Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

What should I tell my husband?

2007-10-23 16:16:04 · 38 answers · asked by ☼ɣɐʃʃɜƾ ɰɐɽɨɲɜɽɨƾ♀ 5 in Family

A few years ago, I was sexual assaulted by a good friend whom I thought I trusted. Now I have a boyfriend whom I have been with for a year and 6 months. When we began dating, we had sex lot up until the two year mark of my sexual assault. After that we had less and less sex. 6 months ago my boyfriend and I moved in together, and he yells at me for small mistakes I make all time. We still have sex every now and then but tonight he said, "You wanna know why i'm always pissed off and yell? it because you never give me sex. You think of that anytime that I get upset and yell at you that in reality its your own fault." That upset me and I think he yells because it's in his genes, not because I don't give him sex. Right? I also read that birth control can decrease you libido as well.

2007-10-23 16:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by xtine1985 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i put that i had never been married before because i read online that you have to have to paperwork showing you're divorced! i know it's bad but will they notice? i don't have the paperwork from the divorce it was years ago and i was only 18.

2007-10-23 16:12:06 · 10 answers · asked by .. 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want the traditional "Here comes the bride". My fiance and I are both rock fans, however I don't want anything heavy because our wedding will be in a church.

2007-10-23 16:11:47 · 15 answers · asked by apenasty127 1 in Weddings

2007-10-23 16:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by BluSigma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 16:09:18 · 1 answers · asked by b|ackwidow jess 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl that I like, and she's soooooooo hawt. Everytime I ask her out, she says no. I don't get it! I see her everyday, and she always smiles at me when she sees me. I can't get her off my mind! I'm eating chicken wings and drinking beer everynight, just so i can be close to her. I'm almost out of money though, and the manager of Hooters says if I special request her again on her nights off, he'll kick me out. (It doesn't matter, I know what nights she's off now) How can i get her to go out with me?

2007-10-23 16:07:37 · 20 answers · asked by ~Heathen Princess~ 7 in Singles & Dating

okae, so i met a guy online, and yeah we were "together" at heart as i may say bcuz we couldnt be together physically. we always talked about meeting but didnt talk about it again wen we broke up, well, he broke up w/ me and when the break up was still fresh we were still in contact until we slowly drifted apart making our communication juz completely gone. now, its been like 2-3 months that he has'nt made an effort to contact me. i have a feeling that he found somebody else. anyways, my auntie wants me to spend x-mas w/ her and she lives in the same city as my ex does. this would be a chance for us to meet right? so should i let him know that i'll be visiting? how should i let him know? text? email? call?(oh, he doesnt answer my calls anymore tho.) or should i juz not care? becuz of course im still curious about how a person that became a part of my life really is in person. so should i? what should i say? thanks for helping me! and if i do what expression will com up to him??

2007-10-23 16:06:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her father refuses to believe that she feels this way. Her father blames me for making her feel this way. She is starting to rebel against him by threatening to run away. She is starting to become quite anxious and teary when I try to discuss her problems. She finds it difficult to share her father with his new woman. She becomes quite upset when they are bad mouthing me. There is an order in place but I can't afford to take him to court for this. What should I do? Can I stand by my daughter and keep her at home whenever she feels she needs to (this is not all the time) usually after long stays with him after school holidays or when she has had a bad time there.

2007-10-23 16:06:03 · 8 answers · asked by Tara F 1 in Family

From the start, I didn't feel a spark. I felt forced to date him because his mom set us up. I realized though that as we dated, I was being drawn closer to him. He's a caring and thoughtful man- intelligent, open minded, experienced, and he was very interested in me from the start. He's 30 and I'm 23, and it has now been a year. I am very happy with him- he's very supportive, but I don't feel a spark! I feel comfortable with him, but I am not sure what it is- maybe we're missing the spiritual connection? We don't talk about religion because we have different beliefs, but maybe that is part of it? Or maybe I am so scared he's going to bring up marriage that I'm holding back? Sometimes I feel like its unfair because he got to have 7extra years of dating before he found me, and he obviously wants to be with me for the rest of his life. But I am 23- for me, this is not the age I planned to be ready for marriage, and I don't feel ready to commit myself that seriously. Thoughts?

2007-10-23 16:05:44 · 7 answers · asked by FutureDoc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She has decided to start dating again and I want to get her something to kind of help her with her self confidence. I thought a perfume would be nice. What perfume do you suggest that would help her attract a man. I believe scents are important part of attraction but it has been a long time since I have dated. Over 30 years to be exact. She is in her middle 40s.......

2007-10-23 16:03:43 · 11 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7 in Singles & Dating

about grades, GPA, soccer,
I dont know if i'll get a soccer scholarship to my college of choice, my grades are going really low, my parents took up my car, im grounded, theres drama in school, home, I barely get enough sleep, theres just so much stuff going on.
How to I cope with stress and get back to normal?

2007-10-23 16:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have, have you?


Best Friends For never

Nobody said it was easy to loose a best friend. I just cared for you and your wrong when I said I used you I would of never wanted to loose you, In fact I felt so used up that you could see one of your best friends get hurt so bad. I wish we could have the great times again, like the old days so many good memories so many lost thoughts gone from our stupidity and it makes me mad when I think of why we lost our friendship and why you had to be that way but I guess its all for the best, right I mean like you said if its meant to be we will become friends again we never tried and what’s fait if you don’t have a clue what to do next you obviously thought it was a game to play with me like that. Some days I still think we could have been friends but we were young and didn’t know how to react to the situation. I miss you and your memory is fading along with our sleepovers and get togethers witch I loved because you were my best friend for nev

2007-10-23 15:57:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been dating a month. I have no problem with him keeping pictures of himself and his ex girlfriend because no one should have to throw was their memories however I find it strange he still has them posted publically...facebook and myspace. I fear asking him about it because what if he still has feelings there? Ive asked once and still not gone. I find it strange bc one its a lot of photos and two they are no longer friends.

2007-10-23 15:55:21 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you think most girls in high school mind dating younger guys? i.e a senior with a sophomore ?

2007-10-23 15:55:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First Corinthians - Chapter 13:4-8

4. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8. Love never fails.

i just want to get you ppls perspectives on what you think these verses mean when it comes to relationships and jealousy!!! thanx...

2007-10-23 15:53:21 · 1 answers · asked by JV 1 in Singles & Dating

The proposal I have in mind involves giving my boyfriend a ticket and directions to hop on a train to my town and show up in a specific place at a specific time, where I will meet him.

Questions:

1. Any creative ideas for how I can make sure he doesn't make other plans for this particular evening? -- besides of course saying, "So what are you doing on Friday? I have other plans and won't be able to get together, but you shouldn't make plans with anyone else...I can't tell you why...." I was thinking of asking his sister to make plans with him -- which she would obviously expect to get canceled once he gets my note with "instructions."

2. What if everything is all set up but then he is rushing and gets stressed or he had a bad day and by the time he meets me he's tired and the moment isn't romantic anymore? Any suggestions for how to troubleshoot this proposal so that everything goes smoothly?

ps- He is expecting my proposal so no "Aren't you worried he'll say no?" answers.

2007-10-23 15:52:05 · 16 answers · asked by weirdiscomplimentary 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 15:48:34 · 18 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 15:47:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does this happen to you, when you are falling in love ?

2007-10-23 15:46:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been engaged to my woman for almost four years now. Not in my mind have I ever considered cheating or let alone talking to another woman... for I know what it feels like . The thing is about six or seven months ago she lied to me about this part time job she got, while she was attending nursing school ( cna ). Okay I had afeeling this cleaning job was for a male... but she insisted it was not ! ( LIE ) I was correct.... I recently found out , I was crushed let alone betrayed ... ???? should i do ??? Come to find out she's been sleeping over night more than once > Now April is trying to insist she did not sleep with HIM JOE ( home wrecker )

2007-10-23 15:44:48 · 2 answers · asked by Puzzy L 1 in Singles & Dating

he has been having an internet affair with this chick, that had previously been physical with, i caught him 20mths ago and thought it was over, then i busted him still in contact with her about 2mths ago, he writes to her all sorts of beautiful things, he works away for 2 weeks and then is home for a week,and now he is being suspicious of me!!!

2007-10-23 15:42:34 · 14 answers · asked by andianaplus3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A voice message was waiting for my husband to recieve. I usually dont snoop around his stuff, however it was 3 o'clock in the morning. At first I thought it was from his mom since she has been very ill lately, but when I looked to see who it was I found out it was some woman. Looking a little suspicious I decided to check it out. When I got to his voice mail the woman exactly said, " Hey babe I miss you. I cant wait to see you tomorrow. I love you!" my heart was broken. I confronted my husband about it and he said that nothing was going, that she likes him, and they just talk and blah blah blah. I told him not to talk to her anymore and I caught him three times. I even called the lady up very nicely and she said nothing was going on either but my husband told her that him and i were seperated. But my husband denies everything! I dont know what to believe him or her?

2007-10-23 15:39:23 · 41 answers · asked by Mikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I have a friend who is 17 and he has a friend who is 22. But his family wants to get the 22 year old arrested for just talking to him. I told him that I don't think it's possible but I am not too sure. Can you arrest someone just for talking as friends?

2007-10-23 15:39:20 · 11 answers · asked by lostprophet639 1 in Friends

2007-10-23 15:33:32 · 8 answers · asked by Kaualani E 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now and we have 2 children together. last week, while laying in bed together, she told me that she loved me but she wasn't in love with me and wanted to split up. She then told me that she wants to be friends and nothing more. This has crushed me as she and the girls were my life. Earlier today, She told me that I didn't have to move out of our home. If I want, she will move out and leave the children with me. I don't know what to do. I love my children with all my heart and I know they will have a better life with me. I am looking for advice as to what I should do. She has also told me that there MIGHT be hope for us later but she doesn't know what she wants yet. Does any one think I should stay true to my heart and wait or should I open myself to others.

Please help me.

2007-10-23 15:28:26 · 15 answers · asked by tsmoreland324 2 in Family

I know they say that you are suppose to love them just the way they are, but lets face it, no one is perfect and we all have some defects. Some show up early in the relationship and others come up when its a little too late.

Please answer truthfully. I will pick an honestanswer as the best.

Thank you in advance.

2007-10-23 15:25:10 · 8 answers · asked by [I ♥ R.Hamilton] 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are hiring a band that plays 50s, 60s, 70s rock & roll, motown, doo-wop stuff. Anyone have a good idea for first dance song from 50s, 60s, and 70s?

2007-10-23 15:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my family is getting divorced my mom is getting full custody and does not make enough to support us so my oldest brother is also working to help but he also has to go to college so he's going to stress out some.my sister whose in the middle of my brother and me (im the youngest)is a ****** spoiled BRAT that is very selfish and wont want to work now that she is going to be 16 i hate her i want her to work so she can pich in with the bills i WANT TO DO SOMETHING TO HELP!im thinking of becoming a dog walker or something so i can help I feel so useless that i cant do anything.WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-10-23 15:22:12 · 3 answers · asked by jkhfkjsadhkj k 1 in Family

In my high school, this girl shares english class, which is always my last class of the day. She also practices cross country, of which I'm a member too.
Anyway, she is nearly always looking at me, usually smiling and I also look at her a lot.
She doesn't have a boyfriend, im certain of that but I'm not sure what to do of this.
I've tried talking to her a few times, although I guess that the conversation ideas were kind of weak (HW, how did you do on race X). She gladly answered but usually conversation ends there.
And so I'm confused, is she interested in me? She has tried talking to me, but its always been kind of meaningless things that wouldn't really lead to a conversation. Is she shy, not interested in me, or waiting for me to show signs of mutual attraction before taking any action.

Sorry for the long post :/

2007-10-23 15:21:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating