Me and my bf have been together for over 2 months and all we want to do is spend time with each other, i want see him everyday and i know that he feels the same, we haven't gone more than one day in the two months we've been together without seeing each other, is it natural for us to be like this, im started to feel like its unhealthy for us to see so much of each other??
2007-10-23 05:12:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are in the honeymoon stage of the relationship and its ok and normal. You will both get over it one day and want to spend some time with friends away from eachother, just you wait
2007-10-23 05:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as you two are still seeing your friends (even if it's together) and family enough, and as long as it doesn't have an effect on school and other responibilities, there really isn't a whole lot wrong with that. Some people might call it unhealthy...but it depends on the person. Some people really need their own space/private time. But if you two are not that way, it's fine.
You're young, the relationship is new, and you're totally smitten. I'd say enjoy it while it lasts. If you're starting to feel uncomfortable spending so much time together, odds are you should probably stop spending so much time together.
Btw, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and have seen each other almost every single day as well. Well, we practically live together...but anyway, some relationships are just like that.
2007-10-23 05:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by prestigieuxlavie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep a journal of these times. They are euphoric. Something will come up for one of you, like a free two day pass for one to hang around with Justin Timberlake and then the siht will start hitting the fan. The first one of you to break the pattern will be the villain!!! How much time do you spend together each day? And what do you do in that time? If the whole time is spent fondling etc, then just keep doing it till the novelty wears off and you are forced to face responsibilities elsewhere. If you do not bicker, in spite of the large amount of time spent together, that is a good sign. If and when you get married, just think of all that time you will spend together relentlessly. Day in, day out, sorting out what has to be done, with one of you wanting to sit in a cafe and the other wanting to clean the bathroom. That's when you will have trouble. So just value the time you have now, you are lucky.
2007-10-23 05:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by wemblania 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever think spending time with each other is bad for you, when you are with someone this early it's natural to want to see them everyday. I've been with my wife for 4 years and I still want to spend everyday with her and she feels the same way, we do everything together. When you find someone that makes you feel that way then it's a thing of beauty don't stop and don't let others tell you it's unhealthy.
2007-10-23 05:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's good that you feel that way. But in my expierience seeing too much of each other too soon can take off the shine a little. When I have been in relationships after a few months of doing this I sometimes feel a bit smothered by it. And then when I feel like this and decide to have a bit of me time away from the girl....they always seem to take offence to this and start reading more into it than there is and to be honest....it's always ended in disaster.....too much too soon can be a bad thing sometimes!
2007-10-23 05:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think all new relationships are like that i used to be like that with mine and i have been with him a while now and we live together and now i am glad to not see him when he works away but what i would suggest is let each other breath you dont need to be together all the time this can have nasty effects on your relationship even if u only spend 2 nights a week without seeing each other then when you do see each other it will be more exciting good luck
2007-10-23 05:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by becksxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're bound to feel like this at the start of a relationship, you may end up wanting to do something apart from each other later on. Word of advice though, me and my first serious boyfriend were like that, then all of a sudden after 6 months he started being a right ****, and being really horrible because he got bored of me.
2007-10-23 06:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by heather c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the most of it - normally these things wear off and you'll find that seeing each other this often doesn't do the relationship any good whatsoever.
Enjoy it for now - but be prepared when it doesn't feel as good as it once did - it'll be then that you both will need to work at it.
2007-10-23 05:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by Leu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Eventually you will begin to be able to go longer without each other.
I married the one I was like that about and it's lasted 15 years to date, and we actually work together, but still have plenty of time apart.
We're best mates, so it's normal to spend alot of time together.
2007-10-23 05:17:02 · answer #9 · answered by jo :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone does this at first i did with hubby but after a while you argue more becouse you are more used to each other and you lose friends and feel like a old marryed couple but all this is worth it if yous plan to marry if not cool it for a while becouse if you break up it will be harder for you to resume normal life post bf,also men can become possive and admire a woman more if they do there own thing.enyway best of luck youll need it with men.
2007-10-23 05:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋