My aunt is one of those aunt's that will keep secrets and she's a person that you can go to. I'm 15 and when I was 14 I lost my virginity, I told my aunt and she said that a girl or boy that loses it before 17 is a h0.
So basically she called me a h0.
Do you think she's right?
2007-10-23 12:21:50 · 16 answers · asked by {*Kiterya A.k.A Ms Caramel*} 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no this does not make you a ho. it is a young age, but you're naturally going to be curious... though i would be careful. STDs are everywhere, and you never know who's going to have one, not to mention getting pregnant. but a ho is someone who sleeps around with numerous partners, often ones they don't really know, and can be any age.
be careful who you sleep with. and be careful about protection if you're going to continue to be sexually active. your dream man right now will most likely not be your dream man in a couple of years, you're too young and intelligent (just from reading your answers i'd say you're pretty d*mn smart) to get pregnant early on.
2007-10-23 13:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by freaks will charm you 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how many times you've done it. If you did it once, you made a mistake and hopefully realized it. You definitely didn't do it out of love. That's what makes it wrong. If you realized your mistake, then it's okay. It's forgivable, but if you haven't learned then why forgive you? You're not a ho yet, but if you keep doing it then you definitely are. I am not religious in any way, yet I still believe that you should have sex for love, not for the sexual pleasure, or for status, or anything of the sort. That's why what you did was a mistake. Don't make the mistake again and you're good. Make the mistake again and you're a ho.
2007-10-23 12:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not a HO just because you lose your virginity at 14 although that is extremely young. but you're a HO if you keep having sex just to do it and it's nothing special. you're a HO if you let the boys take advantage. please wait for as long as you possibly can and resist the urge to give in because the earlier you start the less you will be able to resist temptations which means more sex whenever a guy wants it which would make you a HO. so, you be the judge. if you think you are, then you're probably right. your aunt is f*cked up for calling you a ho. your aunt is WRONG. hope this was helpful!
2007-10-23 12:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by anonymiss. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. You are not a hoe. I don't understand why your aunt would tell you something like that. However 14 is an extremely young age to experience sex. My advice to you would be to wait until you are married next time. Sex leads to a lot of problems mentally and physically and at 15 years old you really can't handle the issues that occur with having sex. You should respect yourself and your body and wait.
2007-10-23 12:29:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She isn't calling YOU a prostitute, yet she is expressing that she thinks it somewhat is a silly determination - in all probability in an attempt to deter you from doing it, yet that attitude did no longer artwork too properly. Frankly, at 14, it wasn't somewhat your determination - you have been too youthful to truly understand the burden of what you have been doing. this is why the regulation publicizes intercourse with a minor below sixteen to be rape. Confess on your aunt. believe me, you will experience greater useful, and your aunt might actually assist you.
2016-10-04 11:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by persaud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But it seems the world changing culture is slowly changing our values and tradition. We expect that the changing educational tools will help in curbing the situation.
2007-10-23 12:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by henry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what people say about you. even people on here. people are jerks. lol. If you really loved the person than i think its your choice. see that's the problem is that in our society people condone that as bad. its kindof sad really. sex is natural human impulse. and people constantly repress it. anyway. I think it was your decision. If you don't regret it, then it was the right thing to do. If you do regret it, then you know what to do next time. :)
2007-10-23 12:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by fire_techie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, she's wrong, as we get older, we tend to forget how curiuos we were at sex. It doesn't make you a ho, unless you pass it out to every guy/gal you meat.
2007-10-23 16:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i supose it depends on whether you lose it with one male or 10
2007-10-23 14:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by me m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... im sorry to hear that....
just use protection and dont be a nother baby mother.
2007-10-23 12:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋