i was woundering what you thought about a 3 some. dont judge me either.?

Answer 1

I am not judging you. Many fantasize about that very thing. But it should be kept in fantasy land. Remember, once you two share your bodies with another party, your relationship will never be the same. And there could be resentment after. Are you willing to risk that? Weigh out how much you two love each other and the pros and cons before you actually do this. A couple of hours fun may not be worth the damage that it could do to your relationship on a permanent level.

Answer 2

Which kind? Three singles (friends, or stangers who, say, meet in a bar) or a committed couple plus a single?

For the latter, three-somes are The quintessential trust exercise. Yeah, the Concept is hot and everything, but without both partners Completely open to bring a third party into "their" sexual relationship, stress is Likely to be created. Jealousies and insecurities are complete buzz kill and can cause short-term explosions and long-term resentments. The least erotic feeling in the world is feeling that you're being used.

But all that being said, When it's right ... good friends, good times, laughing and teasing and tickling and stroking ... 3-somes ROCK !

Answer 3

I am not judging you honey and to be honest a threesome in my opinion is a bad idea. I believe a threesome is something a person should do with someone they do not have any feelings for whatsoever....Unfortunately, this is not my thing so I would not do it anyways. I do not think it's normal or healthy to bring another person into a sexual relatinship because what happens when it backfires and someone ends up sleeping with the third party after it has went down once but continues to happen...This is a lose lose situation...Think about that!!

Answer 4

I think it sounds all great and dandy for a guy. A girl will only do that for her man and it shows that they must not think of themselves in order to bring another in the bedroom and allow the husband to do things he should be doing to her. I think no matter what someone somehow gets jelouse and eventually the relationship fails.

Answer 5

I think it would be great exciting and great fun, but you must have serious discussion with your husband and make sure you both agree that it is sex for sex sake. Remember exaclty who it is you love and will be going home with. This takes a very strong minded couple to pull this off with no jealousy between them. I say go for it and have some fun.

Answer 6

There's nothing wrong with threesomes, but as Hamlet would have it, thinking makes it so. You might want to try it with people you don't know very well, avoiding any possible loss of a friend. And don't be surprised if you find threesome action kinda disappointing.

Answer 7

I have always thought about it, but wouldn't do it. For one, hubby isn't into it, and second, I would think that it would effect your relationship for the rest of your life. I dont know though. Who am I to judge?

Answer 8

That is so immoral. How about a four-some or a ten-some where would it stop and what is acceptable to you.
I believe one man one woman.
Sex is a special sharing expression of love between a man and a woman.

Answer 9

3somes are great, but they are also dangerous.. it takes a really strong couple to be able to handle one.. my husband and i have had our fair share, but we are a strong couple .. both the man and the woman have to be into it.. and no rules.. if you make rules and they get broken, then its over.. so the best thing is no rules, that way none can be broken.. if one is uncomfortable with something that is happenin its needs to stop right then and there..
i cant stress to you enough, that it takes a very strong couple to be able to handle it..

Answer 10

I have a permanent STD that I have to deal with for the rest of my life. Talking about whoring around like that is really a sore spot with me.