2007-10-23 12:26:06 · 36 answers · asked by chelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think im ugly...i have brown hair dark brown eyes...X tremely long eyelashes..ive been told...i get told im cute a lot..but i think it might have to do with my weight maybe..lets just say im about 15 pounds more than i should be....but dont worry i dont have a self esteem issue...i just really wonder why everybody else gets asked out and i dont =(
2007-10-23 12:47:19 · update #1
Im only 5 feet tall im 16 and Ive never had REAL boyfriend either...but dont get soo worried now there is still pletny of time and realtionships like that dont last anyway. When the time is right youll meet a great guy!
2007-10-23 12:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by SJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But don't worry about your age or height. There is someone for everyone. Some guys like blondes, some brunettes. Some like them skinny, some curvy. Short / tall..you get the idea. I'm sure there are certain qualities that you like too.
But the most important: Be nice, kind, have a good head on their shoulders, happy with their life, and looking forward to future, family values....etc....
Having said that, guys are looking for the same thing (unless it's just a fling). Don't focus on "getting a guy". The right one will eventually come along. And when he does, he'll see you as a happy, confident individual.
THAT will help get 'em ;-)
2007-10-23 12:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Height is irrelevant. Size of heart is important.
Do you think the boys you have shared time thought they were REAL boyfriends? Maybe.
Besides, not to be boring and proper, I ask you to trust me in saying that you will only ever have one REAL boyfriend, no matter how it feels at the moment. If you work for it and are lucky, the REAL boyfriend will become your life partner. At sixteen, there is no reason for haste... let it run and play while your heart gets stronger.
In the mean time, have fun.
Slaying boys with the things you don't mind doing will only tear you down even faster. Lift them up with your eyes and your honor.
2007-10-23 12:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by science_joe_2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey darling... enjoy ur days as a single lady. Trust me the man will come and when u start dating there comes a time u wish u had enjoyed those single years while u had them. Didnt start dating till i was twenty. Been with my man for 4years and am begining to feel married and ancient...lol!! be free and enjoy ur youth. the men will definitely come at the right time. remember u r beautiful no matter the height and soemone will love u for u.just wait for ur time.
2007-10-23 12:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient and be happy with who you are. when one learns to truly love themself it shows and is a very attractive trait in a partner. of course self love must be balanced with humility.
you are still very very young, i'd just relax on the boyfriend thing and have fun with your friends. that special someone usually comes when you're being yourself, not when you actively search because people tend to want right now and end on settling what is the best at the time which is normally settling for less
4'11" is not that short, there are many guys who love petite girls. so bottom line, be patient, love yourself and I guarantee you that you'll be happy in the long run
2007-10-23 12:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by thunderwood1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're a comfortable woman nevertheless. don't worry about being in a courting immediately. concentration on college and dangle out which includes your associates. What do you go with or go with for your self? stumble on assistance on a thanks to love your self first and good-rated, it really is the way you;ll benefit self esteem besides. even as i change into your age i did not have any boyfriends and that i wasn't even allowed up to now! I felt an similar as you. i will use myself as an social gathering: searching again on my teenage years now, i'm happy i did not have a boyfriend even as i change into in severe college. I bear in mind all of my pals telling me their boyfriend issues and that i change into happy i did not ought to attend to the drama that comes alongside with being in a courting. i'm 24 years previous and that i'm nevertheless unmarried. once i'm thoroughly finished with college and that i have my occupation, it really is even as i will commence courting. i did not actually have my first kiss until eventually i change into 23 years previous and that change into fairly actually worth the wait, trust me. this may all are available time. i wish this facilitates.
2016-10-22 21:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make sure the guy u go after are gonna treat u rite. if u dont then ull just be mistreated. just make sure ur clothes are figure flatering, not slutty. put on the right amount of eyeliner, and be friendly and nice. stand up straight with some pride. flunt it, flip the hair, shake the hips. do wat u gotta do. but dont over do it. and most imporant. smile! i girl who can have a sence of humor and smile will be noticed, in a good way.
good luck!!
2007-10-23 12:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Reeses' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, i dont think your size has anything to do with it. i think if you worry about your size you send off bad vibes, who cares what people think, if you are a positive bubbly person people are gonna want to be around you all the time. i find if you are looking for it you come across as desperate but if you just sit back be happy and enjoy life it will come straight to you. my boyfriend told me that thats what attracted him to me cause i was so positive, i am still only 5"2 and he is 6"4. its all about your attitude.
2007-10-23 12:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by kaz07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are who God made you to be. If God thought you were not desirable, He wouldn't have made you. But you will find someone that loves you for who you are, regardless of your height.
Don't seem desperate, though. You will be taken advantage of and get your heart broken. Just remain assertive and demand what you are looking for. Hang in there.
2007-10-23 12:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by WonderGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's all kinds of things you can do to get one..now, getting one you want's the hard part. First of all, be friendly and cute, and don't be a hoe unless tht's the kind of guy you want. true, there are a lot of hott ones tht are into tht kinda thing, but they're all aholes. after that, just go for it. i would say "be yourself" as there's no better cliche..but i bet somebody already beat me to it.
2007-10-23 12:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋