i dont want to break her heart i know he is wrong because i have seen him doing bad things with girls and he is all ways in bed with another girl everyday what should i tell her what will her reaction be please help
2007-10-23 18:29:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if he is really wrong for her, tell her to be a good friend... if she doesn't listen then just let it go bc she will realize how bad he is eventually. thats when u need to be there so she has a shoulder to cry on...
you seem like a good frnd. good luck!!
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2007-10-23 18:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by djdanger92 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to see it. If she sees it for herself, it will seem more like the truth and less like a betrayal from you even tho u are trying to help. Take this from someone who knows. If a best friend tells her her boyfriend is doing something wrong, she wont' know who to beleive becuase she loves both. If she sees it, she'll know who to believe. Good luck. u r an awesome friend to have. its hard to find someone who will be honest with you no matter what the cost.
2007-10-23 18:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have personal experience with this and the best thing to do is to let her know what you believe is going on with him and other girls, and that you're afraid she will end up getting hurt.
DO NOT tell her that he is wrong for her or she should break up with him, no one responds well to being criticized or orders.
Good Luck!
2007-10-23 18:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Angela V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you try to talk her out of this relationship, she will be mad at you. I know-I'm going through this with my best friend too. You don't have to be really friendly with him, but stay close with your friend. She will need you if it doesn't work out. If you push it, it will push her closer to him, just to prove that you are wrong, and that she can change this bad boy into the love of her life. You can't tell her who to fall for-just as no one can pick your friends. Just stay close, be her friend.
2007-10-23 18:40:59 · answer #4 · answered by donna r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, if you told her, she would be in shock or denial for a while. Then anger, either at him for cheating, you for telling, or someone else.
Eventually, she would come to acceptance.
IMHO, If you are best friends, then tell her as a best friend. If the guy you were dating was a total jerk like her new boyfriend,
1) WHo would you want to tell you the news?
2) How would you want them to tell you?
2007-10-23 18:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by captn_carrot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if ur frnd love a boy what's incorrect in it? that's going to be incorrect then while ur frnd tried to *** in between them. absolutely everyone can fall in love with all and sundry. Ur frnd isn't at fault completely. So relax and make ur frnd additionally chilled out.
2016-10-07 12:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, but don't be dissapointed if she goes ahead and makes her own mistakes.
Sometimes it's easier to learn something like that in private. Maybe write her a short, one page, letter. Sometimes ppl are more defensive if they have to face you while they're learning something bad. If they can read it in private, they can take it better.
2007-10-23 18:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by pansyblue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she is your best friend, you should tell her. I mean, wouldn't you want her to tell you? She may be mad or she may accept it, but in the end she'll c that you were telling the truth and care about her. Just be there for her.
2007-10-23 18:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple, how do you know he is wrong without her notice when she is your closes friend? well since it has come to your notice that he is wrong it is not only you that has known that, ask your other friends to tell her about her lover,obviously she will feel bad, you too should feel bad so together with her investigate about the lover the result will satisfy better.
2007-10-23 18:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Emmy Chang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell her that even though you really like this guy he might not be the rigth person for you? Then u might want to tell her that he has done bad things... if shes like well i really like him though u should tell her that there are thousands of millions of other guys out there for her and the one that she is chosing now might not be right for her and that the right guy will come for her not for her to go looking for him cause when its the right guy he will come begging for her :]]
2007-10-23 18:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋