i met him on myspace, he is every thing i like
he knows how to break dance, kind, smart, and every thing else.
he says he "LOVES" me but i dont know about that
im not sure if he is telling the truth
he lives in ohio
should i trust him?
is it ok to go out on myspace?
2007-10-23 14:55:44 · 52 answers · asked by lina t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as the two of you never meet face-to-face, online dating is the best. Don't exchange photographs. Do not talk on the phone.
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"I'm not sure if he is telling the truth." Doesn't matter in online dating. Have fun trying to work it out from what he says.
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"Should I trust him?" Doesn't matter in online dating. Have fun pretending you trust him.
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"He is every thing I like." Uh-uh. What he says is every thing you like. Neither of you can know if the other is anything they like. But, hey, enjoy playing with words. It takes intellgence to play the word game just right. From his words, you know you're not wasting your time on someone less than you are. And even if he is getting his genius nine-year old sister to write his words to you, you're genuinely feeling good about them.
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Last word, and then I'll shut up. Online dating is like a lovely dream. You get up from it and you feel really good all day. And the feeling good is real, even though you know a dream is totally unreal.
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2007-10-23 15:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think I'd do it. And I also wouldn't believe that he "loves" you, unless he means as a friend, just really likes you.
However, I do have a story for you. One of my good friends met her boyfriend of two years online. They started off talking through messages, which moved to flirting through messages, and then exchanging phone numbers. They live a 4 hour plane ride away from each other. So they had been "dating" for a year and a half, and never even met (she always had massive long distance charges though, from all the time they spent talking on the phone) She finally got to meet him in person for the first time six months ago when we had our high school prom. He flew all the way here so he could take her to a dance, in a city he'd never been to, with a bunch of her judgmental friends he'd never met. It was so sweet, he turned out to be an incredible guy and it was so easy to tell how in love they really are. They're still together, and he's coming back in a few weeks to visit her on her birthday, and as soon as he finishes university this year, he's moving here to be with her as she continues school.
So don't let anyone tell you that relationships like the one you're asking about can't work. I've see it happen. Good luck!
2007-10-23 15:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kat* 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I've had an 'Internet' dating once. We met on a forum of the same company. She was 340 kilometers away from me. We had very intimate conversations and finally met after 2 months of on-line and phone communication.It was excellent but it turned out bad for other reasons... I still think it's a bad idea because it's bad to get emotionally attached with someone you can't see everyday or whenever you fell like it. It's a dead end probably...
2007-10-23 15:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by paul_w810i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember the Internet is a play. People can make up anything they want about themselves. Just remember there is a chance it can actually be an over weight 45 year old man that just sits behind his computer and jacks off on little girl pictures. Because you can get pictures anywhere (strangers or family members) and you can lie very easily on the Internet. So be careful.
2007-10-23 15:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very careful with this. You don't say how old you are or how old he is and you don't say where you live. I assume you live in another state. If you're under 18 definitely not. If you're under 21 I wouldn't trust anyone who said they loved me and had never met me in person. Anyone can be anyone they want to appear to be on My Space. Sounds like he knows all the right things to say and just wants to see what he can get. Long distance relationships are always difficult. Please be smart about this and try and find someone who lives closer to you who shares your common interests.
2007-10-23 15:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by Gabfest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's okay.
Is it recommended?
Not really.
As stated before:
PEOPLE LIE ONLINE.
Whether it's online or not:
YOU CAN'T BELIEVE A GUY WHEN HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU.
Online + Long Distance never seems to work out for the better. You'd probably want a more local guy if he was online.
Myspace people do make good prom dates though. =D
2007-10-23 15:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by Amelia Pedophelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no NEVER DATE PEOPLE OFF ONLINE. of course that hes not telling the truth, many people tried being nice and smart online, but think realistically. dont ever talk to strangers in myspace, according to Tom, thats why Tom create privacy for people. Besides how can you actually date him, hes not living the same state as you are, how can you do that? if your planning to move there for him, please reconsider.
many ladies have been fooled by these men-tactic schemes, don't be like those other ladies.
2007-10-23 15:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♣♥♠♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can lie in Myspace starting from the age... Yeah if you want to have fun i guess go for it but do not take it serious and be careful, plus is your looking for a serious relationship i think you can do better out of myspace.
GOOD LUCK
2007-10-23 15:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by JUANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's "ok" yea...but it's also kind of dangerous, I mean people can create random profiles and pick up people...but check his his friends, does he have friends that talk to him regularly on myspace and does he have a lot of pictures of himself up? ...if so that makes it a little safer.
you wanna make it absolutly safe? call him while looking at him on the webcam. :-P lol there are tons of things you can do....dating online isn't the best...it doesn't usually work out but I'm not saying you cant!
If you ever plan on meeting him def take a friend or 2
2007-10-23 15:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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