everything is going wrong and i cant handle my stress...i yell and i cry and i scream and im like the worst to be around and my brother doesnt help he pushes it on until i break and start throwing things then he tells me how im acting when he keeps forcing me to get angry. It's not fair I cant bottle things up like I used to... do you know anything i could do for me to stop getting so angry im always for close to just walking out but then i think about everything thats waiting fo rme tomorrow and the rest of my life. i can bearly walk as it is so if someone came after me i couldnt run very fast because i twisted my ankle.... im leaving this weekend to my grandma's house but what about tomorrow or the day after that, so on and so on! HELP please i hate the way he acts and then the way i react. I just wish he would stop and leave me alone for a couple days. I am not old im 13 going on 14 and DAMN I try so hard!!!!
2007-10-23 12:46:48 · 3 answers · asked by emy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
stay with a friend for a weekend. its probably mostly hormones. and your brother only pushes your buttons because he knows you'll let him. if you tune it out and ignore it, he'll get pissed because he can't get a reaction out of you. lol. take up a yoga class or something. do something relaxing. and make sure you're eating healthfully. and take vitamins. believe it or not diet can make a huge difference as far as the way you feel. and you might want to go to counseling. not because your'e psyco or anything. but its nice ot have someone to talk to who gives reliable advice.
2007-10-23 12:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by fire_techie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its really seriousley bothering you, then just come straight forward and ask him why he does this to you. but dont do anything like phsyco or crazy because chances are ul regret it for a very long time. im 14, but im not a girl, but it seems to me at school lots of girls never confront people right to there face.they talk behind there backs until things get really ugly. and thats probably why problems between girls dont end for a really long time if not at all.(at least thats what i think) = )
2007-10-23 20:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by sosori1500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky to you're going to granmas, talk to her, I'm sure she can help ya out. You are REACTING to his behavior, so change the game he's playing, and and start responding in a non-violant manner!! This is normal with bro/sisters, so don't be to alarmed. Just learn to control yourself,you can't control him!!
2007-10-23 21:42:23 · answer #3 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋