Last night she said to me while when we were watching the tele. This is what she said, She said "Listen john I love you but there is this guy I fancy. I dont want to two time you so its the end for you and me." Who is this bloke." I asked her. "Gordon" she replied. I was so upset that I cried all the way to the chip shop. When I came out there was Gordon standing at the bus stop, And guess who with him. Yer Julie. And they were both laughing at me. My question is... What shall I do??? I am so upset I am so upset.
2007-10-23 05:22:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a record about it then grow up to be John Shuttleworth.
2007-10-23 05:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness! The first thing that would come to my mind would be to give Gordon a nice punch int he face! But I wouldn't. Which means I wouldn't advise you to punch Gordon in the face. It would only get you trouble. Resorting to violence is never the answer. You just be mature and leave it alone. Let them mess around all they want. The time will come when she will realize what a fool she was. But for right now there are other fish in the sea. I'm sure there is 1 out there waiting for you who would make you happy.
2007-10-23 05:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a bridge and get over it. She is a B&$*H to say that she loves you but wants to go off with another man. This is not love, this is being cold , decietful and malicious. I believe in what goes around comes around. Lets hope Gordon does it to her and then she will feel like you feel now.
I know you will need time to get over this relationship but take note that she has done this awful thing to you so she could get her jollies with another man. if they do split and she comes back tel her to go f%$£ herself with the wrong end of a hot poker.
My advice is to hold your head up high , get over her, find another woman who truely knows the meaning of love and accepts you for who you are and if any body asks why you split up tell them the truth. it will be her that is labelled and you seen in a new light. this will make you a stronger person and a more loving person when the right woman comes a long.
Good luck. Now get out there and meet some decent women
(if you find them let me now where they are)
2007-10-23 05:33:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, that Julie is quite heartless, much better to forget her as ,even though I doubt she wants it right now, she doesn't deserve a second chance or even to be thought about! Just move on, try to forget her as she wasn't that cool, she seems quite creepy and quite childish in my opinion and find a real girl, look for a lovely girl who loves and cares about you. You were unlucky this time, but it doesn't mean you won't succeed next time!! At the beginning it will be hard for you, but in a while you will realise that she made you a favour leaving you! Good luck!! you deserve the best!
2007-10-23 07:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your self a drink mates and another bird and forget her becouse shes picked a man with the name gordon so what a fool she is honestly i have meet many people in my time but never a good gordon they have all been gay perverted mad maybe its a course at birth or something so you ve got the last laugh at her
2007-10-23 05:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was a waste of your love, spend it on someone else. Stuff like this happens to some people. You gotta be prepared for it, move on and find someone 100 times better. I know it might sound like oyu never will but honestly there are plenty of other women out there.
The fact that she laughed means she was using you.
2007-10-23 05:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Your little helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a hottie that makes her look and feel like nothing and make sure she sees it and just ignore her...ok jk. Make sure you never date/see another girl like this again, sorry about your luck but she sounds like a whore, and you don't need that. As far as the other guy goes, she'll do the same thing to him in due time and he'll feel stupid, b/c you'll be the one laughing then. They both need to grow up and you should find someone who is worth your time. Good Luck.
2007-10-23 05:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get the feeling she was only using to get to that Gordon bloke. So if I were you, I'd get over her @$$ and find a good woman whose worthy. I know she's out there, Good Luck.
2007-10-23 05:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if Julie was laughing at you thats a really mean bitchy thing to do.
wow, i would move on and i think Gordon said something about you to make Julie want him more =/
sorry, and good luck
2007-10-23 05:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by jennaxxdropdead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let a similar thing happened to me but she was going back to her ex and were still friends, even thoug her bf isnt happy about it. Basically her laughing at u means she can like you much as a person unlike in my case. Shes not worth your time you sound like a nice guy go out nd find a girl who will cherish you.
Good luck.
2007-10-23 05:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do. We can't make others love us, or even like us for that matter. I suggest that you find something to do to occupy your time so your not constantly thinking about her. Join some sort of league or get a hobby. Something that will get you out of the house and active.
2007-10-23 05:27:00 · answer #11 · answered by Jami W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋