His son is not doing well in school, not going to classes, lying, not doing his homework, nor taking his materials to school and so on. So that's (according to what he tells me) is the main reason he wants to talk to his ex wife like he wants to. Am I wrong to ask him that during this process he cannot hurt me?
I always try to rationalize stuff, I need structure, I need timetables in the emotional level hehe the one I REALLY have no control over. He asked me, while he was doind this we were going on with our lifes, we are getting a dog, we have our activities... so nothings diferent and for me that's good, but is it so unfair of me to ask him, regarding her, that he could do it a little my way?
Like being home for dinner, calling me?
Well, lol, because I rationalize stuff, now I'm thinking that this is a stupid question, my doubts are like Dear John and I'm just grunfed!!!
2007-10-23 02:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by sweetiefeisty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it really sounds like they are still in love with each other, i would move on with my life and find someone that thought i was the most important person in there life
2007-10-23 03:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he do stuff like call you and be home for dinner when his child (and ex-wife) aren't involved? Then it's reasonable to expect him to continue this behaviour whatever else is going on in his life.
If usually you don't need him to do those things then it's not a good road to start down - to try to get him to do stuff to help diminish your insecurity... tends to only make your insecurity increase over time ;-)
Marriages work best if you don't do it a little his way or a little your way but find a joint way of doing it.
Good luck!
2007-10-26 08:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by dakinijones 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋