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i dont want to break her heart i know he is wrong because i have seen him doing bad things with girls and he is all ways in bed with another girl everyday what should i tell her what will her reaction be please help

2007-10-23 18:29:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 55 years old Indian with two children. I was a divorcee.Later I married second time a lady having 3 children deserted by her husband. I took care of all of them for last 18 years and grow up the children. She drove away my two children from the house. Last two years I was sick.My children took me and spend huge amount of money cured me. On return home I find her very close to a new neighbour 80 years old widower who is rich. In the pretext of caring him she has started sleeping at his house where both are alone. She says that there is no illicit connection but just pure nursing. The tie is so strong that even after knowing that I have fainted she did not bother to come and see me. Neighbours took me to hospital. The 80 years old man goes to his native place to collect money every three months. This time he has gone but telephones almost eight times a day and talks 20 mts each time. Now she wants me to write my property in her name. Please advise me on Indian perspective.

2007-10-23 18:28:46 · 7 answers · asked by Kittu_pondy 2 in Family

money is being deducted from my earnings on a monthly basis. The money being deducted is NOT backpay. My question is...
since i have agreed to take my kids for a month do i have an immediate right to the child support that is being deducted?

2007-10-23 18:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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Is it wrong to want to see my 18 yr old girlfriend having sex with a couple older guys? This is something I think about alot and wanna see happen.

2007-10-23 18:25:17 · 9 answers · asked by pennsylvaniaboy07 1 in Singles & Dating

I accidentally hook up wit another two men. The 1st one i admit was my fault but the 2nd one was not really my fault coz i didn't want it. I just didn't know what 2do coz he was my lecturer back then. My fault that i accepted it when he asked me out. I thought it's just an innocent scholarly outing. I didnt expect a so called respectable scholar/author/professor 2do dat. It's so gross. I begged him not to do anything to me, however in a split second he just did! He tricked me and i didnt know how to get out of d mess. Though i was very immature& stupid, i was honest with my bf. I know i am to be blamed, i cant live with the guilt until now. I feel like killing myself. Esp after the 2nd time, it hits me so badly coz i didn't want it so the trauma and phobia kicks in as well. But now my bf is abusing me mentally n physically. I'm staying bcoz i feel guilty&responsible 4 ruining everything. He's staying coz he loves me so much regardless wat happen but he's torchering me at the same time.

2007-10-23 18:24:06 · 2 answers · asked by Dark Dickinsonian 4 in Singles & Dating

if you are a guy and clicked on this it is your last chance to click off...


TOO LATE

i got my period like a year ago and it lasted only like 3 days and VERY little blood! but now it has progressed to around 7 days and i lose more blood each time!!! if i had to estimate how much i lost last time i would say around 5 pints( since 1 is average) i feel dizzy and have stomachaches during my period rather than before it( nothing happens before) should i be concerned or is this normal?

2007-10-23 18:23:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The daughter is getting married. Her Mother died several years ago. The Dad & his girlfriend have been going out for 3 months, seeing each other almost every night. Everybody in the family get along w/the girlfriend & they all get together often. It's a very large wedding, where should the girlfriend sit. Certainly not in the Mother of the bride's place? But where?

2007-10-23 18:21:00 · 13 answers · asked by ICUsmile 3 in Weddings

i would like to know how common it is for a couple to have a date and not wind up being intamate on the said date?

2007-10-23 18:19:57 · 13 answers · asked by Almost Happy Housewife 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to have an equal amount of free nights as my partner.
He works full time in sales from 9am to 5 pm, and take care of our 4 month old baby from 8:30 pm until bedtime. He helps take her a bath pretty much every night.
I encouraged him to go on a weekend vacation with his friends and asked for a night out by myself, in return.
Tonight, he went out to a friends birthday party at a bar and I wanted a night out in exchange, as well.
My aim is to get some equality in the time we get to spend out.

My boyfriend replied, "One night." And was so confident that I was asking too much by wanting to make my social life equal to his, that he told me to confide in my mother about it. He thought even she would agree with him that, " that's not how things work." Well, my mom thinks this is a red flag, and so do I.


What do this mean to you all?

2007-10-23 18:16:56 · 21 answers · asked by O new moon 3 in Family

Just curious of opinions, these days in the US so many women/men (hooking up) living with their partners for months or even years, then to split up. Aren't these folks pretty much similar to divorsed women/men. I mean if they had a place together, lived together, even had kids together. The fact that they did not get a marriage license should not really make a difference, no? Is there a category for women/men like these, more that just "dated", since it was so much more?. Furthermore, same idea could apply to gf/bf that has a place but lives with bf/gf most of the time - say 4 or 5 days out of a week. Thoughts?

2007-10-23 18:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by malk e 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay So...
I started going out with this girl in late September.
Things were great.
Took her on a great date, took and had a great time at a party, talked on the phone for hours, met and found out her parents really liked me, etc..
However, things started to change as grades were coming in..you see, she was struggling in a few of her classes, and asked for a break so she can raise them.Of course, I gladly respected her descision and gave her the space she nedded to raise her grades. But then, she started to avoid me, tried to ignore almost any type of contact I would try to have with her, and gave a very concernd look on her face everytime I would talk to her.

Few days after giving her a week of space, I was talking to her about how she was doing in school. She then all of a sudden said "I think we should break up, I really want to focus on school, I don't want a boyfriend right now, and I really just want us to be good friends."
This made things akward.
What should I do?

2007-10-23 18:15:33 · 18 answers · asked by Eli 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex husband has full custody of my 4 girls under what i would call suspicious circumstances. despite the fact that i have not been stripped of any parental rights he does have the ability to keep me from my children. during the custody proceedings he was treated with respect, listened to and catered to, why, i honestly do not know. i have a decent 3 br apt in the burbs and the capibility to give my girls all they need. without even assesing the situations the children were remanded to his custody. i have recently found out that he is living in a 2 br house with a woman, her brother and her 4 boys. so thats 6 males ranging in age from 2 to 18 yo kids and my ex, and 5 females 7 to 15 yo and a grown woman. 11 people in a 2 br house. is this even LEGAL? and how in the world could they release my girls into that overcrowded situation rather than with me, where there are no other kids and 1 br more to house them in? do i need a lawyer? if so can you help find one that might work pro bono?

2007-10-23 18:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by colts_pet_lioness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

IM REALLY IN A BIND RIGHT NOW.... ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE HAVING TERRIBLE MARRIAGE PROBLAMS, BESIDES THAT HE IS IN THE NAVY.. SO THAT DOESNT HELP TOO MUCH..I HAVE BEEN STAYIN WITH HIS MOM OVER A YEAR AND ITS LIKE HE IS NOT EVEN TRYIN TO GET A PLACE... I FEEL STUCK.. CUS IM NOT HAPPY .. THEN HE CAME AT ME TEH OTHER NIGHT AND TOLD ME HE DONT WANT A DIVORCE BUT HE WANST TO BE SINGLE... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK.... I HAVE ASKED HIM WHY...I HAVE DONE ALL I CAN AND EVEN TRIED TO SIT AND TALK WITH HIM BUT ALL IT TAKES IS A COUPLE DAYS AND HE IS BACK AT POINT ONE SAYIN HE WANTS TO BE SINGLE.....WE HAVE A 4 MO OLD CHILD AND ANOTEHR ON THE WAY.... WHAT SHOULD I DO??? SHOULD I GUVE HIM HIS FREEDOM... CUS IM FED UP WITH HIS CONFUSION!

2007-10-23 17:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by twanz_sexii_wifey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what can i do to help the situation. i getting fed up and kinda loseing fellings for him because he is not trying hard enough to satisfy me.i know for a fact i satisfy him. but its not fare i cant get a orgasm and he do every time. we have a 5 yr old son together and some times i think thats the only thing keeping us together. i love sex and i love to get satisfyed also.when he get his nut its over i tired and i know he is to.dont get me wrong he do wont to satisfy me but he cant stop nutting so quick any suggestons? please help!!!!!!

2007-10-23 17:57:05 · 5 answers · asked by tiptip 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this guy on the internet and he is 22 and I am 34. I'm also married(divorcing), with 2 young children. He knows all of this. We met on the internet and connected right away. Texting, talking, web cam, all on an almost daily basis. He's in his senior year of college and an athlete. He's really busy and i kinda screwed things up becoming too attached. he was ignoring me for a few weeks, then he called me Sat. to let me know that all of this was too much for him cause we don't even know eachother yet. He says he likes me but feels uncomfortable cuz of my marriage(until i'm divorced). We had sex once a month ago and we both agree it was amazing!!! But he says he wants to get to know me as friends first; as a person before we become intimate again. What would you think of this? I can understand but we really have fun together and i enjoyed him sexually and as a person, but i admit i don't actually know him yet......What to do????

2007-10-23 17:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want her to understand that is a form of 4 play and boy do we need to put the spark back in our sex life we have been together for 11years HELP ME HELP HER

2007-10-23 17:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was watching a movie today and a thought crossed my mind. In movies and general culture, it's generally accepted that Bachelor Parties include strippers. However, I wonder how many of the groom-to-be's actually sleep with them.
Can you married men give me a hand on this question and tell me your personal experience?

If you're a man, you've been married or are married, and had a Bachelor party with a stripper, how did that turn out? Did you sleep with the stripper, have fun with her, or completely turn her away?

Just curious. Thanks! :]

2007-10-23 17:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Taylor 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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what do you look for the most internally and exteranlly in a girl?

2007-10-23 17:49:57 · 14 answers · asked by Lena 3 in Singles & Dating

you often see petite girls/women with large guys, why is that?
you don't see medium size women want to be with them..they usually go for more slender size/ any opinion??

2007-10-23 17:46:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your husband posted on myspace that he had a matching tattoo with another girl for a survey that you posted for him to fill out would this hurt your feelings?

2007-10-23 17:46:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

after i finished, she put her clothes back on turned back and said "Don't call me, I'll call you." Its been about six weeks now, shes not calling back is she?

2007-10-23 17:45:54 · 31 answers · asked by Colonel Mustard 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy & I've been dating FOR a long time. II was in love & crazy about him! We started talking about marriage & what we're gonna do in the future. One day, he stopped texting me. [[We couldn't call often cause of school]]. When I got home, I called him & asked what was wrong. He told me that he met another girl 7 started falling for her. Get this though, the girl was bi. I was so insulted. He left me for her!! I asked him how long has that been going on & he answered since last week. x_x . He then said that he couldn't choose BETWEEN US. By that time, I was heart broken & then Insulted! I told him that I'll make the choice & I broke it off with him. A week later, he begged me to take him back & that he was sorry. I refused to take him back, told him that he shouldn't have had to CHOOSE between me & the bi girl. We parted after that. I was still crying about him. Now, a year later, I still think about him & I'm still in love with him. My heart still aches for him.

2007-10-23 17:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i leave him

2007-10-23 17:35:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi...my name is roxanne.....im 21 and i have 2 small kids. i just want someone to talk to when i have my moments.....this divorce has been very hard on me and i think it would be nice to have someone to talk to who knows what im going threw....im on myspace, look me up use my name....roxanne burkholder to find me on there..
thank you

2007-10-23 17:30:53 · 4 answers · asked by Roxanne S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im deaf. I have a cochlear implant but it doesnt fix me. I like being deaf instead it is just me. I made a mistake to marry a hearing man 3.5 years ago. He never took the time to learn sign language. I feel stuck in a birdie cage without a lock on it...just afraid to leave but tired of being victim at same time! I have a 2 year old son with him.

2007-10-23 17:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does one do for a loved one who recently has been seperated from his wife,. She left him.? He is going through some emotional pain,.?

2007-10-23 17:26:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a 13 or 14 year old girl i hear d them talking bout this the other day on t.v. and i was just wondering what you were thinking bout it.... But one more question u know some guys just go from one kiss to another girl..( No offense to anyone if soo) So y do they kiss girkls that young do they even care bout it?

2007-10-23 17:24:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my b/f and i have known each other for years. we just recently started dating we don't have sex but we sleep together he came home from a 10 month tour in iraq and i was the first person he met when he stepped off. we have been together ever since. is it possible to sleep with someone and not have sex? we have the urges we just want to wait to make it special.

2007-10-23 17:23:18 · 15 answers · asked by ♥ Ash ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

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