has any man or woman had something that they should not with a married person and if so how did it turn out.i mean if your were single and went with a married person.what were the results.good or bad please.
2007-10-23 09:50:40 · 38 answers · asked by dustbin31 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is the problem that the woman tells someone and thats when the trouble starts?
2007-10-23 10:02:03 · update #1
im not religious so the god bit is no problem for me.skullian sounds like the real deal.
2007-10-23 10:06:58 · update #2
morals not sure i have any the person in question asked me for a kiss and up to that point i had no real feelings.
2007-10-23 10:17:08 · update #3
some woman asks me for a kiss i get feelings for her and then all of a sudden people bring god into it whats it all about?
2007-10-23 11:37:24 · update #4
well as yet I haven't quite crossed the line (I don't think) some people would probably disagree, but I'm married and so is the person who I have a something for, but due to our locations it is still in the "virtual" world. and if your interested I'll let you know how it turns out!
I know I want things to progress to another level, and I'm fairly certain she does too!, how far it will eventually go only time will tell!
2007-10-23 10:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by skullian 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I have done it, I regret it now. In fact I know this sounds totally low but I was friends with his wife too. I know, I was young and stupid thank God I swore I would never mess with another married man. We still talk casually and our relationship went from being sexual to just being friends. Once I made the decision to myself that it was wrong what I was doing I told him and everything changed from that point on. It has been 4 1/2 years since we have touched each other and we have seen each other several times since then. I think it just depends on the people how it turns out, but if you have any integrity (which I didn't at the time) DON"T do it!! The feeling sucks knowing that you have taken something away from their partner.
2007-10-23 10:08:44 · answer #2 · answered by KRDB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like it if you were married and someone had an affair with your husband/wife?
Believe me it is THE most destructive thing that you can do in this life, short of murder - and in actual fact it is murder of someone's relationhsip! It depends on lies and subterfuge and deception BIG TIME!
Some people seem to manage to do it without an iota of remorse and go from one affair to another - some don't even mind if their spouse does it continually, in fact some relish 'open marriages'!
HOWEVER, most people know nothing but the deepest sense of betrayal and having had their heart broken!
As someone pointed out if you have ANY integrity, then DON'T even contemplate it! Because eventually you WILL come to loathe and despise yourself!
I could bring God into it because I am a Christian now, but it's hardly likely that His Opinion of it would matter to you! Yet if I hadn't had Him to turn to when I was stupid (which was the time when Jesus Chose to Break into my life), I don't know where things would have ended!
Again I will ask you - HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF IT WAS DONE TO YOU?
2007-10-23 10:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have hung out with a married lady, it started out as sex with no stings. We ended up having feelings for each other,but I made it clear if she ever left her husband I wouldn't see her anymore. Over all it was fun, I know I'm not the only man she's fooled around with on the side, so I have no guilt in what I did. She and I both knew where each other stood in the whole thing, if you don't know that then you will end up having alot of problems. I would also advise against it even though I did. Good Luck
2007-10-23 10:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you as the wife of someone who cheated with a single girl that it is incredibly destructive. Morally indefensible too. The results were bad, we are still together but only because I'm a Christian who knows how to forgive. You have the chance to be a responsible person and say no before you wreck innocent lives.
2007-10-25 01:14:37 · answer #5 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen while in the act anything feels nice. But relations no matter how slight with a married person is dangerous and more then not does not turn out for the positive... Think before you leap.; The water sometimes is a lot deeper and when you are in over your head problems always are abound.... Good luck Grant M in Pennsylvania
2007-10-23 09:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very tricky one mate to be honest getting involved with a married woman is not the best idea unless there are plans that you want to be together and she wants to leave him.
Other than that it is seen as a bit of fun and it could all end up in tears or worse. I have been there and for me has to be the worse thing that I have done in my life by far and regret it to this day.
2007-10-23 17:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious. The results will be bad for someone, if your only concerned for the results on your end then hey go ahead be a part of ruining someone elses life. See it is the cheating spouses responsibility to not stray, however if one knows another is married they share a small percentage of moral blame. Its definetly not a win win situation.
2007-10-23 09:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by 20+ years and still in-love! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That will alwalys turn out bad. First it is a sin. And it contributes to the moral breakdown of society. That is something america can not afford. Second, it hurts the spouse of whoever is being cheated on. and it will bring about the distruction fortold by ancient and modern prophets.
2007-10-23 09:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by squishy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had an affair with a married woman (I was unattached at the time) There is never any good to come out of these relationships and I'm not proud of what happened. Although it was her that did the chasing, I am equally to blame because I knew she was married!
2007-10-23 09:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by Rolsy 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋