Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

Everyone said mean nasty things because Brittany wasn't flawless looking this year. My body isn't much better so how can I keep people from insulting my body and me?

2007-10-23 03:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by Luxecashmere 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 6'1 and some men just go crazyy over me, but then again there are some men that are intimidated or not attracted to be because of my height, what do you think?

2007-10-23 03:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by TNsouthernbelle 1 in Singles & Dating

2 1/2 years ago I dropped my husband's wedding ring in the kitchen. I believe it is wedged behind the dishwasher, which is part of the center kitchen island. I tried to unscrew the dishwasher and pull it out, but I'm not a plumber and don't want to disconnect the pipes.
Hubby was not mad at all about the lost ring. We are very solid and stable in our 14 year relationship (married for 8). We both feel that a piece of jewelry does not signify the marriage. Eventually I bought him a new one. The original is plain gold band with an engraved inscription. The replacement is just a plain band. He does not wear his ring daily because of work.

Yesterday we had a plumber over due to our broken garbage disposal. I asked hubby to have the plumber pull out the dishwasher because in my heart, I know it's there. But hubby didn't ask the plumber. He said to just let it go. I just want to find that original ring! Is that being ridiculous?

2007-10-23 03:10:37 · 18 answers · asked by Sharon F 6 in Marriage & Divorce

just told the gilr who i really care for that i like her i felt like an idiot but i done it.

But then after i thought she didnt she told me she used to like me as well ..yeh used to i know i was gutted.But then i said do you still have feelings for me she said i dunno im just not ready for a relationship right now which i totally respect .

I mean both of us felt the same and i dont know what to do.she isnt a player no way i know her very well. Iam just feeling a bit sad that what could have been is or might be going?

I told her im ok with her not wanting to be in a relationship iam because all good things come to those who wait right?


so anyway im wondering what can i do to reassure her that being scared is ok and im not wanting her for one thing.

And also is all lost between this situation im in?


I feel happy but sad because i care about her so much and now i cant be with her.


Thanks peeps no rude answers xxxx take care

2007-10-23 03:07:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, three months ago, I moved from where I have grown up for the majority of my life, Richmond Virginia, to where I was born, Florida.
And I was sad, of course, to leave my friends, my home, and my family.
Now, I have mad friends in florida, through school, and everything, and I'm fairly happy.
But my parents have told me in a year, when our lease is up, we might move home!
I am soooo excited, we still have out house there, we haven't sold it, and I was just soo excited.
I told some of my friends, but they're not happy for me, but I called my Bff in Va, and she was happy.
I don't know weather I should be sad, because now I feel bad that I was sooo happy to go home....But thats not wrong...
Should I be sad about moving? Its not like I'm never going to talk to my friends down here again, we all have aim, amd a myspace....

2007-10-23 03:05:10 · 17 answers · asked by kindyxkandy 2 in Friends

is it possible to love a married woman without trouble.also she dont know i love her or like her very much she is as you say in the dark.

2007-10-23 03:02:16 · 18 answers · asked by dustbin31 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and if so, what is it... im procrastinating about going shopping, and a small list of chores... better get a move on... lol....

2007-10-23 03:01:49 · 19 answers · asked by Jamni@ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I need a bit of advice. My husband was living in NY for two months and is returning this weekend. He left because we were having marital problems. While he was in NY I heard he was bad mouthing my family, especially my parents. I have confronted him about it, and of course he denies it.

My sister has been watching our daughter while I am at work. She and my brother-in-law no longer want him in their house or ever speak to him again because of what he has said. My brother-in-law was his best friend back in NY.

I feel I am being put in the middle of this. Yes I am extremely angry at my husband for saying such horrible things about my family but I don't like third party gossip. I need to make sure that he really did say these things.

We used to spend holidays together and now we no longer can. I feel bad for my daughter because she will be missing her quality time with her cousins and the rest of the family.

Can someone give me advice as to how to resolve this issue?

2007-10-23 03:00:55 · 8 answers · asked by Double DD 1 in Family

2007-10-23 03:00:42 · 23 answers · asked by Sarah V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 1 1/2 years now. Since then I was browsing on the internet and he had recieved mail so I opened it and it was a guy laying across the bed (hotel) with boxers on. I asked him about it he said it was junk mail anyone could have sent that. I am smarter than that so I wrote the senders name down on paper. Then we went shopping at Ross a coulpe of weeks later and saw two gay guys walking towards us holding hands my husband mumbled under his breath, " I hope they do not see me". I questioned him he said what man wants gay men looking at them? I said," what man says it out loud and who would care if they were just walking by. Then we went to a party his job had and a co-worker came up to him and said what's up man whose this your sister? My husband said no my wife he said ah man I thouhgt you were gay the rumor is you are gay. This guy said it all night and he was drunk. What dose a drunk man do when he is drunk? And his bestfriend is gay!he denies it all what to do?

2007-10-23 03:00:39 · 37 answers · asked by cutiepie28 1 in Marriage & Divorce

especially when you have to be independent and face to a harsh reality of work as well?

2007-10-23 02:57:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That is what my wife has told me.She is not giving me much of her time if any.She never calls me,yet she will talk and call her girl friend,chat buddies ect. She is sleeping in spare room now.Can I convince her in some way to try again? What would work for you all?

2007-10-23 02:55:55 · 12 answers · asked by IneedHer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what i wanna say is that therer some one who loves u and care for u but just becouse that person love u can't love that person and why is that.i wanna know about it more.

2007-10-23 02:54:06 · 3 answers · asked by saysay 1 in Friends

Being back only reinforced my reasons for leaving intially but he is very distraught about me leaving again and asked me to stay for a few more week in order for him to mentally prepare. 18 month ago when our marriage initally broke down he transfered half my home into another family members name in order to defy my claim on the property. Which says to me - the mentally preparing was actually done then. Since I have been back he is VERY VERY insistant on me removing my claim on the other half in order for us to stay amicable and states that I should trust him. The time has come to leave again (children start new school after the holidays) but my hubby is full of tears but yet anger about the claim on the house. Ive left before and now it just feels harder - I know what I have to do but doing it is not as easy as it was the first time around - WHY???

2007-10-23 02:52:59 · 11 answers · asked by Me xx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been with this guy for 5 years we have a 2 yr old son and he still continues to cheat on me with his ex.i'm ready to leave him but i want some advice.why do men cheat?is there something wrong with him?or me?i dont understand.i'm crushed and confused!

2007-10-23 02:52:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

His son is not doing well in school, not going to classes, lying, not doing his homework, nor taking his materials to school and so on. So that's (according to what he tells me) is the main reason he wants to talk to his ex wife like he wants to. Am I wrong to ask him that during this process he cannot hurt me?
I always try to rationalize stuff, I need structure, I need timetables in the emotional level hehe the one I REALLY have no control over. He asked me, while he was doind this we were going on with our lifes, we are getting a dog, we have our activities... so nothings diferent and for me that's good, but is it so unfair of me to ask him, regarding her, that he could do it a little my way?
Like being home for dinner, calling me?
Well, lol, because I rationalize stuff, now I'm thinking that this is a stupid question, my doubts are like Dear John and I'm just grunfed!!!

2007-10-23 02:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by sweetiefeisty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

brief description:

-in relationship for 2 years
-great sex life
-he's from a religious family
-now he wants to become religious meaning no sex before marriage
-he's mentioned this before but always gave in but now i know he's really serious.
-i love him to bits we even chatted about marriage
but with his having a lot on marriage won't be on the cards for another year maybe.
-what should i do? i know sex ain't the most important part of my relationship but it plays some part in showing how much we love one another.
-what wud u do?

2007-10-23 02:49:02 · 17 answers · asked by DaRkAnGeL 4 in Singles & Dating

I will chose real love because it worth more than money and is real....

2007-10-23 02:48:40 · 14 answers · asked by CP 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I had this dream about a guy that I know. I dont really see him a lot maybe three times a month. I never though of him as someone that I would like. After this dream, I'm totally infatuated with him. I don't get it. When ever I see him now my heart stops and one time I was talking to my best friend and I totally stopped talking and forgot what I was saying. How lame is this? Its probably the most stupid thing ever. The last time I saw him he was being really goofy around me and I'm trying to figure out if he still has a girlfriend or not. I dont just want to ask him becuase that would be really weird. After all of that, my question is, is it weird to like someone that you had a dream about?

2007-10-23 02:48:17 · 5 answers · asked by ♥love is all that matters♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

a girl i like and i are the same height. is this a problem in a lasting relationship?

2007-10-23 02:48:12 · 21 answers · asked by 5050 1 in Singles & Dating

is it true when they say that size does not matter, honest answers please and what really is too small, and before you ask 8inches and thick.

2007-10-23 02:47:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-23 02:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by sanam a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to meet get physically intimate consumate(without penetration)relationship with my partner but partner knows my friends and partners friends well im scared partner will go tell them about it especially my male cousin they are very close even if i ask not to they tell eachother everything what do i do

2007-10-23 02:45:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Fiance feels like she cant get any closer to you for fear of getting hurt but you plan to stay with her forever i have told her this but she is still scared how do you get her past this fear any advice appreciated thanks

2007-10-23 02:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by JUGGALO 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a girl out the other day. She say "she was very offended that someone so ugly would be interested in her." I was so shocked by this statement that I wasn't quite sure what to do. All I managed to mumble out was "uh... okay". She nice to most everyone, obviously except for me. I didn't ogle her or make inappropriate sexual comments either. I tried to be polite. Anyone else have something like this happen?

I was frankly humiliated and I'm pretty sure that I won't be asking out any more girls for a very long time.

2007-10-23 02:43:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is ugly. what do i do?

2007-10-23 02:43:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have 3 children and when the grandparents or aunt and uncle stop by our house without calling is this inconsiderate?

2007-10-23 02:42:37 · 8 answers · asked by notsure 1 in Family

My husband and I have been together for over 7 years, married over 3. We have an almost 2 year old son. Our sex life is the pits right now. Even before I got pregnant I was uninterested in sex. Now it's even worse. I just have no desire or motivation for it. I feel bad for my husband and try to give it up now and then. But he knows I'm not really enjoying it and he doesn't want just "obligation" sex.
I don't know what to do to help my sex drive. I love my husband and am attracted to him. I just have no interest. I happen to be on prozac which I know can lower your sex drive, but I have to be on prozac. That's not an option.
Any advice please? Serious responses only.
Thanks.

2007-10-23 02:41:52 · 21 answers · asked by It's just me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A couple of months ago, my fiance's mom helped him to get a car on the road, after he screwed up his credit years ago. She was angry with me because I refused to cosign a loan for him ( I am putting myself through school and I have financed everything else we needed in my name...I wasn't about to take out a second auto loan) She made some comments about how I am "profiting" from him, and basically made me out to be a golddigger, even though I pay 50% of our household bills, as well as my own car payment and insurance, cell bill, and credit cards without his help. She even demanded to see our budget. I was furious and haven't seen or spoken to her since.

Now, his grandparents are here from Canada and are staying with his mother. He wants to go over for dinner and a visit tonight, but I am really not ready to see his mom. I know that if she brings money up I WILL explode.

Should I try to weasel out of dinner?

2007-10-23 02:39:56 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel-Pit Police-DSMG 6 in Family

all these years, me & my 3 bro tried to understand it's due to his work commitment that he can't spend time at home. but few years back, he & my mum divorced and after the divorce we came to know that he already had 2 daughters (aged 8 & 3) with his mistress. the divorce did not affect us much as all of us were grown up. i had my own family and kids. i don't hate my step sisters, they are innocent. but i can't forgive my father. recently my uncle (his brother) had been asking us to forgive our father. apparently his life is now in a mess, one of my younger step sis was dignosed with cancer, he's retrenched and can't find a job (due to his age, he's almost 60). me & 3 bro were unmoved. we had been getting on with our lives well, with good jobs & making decent living. my mum is getting on fairly well too. she's not working (we gave her $$) so she travels freqently with frens. we had been getting on without him. are we heartless not to let him back?

2007-10-23 02:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by worried mum 1 in Family