Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

i met this kid over the weekend at a band competition and i gave him my number. we've been talking on the phone for hours over the past two days (i met him on sunday). i wanted to hook up with him but now im starting to like him. we have so much in common except we live about an hour away from eachother.

im going to see him this weekend and next weekend at the last two band competitions, but im not sure if we'll ever see him again. my friend doesnt think its a good idea to want to hook up with him (she doesnt know that i like him) and she doesnt even think its a good thing that im talking to him. i really like this kid, but i dont know what to do...if we did go out, it would be really hard to see eachother, and some if my friends might get mad at me for having a kind of long distance relationship. neither of us drive so we would have to have our parents drive us. i dont know what to do.

advice please.

2007-10-23 08:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by chicacubana1109 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter was friends with this boy since kindergarden. Then we moved to Canada, and out of nowhere he started calling her everyday. I didn't put too much into it- they both are after all only 11 yrs old. Then I checked her email(I do this regularly mostly to see what her dad , my ex- is writting to her) I saw all those emails back and forth with the boy, each one ending with I love you,Me too,and most disturbingly- I want to make out with you!! My daughter telling a boy she wants to make out?? What does she mean? How do I find out without pushing her away from me(she usually shares her crushes with me, but nothing about this one and I don't know how to proceed? Plus- she will see this boy when she goes to visit her dad,and I'm freaking out, cause in one of the mails the boy writes"I have a hiding place in my backyard" (to make out that is)
I know crushes are normal and they will fade, but to teach my daughter to deal with this properly I need to start acting now! HELP!!!

2007-10-23 08:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by gsdmania.com 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Which are the most common feelings that one experiences while facing a divorce?


(By the way, it's not that I'm going through one...)

2007-10-23 08:50:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

AMANDA is not on her meds and she wants to get stuff has been bouncing back and force thought lows and highs hardly ever do i feel she is level she takes alot of stuff out on me and our kids (we have 3 young kids) she always wants to jump into a divorce she dosent want to depend on meds to live a normal life she feels she can do it with out them

2007-10-23 08:50:01 · 8 answers · asked by amanda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think? If you think yes What would you do ?

2007-10-23 08:49:49 · 8 answers · asked by NELP G 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have a great relationship, wonderful daughter, nice house, cars, and way to many animals. im happy and content in our life. my husband on the other hand is pushing for a 2nd child. the prob being he has not given up any of his fun or extra stuff. i on the other hand have happily given up things like getting my hair and nails done monthly, clothes shopping, tanning etc. my husband buys what he wants when he wants, such as appliances, furniture (that we dont need) season tickets to sporting events, weekly lunches with his friends, he even picked up and went to florida for a long weekend with his buddy. i work steady days he works swings so he is only there in the morn and night every 3 weeks other than that its me taking care of daughter and 7 dogs. i dont feel i can handle another child. question is if we have another child does it get way harder everyone says it will all come together financially and emotionally but does it?

2007-10-23 08:48:33 · 8 answers · asked by princess 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Do non-feminist guys actually exist? Does an educated woman who wants to be a stay-at-home wife/mother have to settle for a country boy or a man 20 years older to make her dream come true?

2007-10-23 08:46:45 · 18 answers · asked by Kate Winter 2 in Singles & Dating

It has looked like I can't have kids for years. So I told him I do not want to mess up any chance I have at having kids by taking birthcontroll. I told him if he wanted to be safe (for birthconrol, we have both been tested and are clean) to use a condom.

Long story short we had sex with out a condom and now he only talks to me to see if I got tested yet. This is after 6 months of dating. I understand being worried but what the heck?

2007-10-23 08:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

About a week ago my boyfriend out of no where accused me of something. (no not cheating). I let him know that his accusation was false, but he continued to accuse me. In all honesty I had done nothing, he wouldn't listen. So after that plus insulting me, he said he was leaving, and infact left me. He called the next day, we talked, he did not apologize, but said if I wanted to be with him he would come back. Stupidly, I said okay. A few hours later he again told me to "***** off" and left. A friend of his informed me that since he left me, he has been hanging around a girl he just met, but that it is "nothing serious". He came back again last night saying we'd work it out, but soon after, once again, left. I have known him six years, dated for two and a half. I love him to death and don't understand why he is doing this to me. I don't know what to do, wait around and hope he'll come to his senses, or just move on. I really don't want to lose him though.

Any advice or thoughts?

2007-10-23 08:41:59 · 23 answers · asked by Life..or something like it. 1 in Singles & Dating

and at the time of the custody battle my mother didnt have a house of her own and so there for she was made to give him primary custody of me and my 2 younger brother who also would like to live with my mom. My mom does give me and my 2 younger brother a little moere freedom but we are still kids and with my dad he doesnt let us go anywhere anr do anything with our friends. we cant even have anyone stay because of his g/f. when he hits me it is mostly because og his g/f and we dont like each other so she does aanything in her power to get me and my dad fighting and usually he belives her over me and my brothers. my mom has even asked them both what there problem with me is and they both say nothing. i have went to the cops in the town that i live in and i have went to the cops in the town that my mom lives in also i have contacted the DCFS and they sayed that without proof of him hitting me thee is nothing that they can do about it, and all of the ppl that has seen him they cant do muc

2007-10-23 08:41:56 · 3 answers · asked by motogirl22003 1 in Family

Divorced was signed by the judge in Idaho on the 4th. I was married in Utah on the 5th. Divorced was filed with Idaho Clerk of Court on the 7th. Apears to be some question as to the legality of the marriage.

2007-10-23 08:41:53 · 4 answers · asked by KipC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

On your wedding night were you still a virgin even though you passionately kissed before marriage?

2007-10-23 08:41:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

These guys I work with are always trying to touch my breast and butt. I was going out with the new guy who used to work at my job for about a week. I only had sex with him three times. The other guys never payed me any attention until I had sex with the new guy. I've asked them to stop because I don't want to look like the company sl*t. But they still keep bothering me. My friend suggested for to have sex with them so that they leave me alone. Should I have sex with them or at least give them oral? They won't stop!

2007-10-23 08:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi am a 13 year old boy that does not know much about style, fashion or being cool. I am between chubby and slim. I am not the coolest boy in my grade. The girls in our school are so hot and are difficult to ask out. What is the best thing to have or to do to make them like me more. What do girls like? I have medium dark brown hair brownish black eyes.

2007-10-23 08:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Ivan V 1 in Singles & Dating

My Husband passed away and I wanted to know if I am intitled to get paid time off?

2007-10-23 08:37:49 · 2 answers · asked by Roseanna L 1 in Family

2007-10-23 08:36:28 · 22 answers · asked by I'M CONFUSED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 54 and recently separated from my husband. I'm, independent and I'm not looking for a meal ticket but I would like some kind of a steady relationship in the future ( not just platonic)
I have 'dipped my toes into the water' but find it difficult to know how to play it. I told the guy i thought he was amazing in bed.... and that I loved making love with him...I think he thought i wanted to marry him!!! I don't want to scare him off but I do want to tell him how good he makes me feel.... help?

2007-10-23 08:32:33 · 29 answers · asked by madlady 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is horrible at managing money and nearly every aspect of her life. Her bad habits have affected all of us kids and mainly me more times than I would like to count. I've given her large amounts money never be repaid (and I'm only 19). She's now gotten herself into trouble again and it's wrecking all of us. Is it any of my business? Do I just let her continue to screw up? Do I try to fix it at the risk of being rude and out of place? I'm now to the point of giving up, but she needs help although she won't admit it. And I don't know what to do that won't bury me in debt and emotional trauma as well. Please, I need serious answers and don't try BSing with it.

2007-10-23 08:29:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, I'm not completely sure what etiquette is in this situation. And people's opinions might help me out greatly. This is so why I love Yahoo Answers!

Anyway, I know that we get gifts for the bridesmaids and groomsmen and parents and all that jazz. What about the people who do smaller things for us? My cousin's best friend, who is pretty much like a cousin, is cutting the cake. My 13 year old cousin is going to be standing by the guest book. My mom's best friend is making pew bows, my mom's friend is playing the piano during the ceremony, etc. etc. What should I do for these people? Would it best to get them a small present or a gift card or cash/check or just a simple thank you note? If it's a present, how much should I spend? And if it's cash or check, how much would be appropriate? I am full willing to do whatever, I'm just curious as to what everyone else has done or what I'm "supposed" to do. Thanks so much for the help!

2007-10-23 08:29:19 · 25 answers · asked by Julie D 4 in Weddings

A small chest and perfect credit?

2007-10-23 08:26:02 · 6 answers · asked by Kate Winter 2 in Singles & Dating

If a man is paying child support, isn't that money for the child?
Why would an ex-wife then ask to pay the husband to pay for even more stuff? Isn't she supposed to manage the money the ex-husband gives her plus spend some of her own on the child?
Example: Man pays child support and the ex-wife calls up the ex-husband to pay for years books and school supplies and uniforms.
P.S.
This example came from the Dr. Phil show

2007-10-23 08:25:52 · 62 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The SOB says that he loves her in a nonromantic way, though.

2007-10-23 08:25:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The guy i used to like last year has been showing me more attentions than usual for the past two days.He seems to like teasing me & keeps saying things like "I want to play with your mind" (not straightforwardly,but in a round-abt way).Today as I was leaving the same room he was in,I overheard one of his friends say "too bad A,she's leaving".He even suggested that he thinks that I deserve to be in the prefects' list instead of my best friend(who's really good at that stuff).

I am just confused as to what he wants from me after all this time.Is he just playing with me or does he really want to get together?

Thanks everyone.


p.s. I DID ask him out last year & he told me that he would have said yes,if not for the fact he wasnt looking for a relationship just then.so,i kind of gave up on him after that

2007-10-23 08:25:15 · 2 answers · asked by warm_glossy_girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. Im an old flame..so to speak.. of a person who got a divorced... about 9 months ago. He's over his marriage now, but she still haunts his mind. So in order to be fair to me he is moving away approx. 10 hours to start his life.. get a house, has a nice job offering, and be fair to me. Then when he clears his head, start a relationship again w/ me. TRUST me we are in love.... I just wanted to know .... is it normal.... when you end a marrriage you REALLY wanted to work out. To not want to make the same mistake again so you might step away from the world.... and breath figure out stuff on your own.... Just want to know that it has happened b4 to someone .. and that I will still have a good chance with my love if it is meant to be.

2007-10-23 08:23:02 · 2 answers · asked by Life is simply beautiful 3 in Marriage & Divorce

An old flame, whom I haven't seen him in about a year, sees me jogging down the street. He stops, we talk for awhile then he says its getting dark you shouldn't be out here. He offers to take me home which was only about a mile up the road. He knows I live with someone, but he deliberately takes the long way and kept me with him for an hour. What's up with that?

2007-10-23 08:22:43 · 8 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4 in Marriage & Divorce

An old flame, whom I haven't seen him in about a year, sees me jogging down the street. He stops, we talk for awhile then he says its getting dark you shouldn't be out here. He offers to take me home which was only about a mile up the road. He knows I live with someone, but he deliberately takes the long way and kept me with him for an hour. What's up with that?

2007-10-23 08:22:26 · 27 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4 in Singles & Dating

how many of you men are satisfied with the woman you are with? I mean, how many of you wouldnt cheat even if some hot chick was coming on to you? if you are satisfied, can you please say what it is about your wife that keeps you happy?

2007-10-23 08:21:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm engaged and my boyfriend wants a long engagement and thats fine by me,like 5 or 6 years that way were both done with college.is it to early for me to be planing the wedding??

2007-10-23 08:20:20 · 29 answers · asked by Cynthia O 1 in Weddings

My family was invited to a destination wedding for my hubbys friend. We live in TX and the wedding was in Illinois. Anyway it was addressed to "Mr. Duster and Family" No RSVP needed. My hubby was asked to be a gm but declined because of financial reasons and our not knowing if we would be able to attend. Well we flew up to Illinois for the wedding, Me, hubby, and our 2 little ones. When we met them at the hotel they asked us what our kids were doing there? The bride said babies are not allowed. What was I supposed to do with my kids now? I told her, that I had not realized that since the invitation was addressed to the family. We would have never come all that way if we had know that. I told my hubby to attend the wedding without me but he refused. The groom appoligized numerous times and even offered to pay for the flight home(we declined) but the bride has informed me she wants to be reimbersed for the meals and the hotel room since we didn't attend and made her waste money.

2007-10-23 08:19:11 · 52 answers · asked by !s@b3l@ 1 in Weddings

tell me some signs

2007-10-23 08:18:53 · 11 answers · asked by yanksrule4691 1 in Singles & Dating