Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

2007-10-23 11:58:39 · 17 answers · asked by ~~~Tara~~~ 1 in Weddings

He won't keep a job and I am tired of working for both of us. When I leave him, he gets a job that lasts until I return. I have a hard job and he accuses me of other men. I am so stressed. I have left him and don't think I want him back this time. He constantly calls and begs. How do I make him leave me alone? I'm afraid he couldn't handle the rejection and would stalk me.

2007-10-23 11:56:56 · 26 answers · asked by woodedlane11 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 11:55:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok,
my parents and i fight ALL the time! they don't like the way i dress, the music i listen to, my friends, or anything i like to do. my parents want me to be just like them, get stright A's be really pouplar and have a date every friday. they want me to be some one i'm not. i tried to get them to lay off (of course i was nicer then i am now) but they just don't listen, my mom wants me to be a totally prep so she buys my really preppy clothes (like sweatervests... uck!) and like when we go back to school shopping and i find something i like my mom won't let me get it b/c it's not her style.

WHAT DO I DO?

2007-10-23 11:55:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im 15 almost 16 and my dad STILL won't let me wear make-up or wear the things I want to. Don't get me wrong, i don't want 2 wear skimpy things but i need some independence. Hes not really sum1 i can talk 2 easily...

2007-10-23 11:53:49 · 8 answers · asked by susan 1 in Family

Now that I got ya attention....

how do u know when you have fallen in love??

i've never been in love b4 and im just curious how someone finally recognizes that they are in love with thier significant other.

im in deep like, but not sure if im denying it b/c im confused and scared

2007-10-23 11:51:37 · 1 answers · asked by tOOSw33t4Words 2 in Singles & Dating

everytime i think of having no-strings attached sex with a stranger , all this inhibitions and limitations come into my mind.Morals , religion, what other ppl will say blah blah blah ..at the end i always end up not getting any and im still a virgin.
i certainly dont give a danm already about purity since all guys are whores nowdays and they prefer experienced girls , so i was thinking of losing it in halloween since i converted to wicca , and this is like the perfect day for it!!!! but as i have very restrictive parents, halloween is just another day at home, and i swear they just trigger all my desire to run away from them and get ****** , im 19 , but for them im just 8 years old ..ok straight to the point....how the hell do i do the go out that night?
the rest i know i just need a danm good excuse to get the hell out my house that day?

2007-10-23 11:51:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were sitting watching TV 1day when he said "mom what is it?" pointing up towards the hallway leading to his room.I asked him what he was talking about..he replied "that" pointing again towards the hallway..seeing that I wasnt understanding he jumped off the sofa,grabbed me by the hand & said "come on" ..he took me down the dark hallway asking me to turn on the lights 1 by 1. we reached his bedroom & he said "shhhhh" holding one finger towards his lips...then he stood in front of the closet & said "mom u ready? ready?" i reached out to open the closet when he said "no LIGHT!!!".. I turned the light on & he procedeed to tell me "u ready?" I opened the door & nothing was there!He walked in,turned around,sat in the middle of the closet ,looked up & started laughing then, he looked at me & said "what is it?" I told him I didnt see anything. He got back up turned looked back up and waived bye.&@1 of our friends house he points @ the RR saying there is some1 there this 1 scares him though

2007-10-23 11:45:32 · 51 answers · asked by **DoGetLoud** 2 in Family

2007-10-23 11:44:47 · 10 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help.. My ex husband does not allow our children to speak with me. He has our children weekly on his days off (which are during the work week). I never try to make contact with our children just because I feel that it is his time with them. But there are times when our children call me and ask that I call them back but when I do he either tells me that I can't talk to them or that they're busy. Only to find out that he never told them I returned their call. For example, today my daughter called me at work and left a voice mail message for me to return her call. I called her back and my ex answered the phone. I asked to speak with her and he asked if he if he could ask me a question.. I'm at work, so I told him no... His reply was that since he couldn't ask me a question then I couldn't speak with our daughter.... I never do this to him.... What can I do? She has a cell phone but he tells her to turn it off.. The only way I can talk to them is going through him...

2007-10-23 11:40:55 · 11 answers · asked by Caligirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 11:39:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it possible to get a hotel in Downtown, Toronto for a couple who's under 18 yrs of age? They are both 16 yrs old, and are currently dating. They told me that they are not planning to stay there over night, they just want to have some time alone with nobody interrupting them. Both of them just want to stay during the day, and will leave after dinner.

2007-10-23 11:37:26 · 24 answers · asked by yours.truly 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 25, a brilliant young engineer, doing great in his life, still single. A great young adult. Unfortunately, our relationship was destroyed when he was 14. He made bad mistakes, joined bad crowds. One day he drank, joined them in something stupid and illegal. I said he wasn't worth my respect and trust, besides other hard words. He got a harsh punishment that lasted for 6 months, until I though I could trust him again. He turned into a great boy that made us proud but neve got over that. He got into a deep depression and had to go to therapy. He gt out of it but since them has avoided me. Though he agrees he messed up and nede dcorrection, it's his firm opinion that no parent should ever say to a kid what I said. I tried to make up but never apologized, think he needed that words and punishment to wake up. Today I'm in a difficult situation, need his help, he can, but I don't know if he will. How do I ask for his help? What do I say? Should I apologize? We haven't talked for a year

2007-10-23 11:35:59 · 34 answers · asked by Liza 1 in Family

reason i ask is because 1 moment it sounds like i m reading what a grown up old person has written next moment a teenager. just say your age nothing else

2007-10-23 11:35:55 · 53 answers · asked by 10 out of 10 4 in Singles & Dating

How do i know if he's gay or not?

2007-10-23 11:34:39 · 2 answers · asked by Royal Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 11:32:36 · 24 answers · asked by Leyla 2 in Weddings

2007-10-23 11:32:25 · 56 answers · asked by sue S 2 in Family

I donated a kidney 4 years ago to a distant cousin. My one kidney is failing and I will need a transplant and his is the best match. He's such a loser now anyway.

2007-10-23 11:32:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

iam using tiffnay blue.. white.. and and some fake diamond/crystals for accents...does anyone have any good ideas for reception center pieces...and ceremony site?? i will be getting married outside also! please help! thank you :)

2007-10-23 11:31:01 · 7 answers · asked by momma2b 1 in Weddings

he consumed me..now doesnt..im jittery n scared .. how can i be sooo free? i dont want a rebound EVER!
We both are respectivly marred..my emotins got in b/w and rhings happened great chemistry etc.
but now he is rude n mean and thru his bad attitude he has pushed me away..i dont respect him no more ... ofcoursei FED his ego ... did all to please him...etc ..well im just surprised that he is no more wat he meant to me????



we were not together "together\;" it was more of an indirect affiar being sweet kind etc .
Well .. it was a great phase and i thought i can never get over him .. iv been trying for 8 months..and now iv realized .iv come a long way..but im scared ..wat if.. he tries to woo ? will i be strong?

2007-10-23 11:28:35 · 7 answers · asked by barley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My cool friend is saying all this stuff to me and its drivin me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (kinda have a crush on him) You'll hardly ever see us apart and we are always talking to each other. And there are times were he'll be like i know you like me another moment were he will jokingly ask do u like me? Then he'll be like i like you (jokingly). And then he's like i have to talk to you. (dont know if that was a joke) what does all this mean? He'll always look at me and stick his tounge out (his way of being funny) and he just confuses me. We also like to listen to music together.

2007-10-23 11:25:42 · 1 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 14 y/o atm, and i'm only 5'5. almost every man in my family tree is 5'5, with the exception of my cousin (6'0),one of my uncles (5'8),and maternal grandpa (5'6). yeah thats right, we're all little people.

so would i be 5'5 too when i grow up?...even though genes are against me, i still have a chance, right..? =(
(i want to be at least 5'7)

2007-10-23 11:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by attiTUDE 3 in Family

its unfair to the unmarried person.

2007-10-23 11:24:05 · 17 answers · asked by leaf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If good then say why, if not so good, then say why. Briefly please.

2007-10-23 11:22:40 · 11 answers · asked by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 in Singles & Dating

i had just started to show the guy that i like that i liked him when he got in a fight. i am so sure he liked me. he got suspended for defending his defenseless brother in a fight. now he may be on emergency expulsion for all the other stuff hes been involved in.

2007-10-23 11:21:56 · 8 answers · asked by on and on we go 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23, my boyfriend is 19 and we live in 2 different countries. We have been dating for just over a year and we both aren't looking to marry or settle down soon but we are completely happy with eachother. We talk daily and are planing to move closer to eachother once I'm done my degree (I was already looking for a job where he lives before we even met). The first 4 months of our relationship we spent together in the same country. We trust eachother completely so that is not an issue. What do you think the chances that something like this will last? Do you have any success stories??

2007-10-23 11:21:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I told my dad he was irrisponsible because i wanted to go to the library and he finally asked me if i'm ready 3 hours later, should i feel guilty or should i just forget about???

2007-10-23 11:19:23 · 10 answers · asked by MiSSkASiA♥ 2 in Family

do you think my friend is pretty?

no, its not really me
yes, i got permission :)


http://s197.photobucket.com/albums/aa11/sardinexz/?action=view¤t=blueeyessssss.jpg

2007-10-23 11:16:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I can say that I would personally.. My wife and I have been married 17 years now. And even though we have had our moments, she has been and continues to be my best friend!
So... Would you tie the not, or WOULD NOT marry your spouse all over again? Honest answer too!

2007-10-23 11:16:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love my husband, we have been married for nearly seven years now. we have two great kids but we don't get intimate anymore. We rarely say I love you. Most of the time I get a peck on the lips there isn't any passion. My husband looks at porn every now and then. Sometimes it makes me feel so robbed, because he could be intimate with me but he just doesn't. It's not atleast from my side a lack of wanting it. I am almost always in the mood. We have only done it maybe five times since may of this year. We don't really talk except about stupid little things, and he just seems really unhappy. I've become very unhappy and very lonely. I wouldn't ever even consider cheating because I don't honestly believe in it. I'm not so miserable that I'm looking for something else it's just sometimes I think about leaving and being alone. He isn't a terrible person. He has been a good husband to me. He won't even admit to being happy with me. He says he still loves me, but it's his actions that seem off

2007-10-23 11:16:06 · 16 answers · asked by beautiful tragedy 4 in Marriage & Divorce