okae, so i met a guy online, and yeah we were "together" at heart as i may say bcuz we couldnt be together physically. we always talked about meeting but didnt talk about it again wen we broke up, well, he broke up w/ me and when the break up was still fresh we were still in contact until we slowly drifted apart making our communication juz completely gone. now, its been like 2-3 months that he has'nt made an effort to contact me. i have a feeling that he found somebody else. anyways, my auntie wants me to spend x-mas w/ her and she lives in the same city as my ex does. this would be a chance for us to meet right? so should i let him know that i'll be visiting? how should i let him know? text? email? call?(oh, he doesnt answer my calls anymore tho.) or should i juz not care? becuz of course im still curious about how a person that became a part of my life really is in person. so should i? what should i say? thanks for helping me! and if i do what expression will com up to him??
2007-10-23 16:06:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh, uhm, yeah i know how to spell. it's just that im trying to fit every word and so i just used short cuts. and to the person saying that he'll get a brain tumor, im really sorry, but thanks for letting me know that i need to use paragraphs. u just teached me something that i could use in the future. thanks
2007-10-23 16:35:31 · update #1
i would send him a short email in a friendly way saying "oh just wanna let ya know i'll be in *city name* *this time*, if u wanna grab a bite or something! just let me know!"
if he doesn't answer..let it go. you'll feel better knowing u gave it a shot.
2007-10-23 16:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now a days it is extremely unsafe to go and meet someone in person that you have only met online. I'm sure you've heard of stories about what has happened to people so I won't bother you with that.
But if you feel like there really was something between you two, and not just some creepy guy who would want to harm you, then you should go on ahead and meet him. What do you have to lose.
Just keep in mind to meet him in a public place and always listen to your gut. And be safe.
2007-10-23 23:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he hasnt contacted u, not even tried, then mayb he doesnt care? but i think u shud leave him an email simply explaining the situation. tell him ure coming 2 the town and yoohd relli lik 2 meet the person u tlked 2 so much. tell him 2 write back about how he feels. say youd atleat like 2 meet him..also find out how he feels! asking him wud b the best wayy good luck! =]
2007-10-23 23:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well send him a friendly note saying that you'll be in town, and meet strictly as friends. If you do meet, make sure it's in a public area and that you never go anywhere private with him. I know you have spent a lot of e-time with him and feel as though you know him too well to have to go through that, but believe me, not only will it relax the both of you, but it's a very good precaution to make.
Given that, please learn how to spell and write coherently before you enter a relationship. Given the level of literacy that is prevalent in today's society, that seems to be a good benchmark
2007-10-23 23:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by blatantlydisontent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are some steps for your problem:
1) Learn some english.
2)Type out a paragraphed question in which I can read it without getting a tumor.
3) contact me and maybe I'll have a response.
2007-10-23 23:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by knightofyourmom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have already knew that there was no communication from him.
Do not send even mail.U will be degrading your self,and be looked low.
if at all you feelbecuseof a long continuous comminication just mail him sayong as he stopped convey that you wil never contact him.
2007-10-23 23:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bhahagyam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you are curious to how he looks but after the break up i guess it doesn't matter anymore.just leave it the way it was, the important thing is a certain (special if you want) guy has become a part of your life.stick to the memories you both made.
2007-10-23 23:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would send him an E-Mail telling him when, where (including phone #) and why you will be in town. If he has any interest in seeing you he will call when you get there. If he does not call, give it up as a lost love and move forward with your life.
2007-10-23 23:12:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but you should just let him go. If he is not returning your calls telling him your coming is just opening yourself up for more pain. Just go and enjoy the holidays with your aunt and do not give him a second thought.
2007-10-23 23:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
e-mail him let him know that you'll be in his town visiting some relatives that youre just wondering if he wants to meet you. thats all if doesnt reply thats his lost you done your part. and just forget about him if he dont want to meet just move on.
2007-10-23 23:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by DancingInTheMoonlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋