Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

So there is this girl at my high school and I like her a lot. I went to homecoming with her and I think she liked me before homecoming. We have a few classes together and we would talk a lot. But after homecoming things changed mainly becasue of what happend at homecoming. I spent a good deal of money on her and treated her like a gentleman, but after the dance she decided to go with her friend and not me. I was pretty bummed out and still went to the party she went to. We talked a bit, but i could feel a tension between us.But I have really strong feelings for her and I have tried to forget her but she's undeniable. We talk at times but not a lot anymore. When I walk into class first hour she will be sitting there and make eye contact and then look quickly away. The truth is that I'm really shy when it comes time to talk to the girl I like. I had one of her friends ask her if she wanted to hang out with me and she said she wants to be friends. It really sucks liking her, she doesn't

2007-10-23 13:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone told me it should be on the right ring finger, hopefully its right; if not im screwed !!!! Do guys even wear them ?

2007-10-23 13:21:24 · 21 answers · asked by Matrix 1 in Singles & Dating

Well its not really like love quotes, but like I like a girl, but only if she knew I liked her, that type of stuff.

it can be like a line from a song, or a quote or whatever.

2007-10-23 13:17:25 · 2 answers · asked by kkkkkkkkkkkkkkkh 1 in Singles & Dating

i have had the biggest crush on this guy since this summer, and since then we have become REALLY good friends. All my friends say that he is totally into me, but i'm not totally sure. how can i tell?

2007-10-23 13:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is very rude to my partner we ahve been together 2 yrs and her father hasn't been around since she was 2mths old. She wont talk to him pokes , her tounge out, sticks her finger up( not very often). It leaves me and my parnter arguing and yelling and he ends up hating me cos im not being a "good" mum. My daughter admits she doesn't care if i yell and send her to her room but when my partner does she cares and it does up set her. I hate yelling at her it hurts me. I need help.
What shoul i do? and answers to help woudl be GREAT.

2007-10-23 13:11:24 · 9 answers · asked by megan L 1 in Family

I was married when I was 21 to a controlling abusive older man. I had 2 kids and left when I was 26 (in March of 02.) That same year in September, I started dating this guy. I merried him in March of 04.

O.K. We have no kids together and don't plan on having any. He had a daughter from his 1st marriage. While we dated he showed signs of jelousy. I thought at that time they were flattering in a way. Now, it has gone on for so long it makes me crazy. He is always asking me if I'm going to leave him for another man and all sorts of other questions. Now you have to understand, for the past 2 years he has either not been home in the eavinigs helping someone with remodeling or he was trap shooting (what ever the heck that is) or playing softball, and being drunk. He was drinking everyday!

I'm not a ****** or a fighter so I let this go on too long. Now He acuses me of talking to other men online. Then he saw these "sultry" pictures I had on my page. It made me want to talk to men!

2007-10-23 13:11:17 · 32 answers · asked by Amber D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. i am popular at school, but not at church. my own cousin is the most popular girl in church, and she treats me like im nothing. i recently lost a friend and she started hanging out with the popular girls at church. i barely have true friends at church. my friend started calling me f*** and b**** and that im crappy, ugly, and a loner. how can i make new friends at church when everyone thinks im a nerd just because i know alot more about god than they do, and that im unpopular, friendless, and gay? by the way im a GIRL.

2007-10-23 13:09:25 · 2 answers · asked by I scream for ice cream 3 in Friends

to make someone happy but easy to piss off

2007-10-23 13:06:27 · 8 answers · asked by Kitty 5 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best friends is getting married soon and she's asked me to be her "Man on honor". Although I'm straight it makes me a little uncomfortable and I don't know how to handle the situation without hurting her feelings?

2007-10-23 13:05:44 · 20 answers · asked by Brrr. 1 in Weddings

....his birthfather is a police officer in a different state who has never bothered to try to find him even though he has had my parent's number for years (son will be 17 next month). There were also issues with us....we were not married, and he thretened to take the child out of the hospital if it was a boy, but didn't want it if it was a girl. I was 19 he was 31. He called my parents house after I moved out of state to get away from his constant harassment at work and home and his threats. Son knows some of this, but I'm afraid he is not mature enough to destinguish between being showered with attention and gifts and the love and guidence that myself and my husband (since my son was 14 months) have given him. - yes, he is at that age. He has seen his 'dad's' recent reunion with his birthfather and it has been wonderful....any ideas to help a protective mother and wife make sure no one gets hurt? Husband is ok, but obviously has conserns since he has always loved & cared 4 him.

2007-10-23 13:05:01 · 19 answers · asked by Cindy Lou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am thinking about having the colors turquoise, fuschia, lime green and yellow as the theme colors. I dont know if they are bad together or not. I am also having four bridemaids, the maximum. I have no idea how to coordinate their dresses including all these colors. what should i do?

2007-10-23 13:04:42 · 14 answers · asked by T Lady 2 in Weddings

Yeah, just about all husbands watch it AND masterbate to it!!! They do it cause they like naughty and dirty girls, which you are not.....

Why don't you watch it with them so you can get the idea.

My god get a grip!!

2007-10-23 13:04:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Don't know what it is...perhaps I'll some form of relief after a stressful day or something. Is it a type of exercise or addiction? She sure seems more at ease or docile afterwards.... Can't take much more before something breaks....

2007-10-23 13:03:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

To the men: How did you pop the marriage question?

To the ladies: How did you man propose to you?

2007-10-23 13:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm having trouble with this. I mean I don't want to disappoint them and they say they won't but they're just saying it I can see it on their faces. I want to stop playing after I finish high school but i just can't tell them that... please someone help...

2007-10-23 12:58:19 · 6 answers · asked by AnImE fReAk 1 in Friends

ok let me update my issue ok let me explain about my situaion.reason i ask why shud i get married is because ok im 20years old,ive never smoked,drinked,never had sex and I AM SUUUPER SHYY i cant look at my teachers,co-workers,aunts,my girl cuz in the eye or anything im real real shy and im 20,thats one point another point is that sadly when i was around 12 or 13yrs old i was sexually used (im not being nasty here im being serious i was you know butt f**d by this teacher) and i was in boarding school and everytime we would take a afternoon nap at my boardin school this guy would wait till everyone falls asleep and come and f***n chew on my cheek and kiss me i was only 12 or 13 and even right now im 20..5'10 and weight like 145 so you can imagine how skinny and weightless i was back then (i play ALOTTA basketball) so i mean that year in that boardin school by that teacher i was sexually used twice

2007-10-23 12:58:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my parents are getting a divorce, and im really depressed about it, nothing makes me happy anymore, i never smile anymore, i just got a brand new bow, and a new laptop, and im still depressed(money cant buy happyness, you'd better believe it) i have a crappy job, (busboy at a resturant) and my grades are good, but not perfect, i find that my old intrests dont phase me anymore. whenever i get away from my house, i feel relieved somehow, but when i get on the bus to go home, i get depressed because i have to deal with the same crap again, i wish i could just leave it all, i want things to go back to the way they were, what can i do to make me happy again? please, i want to be happy again.

2007-10-23 12:57:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have a small farm that we do not live at - the house is old and needs some repairs but we have a lot of personal things that we keep there. My MIL had a key in case of emergencies because #1 she can see our farm from her house & #2 we still have utilities turned on there & in case of a problem with the gas or electric she had a key to get inside to turn off anything inside. I didn't have a problem with this until recently her boyfriend mentioned personal things we had .I asked how he knew about them & he told me he goes into the house about once a week to look around & make sure nothing is missing. I told him that he didn't need to do that because I am at the farm every day & I check the house when I'm there. 2 days later I went to the house earlier than usual & he was walking out of the house with my MIL. I asked why & he wanted to look at the books to find something to read. I took back the key & now no one in the family will speak to me. Should I have left the key with them

2007-10-23 12:57:19 · 21 answers · asked by Love being a Mom 2 in Family

I've been married for 3 years. I'm so upset with my husband that i could just lay down and die. I'm a sunday school teacher and i'm trying to live right, well anyway I love my husband with all my heart. The first time i seen that he'd been looking at porn, It broke my heart. He said never again would he do this, well today i get home from work and guess what he has done it again. I was going to leave him, But I love him so much. What have I done to deserve this? How should I feel?

2007-10-23 12:56:56 · 11 answers · asked by blacksheet1975 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am starting to look for blocking rooms for my wedding night for guests. First of all how do you know how many rooms to block and second if you ask the hotel to block too many (since I hear you have to sign a contract) and they do not all get booked are you responsible for paying for them? Any other information on blocking rooms that anyone can help me with I would greatly appreciate it.

2007-10-23 12:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by nikki3422 1 in Weddings

sorry about the spelling. swometimes i really think i can fully love a few women at the same time.

2007-10-23 12:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by thegermanwall 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-23 12:55:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 12:54:25 · 28 answers · asked by zora 1 in Singles & Dating

There's this girl that I know from last year. We see each other in the halls all the time, but never speak. She's always looking or staring at me. She's spoken to me twice that year, one day out of the blue, and then today. If we talked it'd only be at lunch. She started talking to one of my good friends also that she knows I'm friends with. Well her best friend hates me and my good friend, and today after the girl finished talking to me at lunch, her best friend told me she don't like me. Well I don't give a ****, so I told her I don't like her either. Why would the girl I know only speak to me at lunch, when she sees me everyday in the hall, and then start talking to my friend when she knows her best friend hates my friend?

2007-10-23 12:52:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How long does it take for a guy to get over a relationship when he was the one being dumped??

2007-10-23 12:51:00 · 1 answers · asked by Mystify 1 in Singles & Dating

So my husband has never hit me in 8 years. Good thing too, because he is 13 inches taller and 125 pounds heavier than me. He's just cranky and a yeller.

Yes, I've asked him for counseling. He replied "F--- you, go yourself." He can be sweet and fun, and then he tells me to "shut the hell up" so he can watch TV in peace.

*shrugs* I give up. Suggestions, anyone? By now I'm happy when one of us is at work and out of the house. We have small children.

2007-10-23 12:50:46 · 32 answers · asked by Rapunzel XVIII 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Im looking for a song for the bridesmaids to enter and for when everyone leaves.. Please help!

2007-10-23 12:49:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when is the appropriate time for a bridesmaid to buy her dress...meaning how much time before the wedding did you shop and how much time before the wedding did you buy the dress. ex... 3 months, 6 months, 1 year.

just looking for an average or actual experiences.

2007-10-23 12:49:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-23 12:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by confuseddisneygirl 2 in Singles & Dating

everything is going wrong and i cant handle my stress...i yell and i cry and i scream and im like the worst to be around and my brother doesnt help he pushes it on until i break and start throwing things then he tells me how im acting when he keeps forcing me to get angry. It's not fair I cant bottle things up like I used to... do you know anything i could do for me to stop getting so angry im always for close to just walking out but then i think about everything thats waiting fo rme tomorrow and the rest of my life. i can bearly walk as it is so if someone came after me i couldnt run very fast because i twisted my ankle.... im leaving this weekend to my grandma's house but what about tomorrow or the day after that, so on and so on! HELP please i hate the way he acts and then the way i react. I just wish he would stop and leave me alone for a couple days. I am not old im 13 going on 14 and DAMN I try so hard!!!!

2007-10-23 12:46:48 · 3 answers · asked by emy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships