Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

1. Physical Appearance
2. Talented (like plays any musical instrument or good artist etc)
3. Intelligent
4. Good sense of humour
5. Good at sports
6. Kind and Gentle or soft spoken by nature
7. Confident
8. Other (Specify)

These attributes cannot exist together and only one thing is possible and don't tell me that what matters is all inside and it cannot be generalized blah blah ........... (Sorry if it sounds rude)

Just tell what would u like.

2007-10-23 09:54:42 · 38 answers · asked by Rip Van W 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a wonderful fiance and our wedding is this summer. There is this problem tho, his family is from Russia, and his twice divorced mother just started dating again, and will probably end up marrying this guy. The issue is Sergi and I are in our early 20's and we have a house together etc...His mother maria wants her boyfriend Jim to play "daddy" at our wedding...She is probably going to want our future children to call him "grandpa"...JIm is a nice guy, but he has not been of our lives till last week, Maria wants jim to play all the normal parts that a "normal father" would at a wedding,..I think she's pushing it too far. Also with our wedding so close, she is breaking plans with Sergi and I to hang our with Jim, she is so engrossed with Jim that I think she forgets she even has a son. When is enough...Enough

2007-10-23 09:53:53 · 7 answers · asked by Bride2Be 4 in Family

i need a keylogger i can send to my freind cause i think my girl freind is cheating on me ......... i need a keylogger that record everything he types and everything he does please help i need a keylogger really bad.. help me please

2007-10-23 09:53:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not very experienced with whole dating thing and this is the first guy to actually call me, so I'm not sure what to do...
I met the guy at a party a couple weeks ago and saw him again last friday. We were talking and getting along pretty well so he asked for my number, I gave it to him and he called me last night(monday) We talked for about an hour and at the end of the conversation he said to call him sometime. so, when exactly should I call? Or should I wait and see if he calls me again? I know he kinda likes me but I'm afraid I'll mess it up or something since I've never done this before. I guess there was some two day rule for him to call me(according to my friend, I had no idea), which I guess he followed. So I don't wanna do something stupid since I don't know what these rules are. haha oh, and I know I'm going to see him at a party again this friday if it makes a difference....

2007-10-23 09:51:31 · 12 answers · asked by somegirl 4 in Singles & Dating

I am still not fine with the chatting. I caught him creating a profile and emailing random girls. It still says in his profile in a relationship. He said that he wants to chat with girls just for fun. He never plans to meet up with these girls. He just wants one on one action. I offered him that I would let him go because I think he wants to be single. But he said that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He asked to give him time to get the internet chatting out of his system. His tactic is to gain the trust of other girls and make "friends" with them... and then that's when he would talk sex with them. But that's all. He gave me all his accounts and passwords. He is open about it and gave me permission to look at what they talk about. What should I do? Is there such a guy who are really like that? I am not sure if he is telling the truth about him just want to have fun with other girls. I am stupid to hold on?

2007-10-23 09:51:27 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

consider 70% of Judge Judy cases have women suing their ex-boyfriens/husbands over a lousy 300 bucks on national television!

2007-10-23 09:51:02 · 13 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

has any man or woman had something that they should not with a married person and if so how did it turn out.i mean if your were single and went with a married person.what were the results.good or bad please.

2007-10-23 09:50:40 · 38 answers · asked by dustbin31 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He won't be home until 9:30 PM tonight. Should I text him before hand to tell him what to expect upon his arrival or just surprise him when he walks in the door? :)

2007-10-23 09:50:33 · 29 answers · asked by Rosey45 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 09:49:58 · 14 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you dare ask your girlfriend or not? 0.o

2007-10-23 09:49:13 · 7 answers · asked by imhiya 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying only from Christians to be mean, but I'm more of a recent Christian and have a question b/c I'm still not sure about a lot of things. Anyway, here goes:

I know in the Bible it says that it's a sin to have sex before marriage but is that all sexual acts or just intercourse? I mean, kissing itself can lead to getting someone becoming sexually charged so isn't that a sexual act really? But no one says kissing before marriage is a sin. I'm just really confused...I guess I'm just looking for opinions since no one will really know 100% till you get to Heaven right?

2007-10-23 09:48:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our Monthly bills are way to expensive. Gas costs us almost $500 a month, not to mention house, car, car insurance payments. Any tips on ways to make it as a stay at home Mom. I am missing my baby boy grow up, and it brakes my heart. my hubby loves the idea, but we need advice, and tips.

2007-10-23 09:47:44 · 22 answers · asked by nicholeboyo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's a great cook and I know he would love more kitchen gadgets, but I feel like that's not very sentimental either. Any good ideas of what I could get my boyfriend for our 2yr anniversary? The only sport he watches is soccer and he likes sci-fi shows and movies. I don't want to get anything too mushy, but I don't want to get anything too practical or generic either. Any good suggestions? Thanks!

2007-10-23 09:45:56 · 25 answers · asked by beni1015 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What does a man want in a girlfriend? Say you already have the girl - do you want her to be sweet and attentive? Play hard to get? Be funny and entertaining, or quiet? Always be available to you or independent and out with her friends all the time?

Thanks:-)

2007-10-23 09:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

all the guys i have dated have been real jerks but i want a boyfriend that is really sweet, u know the kind that will hold your hand in public.... but it seems that all the guys in my school are like all the guys i have dated but i am going to a new school, should i wait until i go to the new school, NEXT YEAR, or should i just settle and end up with an ok/// kinda guy :]] answers strongly apreciated:]]

2007-10-23 09:44:05 · 1 answers · asked by sallyboo 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend is married and sometimes he tells me when his wife is not in the mood for "lovin" lol....He go to the bathroom and whacks off, some people say that's cheating. What do u think?

2007-10-23 09:44:04 · 40 answers · asked by DKX 2 in Marriage & Divorce

During the 17 yrs. he was married for a year. He just broke it off with his ex-wife about 3 months ago( they have 1 child) They were going to get remarried. He does not know, I know.He has told me he still loves me. He flirts with me, when the kids are not around. Don't know what to do.........should I just try to move on.

2007-10-23 09:42:38 · 13 answers · asked by EdPaRo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When guys approach me, the really good looking guys turn out to be jerks later on. Then the rest are creeps and weird me out!
Am I approachable, or is there something about me that guys like to screw around with?

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b127/dnttreadonme900/meee.jpg

2007-10-23 09:39:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My baby's father and I were talking on the phone a couple minutes ago and we began talking about well me being pregnant. I asked him, out of all people why did he think I was the one that got pregnant for him....I expected him to say something like "Because this is what God wanted" or something positive......instead he said "Because you're the only one who wasn't on birth control" WTF!!!! that response made me so freaking mad. And we just hung up the phone after that. Am I wrong for being this mad?

2007-10-23 09:38:59 · 21 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there's this guy in my U.S. History class who is REALLY cute. I think I might like him but still not quite sure... anyways, my entire class found out that i supossedly "liked' him, even though at the time i didnt even know his name... well one girl said "He says you're cute too, but he's got a girlfriend, but otherwise he'd try to get with you." So at first I thought she was lying but then i kinda watched how he acted to see if it was true. I cant figure it out though. One day I catch him looking at me, another I'm none existent, and then another he's asking one of my friends about me... his actions are all over the place... what do you think?

2007-10-23 09:37:22 · 18 answers · asked by ~*MORNING*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Did you print them on your home computer and printer or did you bring them to a place like Kinko's? If you brought them to Kinko's how did it work out? How would you recommend I have print these? I have about 45-50 to print.

2007-10-23 09:36:42 · 15 answers · asked by chaychayolei 5 in Weddings

OK so theres this guy and i have liked him for a long long tima dn now 2 of my friends like him but i have liked him longer wat do i do??

2007-10-23 09:34:16 · 17 answers · asked by KEELY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 09:34:16 · 19 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Friends

there is a holloween dance on friday and there is this girl in my school she is a honors student and she fine she may have a great body but the thing that i love is her smile it makes my knees weak should i ask or i need tips espeacilly from u ladies (guys can answer 2)

2007-10-23 09:32:23 · 1 answers · asked by saintsrow0021 2 in Singles & Dating

the guy i've been seeing for a couple years now and i have been spending more time together lately and that is wonderful but he seems to put up a wall as we get closer also. any ideas??? he seems to want me there more but it scares him????? i am confused

2007-10-23 09:30:41 · 5 answers · asked by LMD 4 in Singles & Dating

do u feel sorry for them or do u back away,thinking theyre disghusting?

2007-10-23 09:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by always bored 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy in my classes alot, and i think he likes me too but he never says anything to me, just looks at me occationaly, when were in the hallway [we pass by each other] he looks into my eyes then looks down real quickly and scratches his head or neck, He always does this while i'm around, he doesn't look at me when i'm facing his direction just when i'm facing away when i can see him in the corner of my eye. I walked into the dinner hall past his table once and he was sitting there with his friends and my best friend who is a boy said he looked at me and smiled :)
does all this mean he likes me becuase i think it does but then i take a look in the mirro and think he's way out of my leugue?
The fact that i've never gone out with anyone before could have something to do with it,he's never had a girlfriend either.
what are the sighns that a shy boy likes you?



[hehe btw dont worry i do concentrate on my studys aswell as him]

2007-10-23 09:28:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cheated on him (after he did a number of equally bad things to me - he wasn't innocent either) I was planning on leaving but stayed and later on I confessed.
He told me he'd give me a 2nd chance, as I'd forgiven him for the things he'd done. We went from there and tried to start over.
Now, though, and it's been happening for a while... everytime he's upset in the leastbit or mad about anything (even if it has nothing to do with me) he brings it up, throws it in my face, uses it against me and ALWAYS brings up divorce.
I'm sick of the threats - they can come at any time. We can be 100% happy for months and then out of nowhere I'm forced to relive the past all over again!
How many times is someone supposed to be re-punished for something she did so long ago and would never ever do again? What's the point of changing if it's not good enough?
He knows I'm a totally different person, he knows I'm loyal and devoted and in love... and he uses it to bring me down.
What should I do?

2007-10-23 09:28:13 · 20 answers · asked by shellj_foxy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

proceeded to say to me "one, two, three, four,
tell me that you love me more" - what does this mean?

2007-10-23 09:27:53 · 24 answers · asked by LACHLAN GLANNINY 1 in Singles & Dating

I meet my 1st love when I was 14, of course we didn’t stay 2gether longer then a yr or 2 but we maintained a friendship throughout highschool. I have dated several people since but have not experienced the same intense feelings that I had for my 1st love (we never had sex). The 9yr relationship that I am involved in now has been very difficult but we managed to work through many issues that any normal married couple would have divorced over. As a result I have love and a strong sense of commitment and loyalty to this relationship. I recently came back into contact with my 1st love and all of those emotions are back and stronger then ever and he feels the same way!! I know there's no guarantee that I will marry either one of them but my heart feels like its being ripped in two and I don’t know what it means or what to do about it.

2007-10-23 09:26:43 · 25 answers · asked by Joyous 1 in Singles & Dating