and my ex is his freind and we walked by him and my ex walk away and then he is all like Hey jim... and he gestures to me in a look what i have kinda way... he says he doesnt wanna be hurt again and what do i do to dump him!!!!

2007-10-23 15:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 15:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by Nika 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 15:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by Angelica1951 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance refuses to set a wedding date. We have been engaged for six months, and it is always one excuse after another. First it was that we were moving, then his mother couldn't fly out, then money. Now we need to iron out "problems" in our relationship. I ask him about what problems he is refering to, and he can't come up with anything. We fight just as much as any couple, about one argument per every 6-8 weeks. He has never had a relationship for longer than 2 months, and we have been together for about 18 months, so I think he doesn't realize that all couples have minor arguments and you just work them out. Grrr... What should I do?

2007-10-23 14:59:09 · 24 answers · asked by love 6 in Weddings

It seems as everytime someone says I'm cute it's always someone I don't like or someone ugly. Why don't the boys I think is cute don't talk to me? Is it true that dudes have a hard time talking to the really cute girls?

2007-10-23 14:58:39 · 5 answers · asked by kilakel 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and have been dating for a year and 7mo. and we are living with my MOTHER its not that bad but still, i want to see what the real world is like. Both me and him works, but we have way too much things to pay for, my older sister told me to just be at least halfway with all my credit cards and payments and stuff. but i don't know i always intend on spending. i want to move out into a studio because its cheaper, but he doesn't what should i do i need ways to save and advices on apartments

2007-10-23 14:57:31 · 4 answers · asked by Im_Fabolous 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23, my boyfriend is 19 and we live in 2 different countries. We have been dating for just over a year and we both aren't looking to marry or settle down soon but we are completely happy and in love with each other. We talk daily and are planing to move closer to each other once I'm done my degree in 6 months(I was already looking for a job where he lives before we even met). The first 4 months of our relationship we spent together in the same country. We trust each other completely so that is not an issue. What do you think the chances that something like this will last? Do you have any success stories??

2007-10-23 14:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met him on myspace, he is every thing i like

he knows how to break dance, kind, smart, and every thing else.

he says he "LOVES" me but i dont know about that

im not sure if he is telling the truth

he lives in ohio

should i trust him?
is it ok to go out on myspace?

2007-10-23 14:55:44 · 52 answers · asked by lina t 1 in Singles & Dating

I only dated this guy a few months but we were in love. The relationship itself did not end badly and for 2 weeks we were friends. During that time I let my hurt get to me several times and finally he was driven to hook up with another girl drunkenly. He knows I know about it and has not contacted me. I am completely crushed bc when he ended it he said it would be a long time before there was anyone else bc his ex did that to him and he knows how it feels and maybe things could work later. Whats weird is we were friends before and he never was the type to hook up with random girls. I kindly asked him to remove our photos from myspace considering there is no longer a friendship there which he will not so whatever. But how do I forget him? He was my first love.

2007-10-23 14:55:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 14:50:43 · 30 answers · asked by Jason K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 14:50:23 · 4 answers · asked by Venna B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would like to know when is best to ask her to marry me. I have been out of the country and fly back every so often to visit her. She knows I am done with the traveling in April however, they have notified me I have to stay till August. How do I let her know but at the same time bring up the idea of us moving in together? Lastly, should I wait to pop the question until I am home for good?

2007-10-23 14:49:48 · 27 answers · asked by whocares 2 in Singles & Dating

In the past, I've had a few experiences that filtered my feelings of trust and caused me to build up this wall.

Five or six years ago, when I stayed home from school one day because I had a cold. My mother had our neighbor over to fix something around the house. She said she had to see him out. My mother was married to my [ex] step father at the time, and my neighbor was married with children. When I didn't hear voices, I got up to go look for her, and I saw them kissing in the entrance of the front door. I remember how everything changed that day with how I viewed my mother. She had me promise to keep quiet. I felt betrayed for some reason. I felt that, if I could not even trust my mother, whom I had thought was an amazing role model until that day, who could I?

My father has disappeared from my life, and I can't even get upset with him for it. I've lost many friendships.

I feel selfish for complaining. I know I'm lucky in many aspects, and that many people have the same problem.

2007-10-23 14:49:38 · 6 answers · asked by Haine 2 in Family