I liked him before her, but he liked her, and then they went out, i liked him for three years, and they went out for a year, now i like him more than ever, and he likes me.... is that a bad thing?
2007-10-23 14:20:22 · 5 answers · asked by Julia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BUT i talked to her and she said it was fine...AND i liked him before her.
2007-10-23 14:27:13 · update #1
yes it is because if you date him and it doesnt work out you have lost him AND your best friend.
2007-10-23 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm..complicated. i can't said you are wrong cos you like him first. but the thing is does your girl friend noe that you like him before she started dating him? if she doesn't noe she will be so hurted. cos it's like someone hiding so big thing behind her back for so so long and now it is taking away her bf and best friend. the worst thing that can ever happen. how is it like btw the girl and the guy? are they still in love or facing a bad term relationship? why did the guy suddenly stop loving her and like you. there is so much of a questions to answer. and whatever step you take now, someone will get hurt. actually it is not possible to have both him and her in your situation. you can only choose one. the boyfriend or the best friend. there is no right or wrong. but you got to be true to yourself. ask what you really want. cos once the decision is made, there is no turn back route. but the guy..is he worth your love. will he stop loving you one day and like your other best friend. i'm not sure. only you noe. the choice is yours. good luck.:)
2007-10-23 21:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by cheer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did your friend like him also or after you told her you liked him?....these things happen your not the first, anywhooo you should talk to your friend to see how she feels about you dating the guy,but dont go behind her back unless she went behind your...karma lol
good luk
2007-10-23 21:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by llils05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is bad. Never mess with your friends ex's...
2007-10-23 21:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sonny B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR NOT IN LOVE...JUST INFATUATION......GET OVER IT
2007-10-23 21:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bob d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋