So I met this girl (girl A) like 2 months ago and since then we have hung out a lot (we go to different schools and live like an hour away)...I fell for her really fast and it is something that hasn't happened to me before....but like when we were watching a scary movie at the jumpy parts she would sorta burrow into me, and a little bit ago we went to a haunted house and it seemed to go ok but afterwards I was texting her friend (girl B) about the next night (me and girl A were supposed to hang out) and she told me that she (Girl A) really didn't want to go (it was to someones house to watch a movie) and I couldn't contact her (A) to find out, and when I replied with a sad face (lol) she (B) asked if I really liked her...well I told her I do and she (B) replied that she (A) likes this guy from her school and she knows he likes her back and so when I told her, I would wait to see what happens with that, she (B) just kept saying not to wait and its ok if I find someone to go with them
2007-10-23 19:30:28 · 8 answers · asked by Adda Badda Slavia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now i am super confused and have this weird vibe shadowing me all the time and I can't sleep at night....what should I make of this situation?
2007-10-23 19:31:06 · update #1
Go for girl A. Sure, it might not work out, but if you don't try you'll always wonder. And don't spend any time alone with girl B until you know what's happening with A. There's always the possibility that B is actually interfering, so make your arrangements with A directly and see how it goes.
Good luck.
2007-10-23 20:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious girl B is trying to come between you. Grow some balls and just ask the girl!! Ask her to breakfast or lunch or something that's not seedy and see what she sais. She's gonna know it's a date cos it'll just be you two, but if she sais no, it's no huge embarrassment. And she'll know you're being nice and not just wanting to hook up...
2007-10-23 19:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by specndim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking her friend if she likes you? Ask the girl you like! Her friend could be telling the truth, or she could be jealous of your relationship to her friend (either because you are taking time away from their relationship or she likes you herself or she is a control freak...the possibilities are endless). Call (A), forget (B), and C if you can get a date because if not you will regret it and always wonder what if.
2007-10-23 19:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Star X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kinda confused but see what your gettin at. I think i had the similair problem, i jsut showed (girl A) that i was respectful and loving and she told the other guy no and it was fine.
so i guess just show that u care for her.
2007-10-23 19:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl B is jelous and wants to break you two up.
Normal for teen romance
2007-10-23 19:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for girl C... seriously don't wait around you might end up waiting a looooong time
2007-10-23 19:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Blake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come out and ask the girl if she likes you
2007-10-23 19:35:54 · answer #7 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should wait, otherwise she may get taken. Or things could just get more complicated (Trust me there.)
2007-10-23 19:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by virtual_gamer2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋