2007-10-23 15:48:34 · 18 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a boyfriend who is also not sexually active. Sounds like the naked boyfriend is trying to tempt you out of your celibacy. Don't give in if it's not what you wanna do yet. Good Luck staying strong...willpower and all that!
2007-10-23 15:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mama Nuveau 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not having sex because you're not ready or because of religious or moral beliefs and you don't want the pressure of sex then it would probably be a little uncomfortable.
It's hard to not want to have sex when someone in front of you is naked. obviously you're attracted to him since it's your boyfriend, and if you don't want to by physical then he probably should respect that enough to stay clothed.
There's really no reason he has to be naked.
Now if you're comfortable doing things with him that are sexual but not intercouse then I guess this isn't a big deal. but if him being nakes makes it hard for you to not want to have sex then you should ask him to stay dressed. I think I'd be a little upset that he wasn't respecting my boundaries.
2007-10-23 22:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by dapoetic1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Tell him that your not ready for all of this and that you wanna take things slow, If you care about him seriously, then you can tell him that you want more out of the relationship then sexual activities and that him getting naked does not turn you on... it's more of a turn off.
2007-10-23 22:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by tickerspam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are comfortable with it and he is respectful of your feelings, I don't see a problem.
I am not sure what you mean by "getting naked for you," (does he just lay around and happen to be naked, or is he doing it in a sexual way?), but if you feel like this is his way of aggressing at you for not being active with him, or it makes you uncomfortable at all, he is not being sensitive to you and it should be addressed.
2007-10-23 22:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cross my arms, look him right in the eye, and say, "I didn't realize you belonged to a Nudist Camp!- I am NOT a Member, and, THIS, I cannot handle- Get your clothes on, and don't let the door hit you in the butt, especially if it is buck naked!" If you are NOT comfortable with this, tell him this. If he continues this behavior, rethink this relationship, as he is not respecting you. You do deserve better, right? Good luck and take care!
2007-10-23 22:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear, most men think that's a turn on, and think it's going to get you into bed, if that's not what you want tell him, are just in joy the show, but let him know that just doesn't work on you....
2007-10-23 23:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether or not you are comfortable with it. If you are comfortable, sit back and enjoy the view, men have nice bodies! but if it is not comfortable for you, for any reason, talk to him about it. He should cover up out of respect for you
2007-10-23 22:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would he think getting naked would be something you wanted?
Tell him again if you're not ready....and then tell him to put his clothes back on.
2007-10-23 22:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay he is a guy and that is how guys are and he is trying to get you naked weither he admits it or not
2007-10-23 22:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wants to have sex? the most possible answer likely o-o or maybe he might just like being naked... LOL
2007-10-23 22:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋