Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

When I try to talk to my BF about things he does that hurts me, like lying to me or constantly breaking promises to me, or constantly throwing me out of the house without telling me why, paying back money he owes me, he tells me that there is nothing to talk about or hangs up on me or says that it was in the past and thats that etc. So these hurts dont get resolved.
He always finds a way of avoiding it and refuses to listen to me, but hes happy to talk about other things. I dont know what to do about it. I want to sort this out but everytime I try I get no where with him.

2007-10-23 14:48:19 · 10 answers · asked by Mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

should your partner still be close to there ex and not want you to be close to yours or talk to the opposite sex and not want you to.

2007-10-23 14:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by quita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think is wrong with my husband?Do you think his behavior is strange?

-He gets angry really quickly and shouts alot.He throws things at people and pushed stuff into them.He is a teacher @ High School and has thrown trash cans at students and pushed a table into a student's stomach.

-He seems to only feel comfortable talking to older women and glares at men who try to talk to him/be friendly with him and just seems plainly uninterested in their conversation.

Do you think that he's weird?
I don't know what to do please help!

2007-10-23 14:47:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I saw my ex-wife on there offering sex for money and she denies it but, I have the proof and she still denies it.
She`s a hooker!
We don`t see each other these days and it ended about 8 years ago, Her son is about 10 now and I am wondering what to do?
Should I get her busted?

2007-10-23 14:44:41 · 5 answers · asked by Kiss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i used to watch porn but then my computer got a virus afterwards. I wanna keep watching it, but i dont wanna get a virus. is there any other way i can

2007-10-23 14:43:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-23 14:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..There is this guy he is very cute...Latley I have noticed he is always staring at me...anytime I look at him he is looking at me....then he looks away.....in science class he sits by me...he turns and pretends he is looking at his arm but i see him looking at me...The other day in history we were learning something and they had to vote out a girl..he called on me
But he has never talked to me....he looks so scared


So today I was like thats it i am going to talk to ths boy...so i tryed to he was there with his sister and he was like we have to go and ran off
So I went up to his friends and was like why want he talk to me his freinds said he does not want too

Then I talked to my freind who has been freinds with him a very long time..she says he is very shy around girls


I dont understand him!!

2007-10-23 14:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 14:41:23 · 3 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 14:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boss and i are debating on this

2007-10-23 14:40:07 · 27 answers · asked by carla28al 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My 25 y/o son moved in with me from another state to save him from probation-he met a girl on line-they agreed to pay me $50/week to live in my home...that was almost 8 weeks ago...she has paid me $50.00-my grandson lives with me but is going back to his mom's in 2 days, but apparently I am stuck with this internet woman (i googled her) and my son who DO NOTHING...can I legally kick them out once by grandson is back with his mother? Or, since I took their money is this a legal rent agreement and have to give them 30 days? If I see that woman one more time, or listen to my damn probation son one more time, I will go crazy. I will never, ever help him again, or this damn chick from the internet. Where the hell are her parents? She is 29 y/o...can't i kick them our?

2007-10-23 14:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by ellie 1 in Family

been to many marriage counsollors and NO change. Wife has recently admitted she has never really respected or loved me like she should have. She admits and says she is sorry, but after 12 years of living like a roommate...i am done. My girls are 6 and 8 and seem to be ok. (we are seperated now) But i fear how they will grow up in their teens. I am going nuts emotionally and wonder if i should go back into marriage for the kids sake.

My family also has taken sides with my wife and not me cause I am the one initiating the divroce.

2007-10-23 14:38:12 · 22 answers · asked by Jason F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband (whom I love deeply) has no responsibilities in the house.He doesn't share in the household chores (laundry,dishes, meal time, shopping,ect) He works a part time job 3 days a week (Day Shift, might I add) I work 6 days a week (swing shift) at a Casino & Hotel. Granted I am working the hotel, but we have about 207 room and are full at least 4 days a week.It is a very fast pasted job.So I get off work at 1:30am and then have an hour drive home.so By 2:30am when I finally walk back in the door,Im way to tired to "fufill my wifely duties" He thinks that I should be ready to go when ever he is.But what I cant get him to understand is that if he helped more around that house and with the kids that I might have enought energy at the end of the day to have sex, But by the time I sleep for 3 hrs after I get home from work,Get 4 kids ready for school and then do the house work from the day before I am beat.so Is my lack of sex drive because of his lack of responcibility?

2007-10-23 14:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by racheldeos 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this boy that is like sooo sprung on me and i don't like him and he also want to get with me
what should i do

2007-10-23 14:37:02 · 10 answers · asked by yoshy 1 in Singles & Dating

we talk alot but i'm not sure if he knows i like him. any ideas?

2007-10-23 14:35:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... and made you feel as if your feet would NEVER touch the ground again because they're in your life forever and ever amen; have you EVER felt this way?

2007-10-23 14:33:58 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so every relationship i gave had has never worked out. i always doubt it. before i go to bed i feel that the relationship is good but throughout the day it makes me sick to think about it. am i not really ready to date yet??? is it me or him? i feel embaressed to be seen with the guy always because i think to myself i really dont like him??? but it has happened with every guy! if i talk to him its fine but then i stop and 5 minutes later... DOUBT! what do i do? is this a commitment issue?

2007-10-23 14:33:17 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will I look like a s. l. u. t. if I ask a guy out that is a "Suspected druggie," if I like him, and my B-ball team wants me to go out with someone b-cause I'm the only "cool person" on the team withought a BF. ( i know that s. l. u. t. doesn't have . inbetween it but it woulden't let me write it normal.)

2007-10-23 14:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by lala 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend wants to invite children...
I would like to have an adults only wedding...

The wedding will take place from late afternoon to evening.

What do you think?

2007-10-23 14:27:22 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

i need help badly. i just hurt da love of my life with my jealousy. I dont kno how 2 explain it...i ***** wenever she leaves da house even 2 a girlfriends house. I get mad wen she talks about exs. Lil stuff makes me worried 2. i dont kno how 2 get rid of dis jealous behavior. She's cheated before but only bcuz i drove her dat way & pushed her away. Please i dont kno wut 2 do besides counselin & i dont hav much money 4 counselin right now...

2007-10-23 14:26:42 · 20 answers · asked by Joshua P 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend got my sister pregnant and she is keeping it... My boyfriend is sendng me e-mails saying he is sorry... He send about 75... But my mind is saying no, dump him... and go out with my niece's lunch worker.. Every time I bring my niece some lunch, he would stare... I could be talking to my niece's teacher, he would just stare... And another teacher, my best friend, says he would always ask her what's my name, where i live, and etc... What should I do? I'm so confused right now... I don't think I can go on with this situation by myself...I just want someone to talk to and hold me...you know?

2007-10-23 14:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

He has yet to meet me half way with any decisions, or arguments. I have changed things about myself that he did not like. I even accepted the fact that he's 9yrs older than me(I'm 18). He even has a child and an ex he still keeps in contact with but never talks on the phone with them around me. He has never been married, yet he tells me constantly how he wants to be with me. He wanted to break up 10 times before today. I don't want to go back home to my mother, who is thousands of miles away, with my tail in between my legs.

2007-10-23 14:24:43 · 29 answers · asked by LonelyAverage18yrold 1 in Singles & Dating

I liked him before her, but he liked her, and then they went out, i liked him for three years, and they went out for a year, now i like him more than ever, and he likes me.... is that a bad thing?

2007-10-23 14:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Julia C 1 in Singles & Dating

cooks, cleans has goals, doesn't want kids right away and wants to have a successful career. You have physical chemistry with this girl but sometimes things like you have too much in common-- to the point where it seems kinda quirky. Or be with a girl that is slightly older, a bit controlling, decent sex, and you've been together for 5+ years? However you broke up with her because she took 2k from you.

2007-10-23 14:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by workaholic 2 in Singles & Dating

Honestly??? I know diff. guys are attracted to diff. things, but I was jw what some of you think.

2007-10-23 14:18:06 · 12 answers · asked by La la 3 in Singles & Dating

So I had a boyfriend and everything was going good as far as I knew. Then out of the blue he stopped answering my txts and phone calls. Well I assume this was his way of breaking up since he was avoiding me at all costs. I made it very clear to him that I wasnt gonna start a fight and that I just wanted my stuff back, and I'd disapear after that. But still no response from him and its been like a week. I even suggested if he didnt want to see me, some one else could pick up my things or just put them in my mailbox. So why wont he atleast give my stuff back? If he's going to ignore me he can do it much better once I get my things. Because untill I get them I'm not going anywhere, wheather he responds to me or not. Once again I made that very clear aswell.

2007-10-23 14:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband have totally changed since i had my last child, he start receiving calls and text messages from different girls, he start sleeping in the visitors room, he goes out every saturday night and sunday night, telling me he just want to drive around the neighborhood, he usually receive nude girls pictures from his friends. he stopped giving me allowance, we use to have joint account, now he has his own separate account. he take decisions without informing. he love to be on the phone than to be with me, WHAT CAN I DO PLEASE

2007-10-23 14:14:49 · 18 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a profession that many would really enjoy...but it stresses me out and I don't feel this is the job I was meant to be doing. I do enjoy it but I don't love it. I am never really unhappy....but I'm never really happy either. I want to do what I love...make a profession out of doing art. But it is a scary endeavor. I also don't think my husband is excited about the later decision...as we want to buy a house soon and start a family and he is worried about losing a steady income. What do you reccomend. I feel internally torn. It is making me depressed at times.

2007-10-23 14:14:48 · 4 answers · asked by sacabeans00 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

suppose you and this someone had a fight and he/she wanted to leave? Would you beg them to stay with you?

2007-10-23 14:14:07 · 27 answers · asked by Mrs J 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean there are toxic circumstances that are understandable for a divorce
But what if one parent decided they just wanted to live a single life? isnt that just selfish ?

the kids are left to suffer
some people dont even want to attempt counseling or anything.

Serious answers only please

2007-10-23 14:14:04 · 12 answers · asked by simply me 2 in Marriage & Divorce