The SOB says that he loves her in a nonromantic way, though.
2007-10-23 08:25:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick his @$$
2007-10-23 08:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Sebastian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how secure you are in your relationship. If you are secure, and she's not interested, mark it up to your virility and good looks and move on. If she's interested, then you have to ask yourself how committed this relationship is. If she's not, and he's a pest...then maybe a little non-violent talk about giving her the ability to have a life without his professions of love.
I don't recommend physical violence, because it's always worse for you. ALWAYS. No matter what, you come off with a problem, either legal or otherwise (how many times do you want your girl to say "you didn't have to hit him! I was fine!"?)
Bottom line is, make sure you understand your gal's opinion on the matter, tell her you don't like it at all, be honest about your feelings. Find out if she's got an issue with it. Then, stand back like a man and be the kind of guy she'll decide was the right choice. This other guy may be playing a game...but you have to remember...it takes two to tango, and if she's not interested NOTHING on EARTH will make it happen!
2007-10-23 08:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Night Owl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it should depend on how your girlfriend reacts to it.
Does she feel like its a nonromantic or romantic way?
It it makes her feel like its a romantic way then you should take into consideration the fact that she's still with you.
If not, then just blow it off.
Don't let the jerk get to you.
2007-10-23 08:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me I'm a girl! Don't kick his ****, you will look like the bad guy and he will look like the poor wounded good guy to your girlfriend.
Be grown up about it
Just tell him that you think it's inappropriate to be saying that to your girlfriend whether it's non-romantic or not.
How would he feel if you said the same to his girlfriend (if he has one)
Don't worry about it, be flattered that someone likes your girlfriend, it's a compliment, and remember she's with you : )
Oh, and it wouldn't hurt for You to tell her now and again
2007-10-23 08:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by LadyB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is love, bro, unless you know that he's gay or something, I think I would be watching how she reacts to it. I can see parental love, sibling love, BFF love, but something about this guy is off.
Watch your back.
2007-10-23 08:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves him too, who are you to hold back true love? Stand on the sidelines and let them work it out amongst themselves. You people are so possessive, I thought women didn't want to be treated as objects? =0
2007-10-23 08:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by donutgonuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If another guy tells your girlfriend that he loves her, You have to ask her who she really love. Her opinion is important and if she answer that she really loves you, you can ignore him or if you like kick his @$$.
2007-10-23 08:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, for now. But if the Bas tard tries to make a move, kick his A s s into oblivion.
2007-10-23 08:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could punch him lol
but really, a friend of mine told me and my boyfriend that some other girl liked him...all I said was oh really?...I mean i trust him not to do anything stupid and he's not like that so alls good
2007-10-23 11:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Nifty_250 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's sweet! The question is, how did your girlfriend react?????
2007-10-23 08:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a nonromantic way? they're just friends. but still, tell him to back off a little. she's yours!
2007-10-23 08:29:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋