Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. Does this mean he doesn't want to get to know me over the phone but just interested in sex? So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends.
On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? How can i test him out on the second date? I won't hookup with him.
2007-10-23 19:20:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ashley K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like, more than anything, he is just painfully immature, if not very bright. Most people, at the basest level, have the understanding that at this point (1st date), you do your darndest to impress. This guy, be it immaturity or lacking IQ, is not trying in the least.
You can talk yourself in circles as to the deep, unlying reasons for his laissez-faire attitude, or you can take it at face value: whatever the reason is, if he's this lazy at this point, think about what he'll be like later on, when most couplings lose their "magic" and reality sinks in, all the glitter blows away, and all that you are is shown in full (and hopefully fades to a sweet comfort).
Simply put, move on. If he gets his head out of his a** later, you can always reconsider. However, at this point, he is wasting your time.
2007-10-23 19:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gauffsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a woman playing dumb and pretending like she doesn't know how to handle the guy. She says she's confused by his actions and can't tell If he Is hungry for sex when all she really does to tell Is read the guy's body language. Some girls get uncomfortable quick.
P.S. If you asked a girl for her number today and she countered with an email address, you could still work with either/or. Call or email, It didn't matter. The point Is she gave him somthing solid to go with.
2007-10-23 20:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by nitemareslayer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you the truth coming from a guys point of view we are all thinking about sex and it don't matter how long you haven't talked for he wants sex ether way. And if he partied his last 7 years that's probably what he wants. A way to test him is to act sexy around him and act like you want and he will show signs of what he wants.
2007-10-23 19:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys always want sex. If you want a long term relationship then go on three dates without doing anything. If he's still there, he's not just looking for that.
2007-10-23 19:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh that is an exceptionally exciting situation. it variety of feels to me that he has now not matured yet because he has partied for like the final 7 years and has now not have been given it out of his gadget!! yet i won't be able to truly say if he became in it for intercourse if he became he would of tried it on the 1st date. in step with possibility he basically feels like he needs to be your chum rather than a lover because of fact the the two certainly one of you have been early existence friends. I say dig deeper ask approximately, discover out approximately destroy up's and why and so forth... desire this facilitates.
2017-01-04 08:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by spraggs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and talk and if he's really out for just sex he will eventually give up.
2007-10-23 19:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex
2007-10-23 19:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by snuggelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋