Can you help me?

Question

There's this girl that I like, and she's soooooooo hawt. Everytime I ask her out, she says no. I don't get it! I see her everyday, and she always smiles at me when she sees me. I can't get her off my mind! I'm eating chicken wings and drinking beer everynight, just so i can be close to her. I'm almost out of money though, and the manager of Hooters says if I special request her again on her nights off, he'll kick me out. (It doesn't matter, I know what nights she's off now) How can i get her to go out with me?

Answer 1

Follow her home one night. Maybe she just says no because her coworkers are watching. I bet she'd be more receptive of your charms in a more private setting.

Good Luck.

Answer 2

First off are you a dude or a chick?Second don't imagine things that are not there..She smiles at you cause you are a paying customer..That's how she sees you..Nothing more than that.Now if you really want to get her, when you go in the next time,just say "Hi" or wave and be seated somewhere other than her station..That way if she comes to you, she'll start the conversation.Now the tricky part,just talk to her normal WITHOUT,(a.) giving her compliments,(b.)asking her out,(c.)disclosing to much about yourself.In other words make small talk with her without you showing that your interested in her.In fact excise yourself and make a phony phone call ( to a photographer,director,use your imagination ) to someone..What you are trying to do is spark her curiosity about you.And when you leave, act like your in a hurry to get some where.These girls hear how pretty they are all the time and date proposals.Set yourself apart from the rest of the customers by doing this..Also you might have to do this more than once.But if do the above mention probably in 2 weeks she'll ask if you want to go some where....Remember just play it cool and you'll score the Hooter's babe..

Answer 3

Sorry but it sounds like she is not interested in you. Why don't you stop asking her out and be just be a nice guy to her, then eventually a friend. Once she gets to know you she might want to go out with you. Sounds like she is only smiling and being nice to you because she is working and has to. Don't make her or the boss think that your a stalker or a trouble maker. Respect their rules and just be friendly. If she still doesn't want to go out with you after she gets to know you then she isn't the one for you.

Answer 4

There is a line between persistence and creepy. It sounds like you have already crossed that line, but you can redeem yourself if you leave her a gift with a card that says You really appreciate who she is (yada, yada, yada...) Flowers one week, two weeks later a vase with a special grouping... then lay low and when you go in next time, dont act over eager, just keep the praise on her and off of you... She will like it over time...

Answer 5

Just be more passionate and understanding. Women like to be understood and we enjoy small compliments like on our clothes or perfume. If you're that desperate, try getting to know her more. I don't think this is worth it because by the time you get to go out with her you won't have much money left. Just give up. There are tons of other ladies to go for without having to pay money.

Answer 6

I think you should settle down a bit.
Take a chill pill.

If the girl says no there are 2 choices;
1) She really doesn't want to go out with you.
2) She is playing hard to get.

Its up to you to decide which one it is.

Answer 7

do u like her cause she s quote "hawt" or because of her personality because there's a big difference between crush/ infatuation and love so u need to sort that out first then if u love her u need to get to know her better instead of just asking her out with out knowing like her favorite band or something.

Answer 8

I'm having the same problem. Are we after the same girl? I think I've seen you flirting with her. Maybe that why she won;t go out with me, but why won't she go out with one of us? You know I've been watching you too and I think you are hot. How about you and me give up on her and we'll go out together?

Answer 9

maybe you're not her type and maybe she smiles at you because she's friendly..lol but yeah like if you want her to go out with you then you dont just ask her out like that make conversation then you go for the kill otherwise make her notice you in a way that other people won't do.

Answer 10

I'm thinking either she's already involved in a relationship or she isn't homosexual. Maybe she smiles and give you good service at work because she wants a good tip.