Ok..There is this guy he is very cute...Latley I have noticed he is always staring at me...anytime I look at him he is looking at me....then he looks away.....in science class he sits by me...he turns and pretends he is looking at his arm but i see him looking at me...The other day in history we were learning something and they had to vote out a girl..he called on me
But he has never talked to me....he looks so scared
So today I was like thats it i am going to talk to ths boy...so i tryed to he was there with his sister and he was like we have to go and ran off
So I went up to his friends and was like why want he talk to me his freinds said he does not want too
Then I talked to my freind who has been freinds with him a very long time..she says he is very shy around girls
I dont understand him!!
2007-10-23 14:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you do. you asked what was going on and you found out he's very shy. you have to take it easy on him and he may get more comfortable around you. talk him every day in science class , something easy. You know the kid on south park that barfs everytime a girl he likes says hi? That's kind of what it's like for the cute guy, not barf but get panicky that he may say something wrong.If you want to get to know him take your time . I was just like him in school,But if a girl even looked at me i'd blush a deep red. now i have no problem with that i met some very nice women over time that showed me I had nothing to fear, And so much to gain. hope this helps
2007-10-23 14:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, since he is shy use the fact that you seem to have many friends in common and do a large group activity. Make sure he is surrounded by people he is comfortable with and you will be able to learn more about each other without putting the pressure of a date on him. After a few group activities you should be able to decrease the number of people til it is just the two of you, and then maybe he will have worked up the courage to tell you how he feels.
2007-10-23 21:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by kkuhn130 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness can be a crushing emotion. People who are shy have "very thin skin," i.e. they are terrified of saying or doing, the wrong thing and getting rejected. Try talking with his sister and arranging a place the three of you could meet, like a food court, and get to know each other. Once he learns more about you, then he will build TRUST of you. Be patient with this guy. He will take a while.
2007-10-23 21:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are like that whenever they see a girl they like or have a crush on, they are trying to get ur attention so u can like him and then he wont be so scared.Cause i have this guy i like but whenever i stare at him he looks at me then he just wonders off again. So then i heard he wanted to ask me to this dance but he never asked me. But The point is when ever a guy sees a girl that he likes he'll just be shy.But after you get yo know him a little better u guys would be good friends and he wont be so shy of you ever again.
2007-10-23 21:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like what David said. This makes a lot of sense. The same has happened to me with a guy.
2007-10-23 21:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes you he just doesn't know how to talk to girls. Keep trying and maybe he'll relax.
2007-10-23 21:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by lptrainerk15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't know who to talk to girls. That's liek my cuz waz and now their is no way of stop him from flirting w/ my bff"z!!!!
2007-10-23 21:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥ I WANT YOU ♥~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋