So I had a boyfriend and everything was going good as far as I knew. Then out of the blue he stopped answering my txts and phone calls. Well I assume this was his way of breaking up since he was avoiding me at all costs. I made it very clear to him that I wasnt gonna start a fight and that I just wanted my stuff back, and I'd disapear after that. But still no response from him and its been like a week. I even suggested if he didnt want to see me, some one else could pick up my things or just put them in my mailbox. So why wont he atleast give my stuff back? If he's going to ignore me he can do it much better once I get my things. Because untill I get them I'm not going anywhere, wheather he responds to me or not. Once again I made that very clear aswell.
2007-10-23 14:16:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As far as I know nothing bad happened. He is alive and uninjured lol. He cant be afraid of faceing me because I promised I wouldn't cause a scene and I'd dispear after he gave my stuff back. I'll probly have a friend get the stuff for me. But why wouldnt he just give the stuff back and save himself the hassel of me nagging him? I can be a pretty big pain in the **** if I want. and if he did toss my stuff he should atleast tell me, it would stop me from hasseling him too. So for me getting my stuff back is closure on this.
2007-10-23 14:42:52 · update #1
He is either afraid of facing you or something has happened to your "stuff". Or both.
2007-10-23 14:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go to his house when you know he will be home and act very casual about it, just say Hey i need to pick up those things. Then get them and leave. or have a mutual friend get involved and get the stuff back for you! It might be easier if you dont want to just show up at his house. This guy sounds like a real winner, so Im glad you cut your losses early! Good luck! :-)
2007-10-23 21:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by Susan F 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
this is weird. did anything bad happened to him? maybe it is not that he don't want to contact you but he can't. go find him. make sure he is fine and good. if he's still alive, then ask him can you have your things back.:)
2007-10-23 21:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by cheer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know what his problem is but you should tell him that if he doesn't give you your stuff your going to get a police escort and get it yourself.
2007-10-23 21:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by MISS K.I.A. 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE HE CAN'T LET GO HE IS STILL IN LOVE W/ YOU SO AS LONG AS HE HAS YOU THINGS HE KNOWS YOU WILL STILL BE AROUND THIS WAY HE IS CLOSE TO YOU .....................
2007-10-23 21:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋