2007-10-23 06:09:57 · 13 answers · asked by heyjude 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oddly enough i dont think i found him, i know i did. im in the same boat as you...
2007-10-23 06:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Threesome! lol.. just kidding. Well first off if you have a spouse and you are thinking about someone else then the marriage is going in the right direction on the other hand if you 'think' you have found your soulmate then you need to make 'know' not think this person is your soulmate. If you don't want to leave your spouse your soulmate can always be your best friend.
2007-10-23 13:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by L A 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Didn't you think your spouse was your soulmate when you married? Just don't start screwing around, if you don't love your spouse anymore, then divorce him. Your spouse might want to find a soulmate too.
2007-10-23 13:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by LAL 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that's tough.......you know emotions sometimes can get the best of us....think back to when you first got married, was this man then, your everything, your soul mate, and then over time his shine kind of wears off, and he's not quite the romantic he was in the beginning, and then you meet this man who seems to be everything you have ever wanted, I mean this man completes you well then you have to think again about your husband, has he been faithful, does he love you, do you love him, could you bear to see him hurt if you left him, and then what if this possible soulmate turns out to be a little rough around the edges too once you are with him. I mean when people first meet there is the excitement!, the newness, the passion, the thrill, you do little things just because you love that person, and want them, after marriage people tend to get lax on these things and well sometimes you lose some of that fire in the marriage, try taking your husband out on dates, remind him and your self of how it once was try to light a new fire with him and please before jumping out of a relationship with a man who has committed his life to you for a man who may give you butterflies really think it through, and if things just can not work with your husband, leave him before getting involved with another, don't leave him for another.....that could crush a man, and would you really want to do this to the man who should be your best friend, that you promised to love through thick and thin....Don't get me wrong, I do not judge you, and realize sometimes people get married and it's all wrong, and that may very well be the case with you,( been there) i'm just saying you have to think about more than your own feelings, and handle things in a way that is best for all involved......Best Wishes to You
2007-10-23 13:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by HisPrincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be looking for a soulmate, if you're married? You have a wife (or husband) and probably children. Anyone who plays around with you, knowing you are MARRIED, is a homewrecker--not a soulmate!
2007-10-23 13:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure that it is truly your soul mate and then let you spouse know that he is not the one for you and get the marriage over with before you do something you are going to regret later
2007-10-23 13:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been looking for your soulmate before you got married not after.
2007-10-23 13:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by jetta's mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think this person is your soul mate maybe you should give him a chance and tell your spouse you really don't think he is your soul mate then end the relationship. I don't think you should let the person who might be your soul mate slips away just like that to stay with someone who might not be THE ONE. good luck
2007-10-23 13:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by anny f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you have been with your spouse for a lot longer... maybe you've forgot why you originally thought he was the one. Talk through your issues with your husband openly. Maybe he feels the same, or maybe you can work it through.
2007-10-23 13:30:17 · answer #9 · answered by robbo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make your marriage work, if you can. i have been in that situation too. with an ex, and he is definately my soulmate...he just had a drug problem that was bigger than us. couldnt make it work
2007-10-23 13:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave your spouse and go get him/her
2007-10-23 13:17:09 · answer #11 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋