Hi am a 13 year old boy that does not know much about style, fashion or being cool. I am between chubby and slim. I am not the coolest boy in my grade. The girls in our school are so hot and are difficult to ask out. What is the best thing to have or to do to make them like me more. What do girls like? I have medium dark brown hair brownish black eyes.
2007-10-23 08:41:04 · 17 answers · asked by Ivan V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are just perfect....lol :)
2007-10-23 08:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by NELP G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're old enough to be my son, but none the less, I like someone with a great personality.
Maybe when you are 13 looks is what girls and even guys go for, but as you get older you realize that what is in a person's heart and soul is far more important. Remember the old saying "Beauty is only skin deep"? Well it is true.
If you can laugh with others, laugh at yourself, have a good outlook on life be in a positive frame of mind, you will be surprised just how attractive you will be to others.
If you are feeling a bit self conscious about your looks, then start some minor exercise routine and go for a new look such as a new hair cut. Don't change because you think that is what others want, change because you want a change in your life and because you want to try something new.
2007-10-23 15:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by belen2499 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONFIDENCE.
All genders, all ages love confidence!! It's the most attractive thing to a human being. Don't be intimidated because a girl is "hot" or whatever. Just be sure of yourself and most of all BE YOURSELF. You can't pretend to be someone else and expect a girl to like you when she finds out what the real you is. Don't mislead a girl by making her fall for someone you're not. Just be friendly and respectful... and yourself... and be proud of it!
Girls like that.
But be careful not to get cocky. Girls DON'T really like boys who are arrogant and think they're all that. There's a fine line between confidence and arrogance... you have to be proud and sure of yourself, but humble enough to not flaunt it and take shortcomings in a stride. If a girl turns you down, she's not a big loser for not going out with you 'cause you're soooo cool. That's arrogance. If a girl turns you down, then there's other fish in the sea, it's not the end of the world, and you want someone interested in you anyway, but you're respectful to the girl all the same. That's confidence.
2007-10-23 15:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Find a friend among them and start hanging out with them. Once they know you then you can be accepted. Be honest, sincere, well groomed and a good friend. Guys like that get all the girls and do better than a lot of the cool guys.
2007-10-23 15:46:12 · answer #4 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, I'm a 13 year old girl, what we like is a sense of humor. i don't really know about anyone else, but I really seem to like the simple little humorous (not crude) jokes. give it a try, get some confidence!
be nice too, girls love a sensitive, sweet, (somewhat) innocent guy!
good luck <3
2007-10-23 15:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by BAMF. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. im a 13 yr old girl. take advice from me.
just try to talk to them but dont talk about stupid stuff. laugh when they say something attempted funny but dont over laugh it. dont be mean to girls, under ANY circumstances. they may be bitchy but there just having a bad day. look at some of the guys in your school that seem to be "cool" and see how they dress, or where they shop. then, shop there too. i would say american eagle or abercrombie. make sure you have good personal hygene, no acne, no greasy hair. cuz thats a Majorrrr turn off. and if the girl you like is in any of ur classes, make sure you talk to her. e-mail me for more advice!
good luckk!
2007-10-23 15:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confidence is number one...if you are secure with yourself they will find that very attractive and you can't keep them away. Find some cool hobbies and focus on those things and the women will come in time.
2007-10-23 15:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, try to get in shape, look up the latest fashion and buy it, be yourself ( but not all the time ) , and just be mor talkative but also a little mysterious, girls love guys who are hard to get.
2007-10-23 15:44:36 · answer #8 · answered by Spoken_Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, be confident, be sweet and sensitive, yet masculine. Try to be considerate. those kinda things. Girls are very different from boys and are very emotional, especially around your age ( a word of caution ;) Good luck
2007-10-23 15:53:16 · answer #9 · answered by Nita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound pretty good looking to me(don't worry i'm a 13 year old girl).....well, let's see you should be able to make them laugh (in a good way), or at least smile; be kind, and say things that draw attention to good qualities of hers: compliments. but remember: you will receive the treatment you give. be nice!
2007-10-23 15:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers, sweets, cute things, sense of humor, show that you care, be nice yet strong, and defend them if you really like them.
It also depends on the type of girl they are.
Each girl has their own type of things they like or dislike. Guys have a hard time figuring us out.
Best of luck.=)
2007-10-23 15:46:00 · answer #11 · answered by Jennifer S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋