Will I look like a s. l. u. t. if I ask a guy out that is a "Suspected druggie," if I like him, and my B-ball team wants me to go out with someone b-cause I'm the only "cool person" on the team withought a BF. ( i know that s. l. u. t. doesn't have . inbetween it but it woulden't let me write it normal.)
2007-10-23 14:28:35 · 13 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, if you like him, you go for it. Just because he is a suspected druggie doesn't necessarily mean he is!
2007-10-23 14:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Philosopher 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Err, it would not be a wise move on your part, because it would be foolish to get involved with someone a) who you know is a druggie (and will probably drag you down with him) and b) who you ask out only because your team wants you to and not because you actually like or have feelings for the person. You sound like a teenager, and teenagers make a lot of mistakes when it comes to relationships. So don't be one of those ridiculous girls who are completely dependent on boys to make them happy. Be your own person and don't worry about what your team wants. Peer pressure is after all the downfall of most teenagers isn't it? Don't go with this guy; wait for a good guy with redeemable qualities.
2007-10-23 21:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by ellieoshkosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to ask him out because you need a BF to remain "cool" and be like the others on your team? Forget the peer pressure! You can still be cool if you don't have a BF. If you really like the guy -- aside from wanting to be like everyone else -- ask. If you find he really is a druggie, then don't waste any more time. There are plenty others. Bottom line: do it for yourself with someone you really like and not to fit in and not if he's not what you really want.
2007-10-23 21:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by my2cents 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you set your sights on a possible loser? That's what he is if he's doing drugs and is a druggie. You can do better. You wont look like a slut if you go for him, but you will look like someone who's not too bright and not together. By the way, druggies like their mates to be druggies too. So you can count on him trying to persuade you to get high with him. You have more to lose than to gain choosing him. I say look elsewhere for a BF. He's not the one.
2007-10-23 21:33:17 · answer #4 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never go out with someone just for the sake of having a boyfriend...who cares what your B-ball team think??!
2007-10-23 21:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should date just because your friends tell you to. It sounds kind of superficial. Also, DO NOT get involved with a druggie; that only leads to trouble.
2007-10-23 21:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's a "suspected druggie" stay away! They are not good boyfriends...or friends for that matter. They care for the addiction too much. Find another guy, PLEASE!!!
2007-10-23 21:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by libby_mcnulty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, sure?? i don't see how that will make you look like a slut but anyways, go ahead if you like him. its probably not the best type of person to ask out but yea...its whatever your heart says do
good luck<3333
2007-10-23 21:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to go with someone who does drugs. Don't do it find someone nicer.
2007-10-23 21:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
typically...DRUGGIE is a red flag...
but maybe that is just for me..
2007-10-23 21:36:09 · answer #10 · answered by juanes addicion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋