I just found out that im pregnant and my fiance just went to Iraq 5 weeks ago how do i tell him he might be happy but then again he might not i know that he wanted to wait to have kids untill after we was married but accsidents happen i got pregnant the day before he left and i dont know what to do please help me!
2007-10-23 02:03:09 · 8 answers · asked by crystal 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should definatly tell him. Hey, it will probably give him a second reason (the first being you) to get himself saftly back home.
2007-10-23 02:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by wingedstrider 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell him right away, if this is his child he needs to know.
if he wanted to wait to have kids, then obviously he didn't do enough to keep that from happening, it is not your fault, it takes two to tango...and to create a baby.
he may be thrilled, and it may be the thing that gets him through a tough time in Iraq.
he deserves to know, and to know today.
2007-10-23 09:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by A*MUSE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him so he can update his benefits or insurance or whatever the military does. He has a child on the way. I'm sure he would want to know.
2007-10-23 09:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by Don 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definatly tell him right away, otherwise what are you going to do, wait till he gets back? wait till it starts to show? wait till you give birth? the longer you wait the harder it will be to tell him coz he will wonder what took you so long to tell him
2007-10-23 09:33:54 · answer #4 · answered by becbec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth now.........you owe him that and accidents just do not happen{iam sorry with birth control,condoms,implants} planned parenting is much better than saying it was an accident.......
2007-10-23 09:09:47 · answer #5 · answered by MJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your guy what has happened and deal with it.
2007-10-23 09:08:45 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him
even tho he didnt want a kid yet
but whats better then a baby!!!
2007-10-23 09:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Malia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him
2007-10-23 09:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by aroura 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋