Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

Me and my husband seperated because I thought it was what I wanted. Things happened before and after the seperation to hurt him and I feel terrible, as I should. A couple of months ago I realized what I lost and how bad I really messed up and started to change my actions to show him how I've changed and wanted US back. I didn't say anything at 1st, Ijust wanted my actions to say it for me. After a situation, I finally told him I wanted to work on our marriage. Things have been good but when something goes slightly wrong I feel like I am always the blame no matter what the situation is. I know I screwed up bad and have apologized profusely but how long am I suppose to be the enemy. When can I be "right" with him and not the blame for all that goes wrog with us. I'm starting to feel a little beat up.

2007-10-23 12:41:52 · 25 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just wondering if any of you guys or gals are after dating some one from here.

2007-10-23 12:41:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents have been seperated since I was about four and I'm 19 now. I'd like to know how to go about getting some answers about things like why they seperated and what brought them together. There's alot of other questions I'd like to ask too. I asked them when I was young but they found them too hard to answer and always avoided it. Now I'm older and a pretty detached person. I get on well with my parents, but find it hard to open up to them, especially my father. How do you think I should get some answers from him? Is it too late? We never go drinking together, so getting a bit drunk first is out of the question. He has a new family now, and I have an eight year old half sister, who I love very much.

2007-10-23 12:39:09 · 7 answers · asked by garion b 4 in Family

how to reassure my ex boyfriend? guys, i need advice!!!?
my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently dumped me. he is threatened by my independence. he feels emasculated and disrespected by my other male friends and independent life of him. he is 37 and im 25.


im sooo in love with him and love him to death. i would do anything to get him back. its been 15 days since we last spoke to eachother. im deathly afraid of making a wrong move.

if i call him, i dont want him to think that i cant respect his decision or appear "clingy or desperate".
if i dont call him, i dont want him to think i no longer want to be with him or am with someone else


please help me.

confused hopeless romantic

2007-10-23 12:37:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-23 12:36:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are diffrent religons and we do not want to offend either families. So we were thinking of just having a court marrage, and then have reseptoin; but some people are telling me I should do the ceromony thing.....what do u think.

2007-10-23 12:36:00 · 11 answers · asked by violet 2 in Weddings

2007-10-23 12:35:51 · 20 answers · asked by hotchick04xxx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there paperwork or something ?

2007-10-23 12:34:14 · 4 answers · asked by BrideofTyr 3 in Marriage & Divorce

at lunch this kid calls me useless and pisses me off so much, i need a good comeback...idc how harsh it is...he also yells **** you infront of all my friends...i already told him nobody want u here just leave(that made him shut up). but i need something rly good, so he wont ever say that to me again....give me some good comebacks...go for it...even if its harsh.

2007-10-23 12:29:52 · 11 answers · asked by als 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a set budget. I'm cool with that and totally accept it.
Both rings are the same price.

I would rather have a setting that has center stone the carat weight that I want and not diamond (.5-.75 carats)

My fiancee wants to buy a diamond but the ring we can afford has a smaller carat weight (and I think looks funny on my finger because it's not in porportion). Mostly I think he is worried about what people will say about him if they find out I have a CZ or white sapphire instead of a traditional diamond.

2007-10-23 12:28:55 · 69 answers · asked by pspoptart 6 in Weddings

2007-10-23 12:26:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... this is assuming you are not already. I have had some women object because of the itchiness - just wondering if that is reason enough to let it go, or if I could still press for it. I really do want to be a gentleman about it...

2007-10-23 12:26:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 12:26:06 · 36 answers · asked by chelly 1 in Singles & Dating

about having "relations"with another person,and one does sneak with anotherperson then when caught red handed in the end they lie,how long do you think it should take for the relationship to regain trust?

2007-10-23 12:25:32 · 18 answers · asked by lingosdeaf 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if someone could give me tips on how to help me start a conversation with someone of the opposite gender. And keep it going, a website would be nice!!

2007-10-23 12:24:24 · 5 answers · asked by mikeduptwo 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm asking this as it says it in "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus". It mentions that when a man reaches a level of intimacy with a woman meaning they get very close mentally, he feels the need to withdraw and be on his own, its therefore up to the woman to understand this and relax i.e. don't chase or call him or even worry because he'll be back and when he does, he'll want to continue getting close to the woman. Guys, do you get this?!
I'm going thru this with my bf of 2 1/2 yrs. We spent the weekend together, had a great time, he was even talkin bout his desire to get married next yr, didn't mention to me but in general, anyway, he texted me once I came home saying he had fun, thanks for comin etc....since then he has been acting distant. Called him a few nights ago, but he didn't answer but has been online MSN. I don't wanna make a fuss because the book mentions he may just be pulling away, but how do I know for sure?! I'm confused, I thought we were getting closer!

2007-10-23 12:24:17 · 12 answers · asked by Nikita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Hubby subscribes to playboy, talks dirty to women in chat rooms, and buys nasty pics on ebay. He says all men do it and I'm just insecure and should get over it. I've given him nude pics of me, he still wants to look at other women. Do All Men?

2007-10-23 12:23:29 · 65 answers · asked by Fishin G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt is one of those aunt's that will keep secrets and she's a person that you can go to. I'm 15 and when I was 14 I lost my virginity, I told my aunt and she said that a girl or boy that loses it before 17 is a h0.

So basically she called me a h0.

Do you think she's right?

2007-10-23 12:21:50 · 16 answers · asked by {*Kiterya A.k.A Ms Caramel*} 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-23 12:19:28 · 2 answers · asked by josh . 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-23 12:15:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-23 12:13:56 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan D 2 in Singles & Dating

how to reassure my ex boyfriend? guys, i need advice!!!?
my boyfriend of 3 yrs recently dumped me. he is threatened by my independence. he feels emasculated and disrespected by my other male friends and independent life of him. he is 37 and im 25.


im sooo in love with him and love him to death. i would do anything to get him back. its been 15 days since we last spoke to eachother. im deathly afraid of making a wrong move.

if i call him, i dont want him to think that i cant respect his decision or appear "clingy or desperate".
if i dont call him, i dont want him to think i no longer want to be with him or am with someone else


please help me.

confused hopeless romantic

2007-10-23 12:12:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 12:12:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is still friends with an ex from high school. I think he still has feelings for this girl. I asked him if he loves her, he use to tell me no. But the last time I asked he said "As a friend." What is he meaning by this?

2007-10-23 12:11:24 · 35 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hey peoplez..i dont plan to get married..ever..why?cuz right now im single and chillin and livin a drama-free life from any realtionship...when i get married that means i gotta be home at like 10pm instead of playin ball with my boys till like 1am...i cant play my ps2 until how long i want to...i gotta tell her where im at,where im goin,who callin me,who is that girl callin me even tho she cud be my 49year old boss!!!! why get married?its all drama right?for the guys that have been married and now are divorced and are livin the stress free..well drama free life answer this to me i shudnt get married right?i dont want to but i mean its all drama right?agian im 20,never smoked or drinked and im still a virgin but i dont want no daayum drama u feel me?so is being marrried all drama and stress?and plus on top of that in a few months im bout to become a vice president of a multi-millionar dollar company and im bout to be a multi-millionare so let me know guys/girls.

2007-10-23 12:10:02 · 21 answers · asked by ESPN NEWS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

heyyy !! what up ?!? OKkayy so i was at the movies with my chicas and i saw this really hot guys who started staring at me . I started to blush, then smile, and then to wink . All of the sudden , my chicas left and both guys were talking to me !! Yayyy !! but then they sat down infront of me while i stood up and i noticed they were staring at my boobs and licking their lips and then they started to rub my but slowly and asking me stuff.they were SOOOO serious!! From 1 to 10 , how irrespectable do you think that was ??Thnx !! xoxo !! email me !!

2007-10-23 12:07:01 · 15 answers · asked by &hearts Haley &hearts 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 12:06:11 · 16 answers · asked by faithfully_true2u 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 12:03:02 · 2 answers · asked by annabelle p 7 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering. do guys like girls to ask them out themselves or with a friend around? I am oing to aks my friend, Devan, I guy I really like out but I don't know if I should do it by myself or with a friend and wouldit change the results of what he said dependng on who was with me?

2007-10-23 12:02:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my children have my last name seeing as i was never married to their bio. father during our relationship and when they were born i gave them my last name and never put their fathers name on their birth certificate ... my question is when i get married can i change their last name to my married last name or would he have to legally adopt them .. i would prefer just being able to change their last name w/o the whole adoption scenerio ...



their bio. father is counted as their father for child support .. (that he doesnt pay) but other then that .. no visitation no nothin ...


btw i live in oklahoma


there is absolutely no reconsile with my childrens sperm donor .. he has not been in their life for over 6 years and my youngest he has never lied eyes on .. he is not their father he is their bio. father/sperm donor!

2007-10-23 11:59:45 · 7 answers · asked by Mama To 2 Onry Girls 3 in Marriage & Divorce