So there is this girl at my high school and I like her a lot. I went to homecoming with her and I think she liked me before homecoming. We have a few classes together and we would talk a lot. But after homecoming things changed mainly becasue of what happend at homecoming. I spent a good deal of money on her and treated her like a gentleman, but after the dance she decided to go with her friend and not me. I was pretty bummed out and still went to the party she went to. We talked a bit, but i could feel a tension between us.But I have really strong feelings for her and I have tried to forget her but she's undeniable. We talk at times but not a lot anymore. When I walk into class first hour she will be sitting there and make eye contact and then look quickly away. The truth is that I'm really shy when it comes time to talk to the girl I like. I had one of her friends ask her if she wanted to hang out with me and she said she wants to be friends. It really sucks liking her, she doesn't
2007-10-23 13:22:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No! Maybe as a friend. :--#)
2007-10-23 13:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yo bro, I got almost the same problem but mien is different because the girl I like doesn't know me. She makes eye contact with me and I am able to talk to the other girls in class, except for her.
Well anyways I think you still got a chance unless shes the "been there done that" type of girl. I'm still curious why she would hurt a gentleman like yourself? I thought it was a girl's dream of finding good characters. Well good luck and take care.
2007-10-23 20:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Closed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel you have a chance with her from her actions. She could also feel a little bit stink/guilty about the money you spent on her - it's a lot of pressure on a person especially if the feeling isn't mutal. I would give yourself a little distance from her for a while and when she's over it I'm sure she will start talking to you again like nothing ever happened.
2007-10-23 20:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Monkey007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you really just need to talk to her about how you feel. You never know what could happen unless you talk to her. I say stop being shy and find the courage to talk to her. It seems like you have something with this girl, especially if she went to homecoming with you. Good Luck!
2007-10-23 20:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by SUNKlSSEDXoX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man. Tell her how you feel. She looking to see if you'll step up and be a man. What is the worse that can happen? She likes another guy? Fine. Go and find out and get it over with. If she tells you likes you then you won. If she tells you likes someone else then she lost and you'll know that you can move on. And "move on" don't blow up in her face, don't yell or beg. Find someone else. Cause when you do that's when she's going to be hot for you. It's the classic scenario women want what they can't have.
So go on sic em
2007-10-23 20:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sloe3D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space and some time. I don't know what ticked her off, but she's giving you a clear signal to back off for a while. Because she said she wants to be friends, it's not over, but I'd say give it a month where you don't do anything, then approach her again. No curious looks, no asking her friends, nothing but just being around where you two are together--ignore her. After a month, try approaching her again.
2007-10-23 20:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you need to get over this fear of talking to girls. She probably wants you to talk to her and if she really wants to be friends then you have to accept it. But you should at least talk to her yourself and she what she has to say. Yea it sucks liking a girl that doesn't like you in the same way but that's life, it isn't fair. While you are waisting all your time on this girl, there is probably another girl that is waiting on you to get over her so she can make her move on you.
2007-10-23 20:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ally Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. Don't be rude, just focus on other things. Make it clear that you are over her. She may not like too much attention and feel a little pushed. Some girls would rather be the one who likes the boy...
Put the ball in her court and I am sure you will be suprised by the results. :)
2007-10-23 20:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by ♠ THAT GIRL ♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry i think she found someone else, unless shes really shy and embaressed about something.if nothing changes in like a month or something u should just confront her about it, because "just friends" is a euphemism for i dont really want to see u anymore ill be nice to u and stuff, but not really enjoy when u talk to me" so u dont have anything to lose. usually this is what it is but not for every girl.
2007-10-23 20:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is stupid...but if u really want her...u have to make her want u...so dont show her any attention...dont look at her...and then she will start to think about u...like "y is he not looking at me anymore?" then eventually she will come and say someting to u...and u just act cool and not all in her face...just real quick answers and then be on ur way til u get what u want....ill say after the 3rd time she approches u...or says hi to u first...see then if she wants to hang out...if not...then forget the dumbass.
2007-10-23 20:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by geno o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw sorry to hear that. Whether you like it or not your going to just have to be friends with her. Be yourself and maybe her feelings will change later and she might want to be more than just friends. Good Luck =)
2007-10-23 20:27:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋