I want to meet get physically intimate consumate(without penetration)relationship with my partner but partner knows my friends and partners friends well im scared partner will go tell them about it especially my male cousin they are very close even if i ask not to they tell eachother everything what do i do
2007-10-23 02:45:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just make the guy swear on his mother he wont tell anyone or just get intimate in the dark lol
2007-10-24 09:42:03 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to trust your partner first and foremost! secondly, a sexually intimate relationship is normal, if you are not having sex that's more abnormal! let them assume you are. if he is the type of guy to share intimate details, then whatever, that's what guys do. it's exactly the same as what chicks do. i think you have shame attached to sex and if you do it you don't want anyone to know. well, i would say, don't do it until you are proud to do it and not at all embarassed, and know that it's part of life, and one of the four human needs along with sleeping, eating, and drinking.!
2007-10-23 09:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by meteorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My interpretation of what you just said is that you want to have a homosexual relationship with your partner but you don't want your cousin or anyone else to know.If that is correct than I would advise you to accept who you are and stop hiding the fact that you are gay.People are going to find out no matter what you do.Just be yourself and you will have a happier life.The people who are close to you will understand and accept you for who you are.good luck.
2007-10-23 10:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by Julius C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about people finding out you are being intimate with someone, you are still not emotionally mature enough for it. And, he will tell. That's just what happens. People mess around; they talk about it. Maybe not detailed info, but something.
2007-10-23 09:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by SS109 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature people, who are in an intimate, sexual relationship, don't run around telling everyone about it.
Maybe wait til you grow up. You seem confused.
What you do is keep your relationship the way it is for now.
2007-10-23 10:12:11 · answer #5 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this situation I would go back to school and learn English
2007-10-23 10:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by MissE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by using English when you ask a question. What the heck did you just say???
2007-10-23 09:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are too young for a sexual relationship. Wait until you are more mature.
2007-10-23 09:50:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ranger 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't want other people to know about. Now that was easy!
2007-10-23 09:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young don't have sex...just a rule of thumb...don't have sex with someone you don't trust...
2007-10-23 10:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋