My boyfriend got my sister pregnant and she is keeping it... My boyfriend is sendng me e-mails saying he is sorry... He send about 75... But my mind is saying no, dump him... and go out with my niece's lunch worker.. Every time I bring my niece some lunch, he would stare... I could be talking to my niece's teacher, he would just stare... And another teacher, my best friend, says he would always ask her what's my name, where i live, and etc... What should I do? I'm so confused right now... I don't think I can go on with this situation by myself...I just want someone to talk to and hold me...you know?
2007-10-23 14:26:13 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, I definately have to tell you that you need to stay away from your ex. I know you may miss him but something like that is unforgivable. To get over someone you need to stop all contact with him and get rid of anything that reminds you of him. As far as this new guy, it's really not a good idea for you to get involved with anyone right now. I got out of an abusive relationship a few months ago and my first instinct was to find someone to replace him. But I had to learn how to be happy by myself first. As corny as it sounds it's true. You are not going to be able to be happy with anyone right now because you still aren't over your ex. Just take time on YOU. Focus on yourself and only do things that make you happy. And please please stay away from the sad love songs. They will only make things worse. I know from experince that it will get better in time. I promise. If you need anymore advice let me know. I truly know what you're going through and am happy to help :-) Just stay strong and only move forward.
2007-10-23 14:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get away from him because he is not someone that you want to go out with in the future you need to tell him that it is nice to be sorry but it can never work between the two of you and state the reasons why!! if you want to see him then OK but i just think that is definitely not the brightest idea if he got your sister pregnant!!! just plain stupid!! because he clearly sounds like the biggest idiot i have ever heard of I'm sorry!!! but good
luck with your issue that is all i can say!!!!
2007-10-23 21:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by alex t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not even think about staying with him. If he can cheat with your own sister what else is he capable of. You deserve better so go out with the other guy. Your sister must not be a very nice person. I think that I would be more mad at her. Don't stay with the cheater and the liar.
2007-10-23 21:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know the lunch worker and you can choos from there
2007-10-23 22:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-10-23 21:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by sexy joker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋