I havent really had a boyfriend before. I was sorta with this guy but hten he broke things off. Im 16 and ive never been kissed!! All my friends have and have done more than that. I just don't know whats wrong with me.
P.S. www.myspace.com/juliz09 is my myspace link if you want to see a picture.
2007-10-23 02:34:13 · 27 answers · asked by Jewyful13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time. Don't rush into anything. Besides, your friends could also become pregnant before you.
It will happen, when the right guy comes around.
Make sure it feels right for YOU !!!!!
2007-10-23 02:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Charger43 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you , I was 17 before my first kiss. Things are awkward at this age for everyone and I think that you will find that by not jumping in and doing "a lot more"
as your friends have done will make you a much more popular prospect in the long run.
Good Luck and be patient young lady.
PS- I just looked at your picture and you are a lovely girl and any guy would be lucky to have you as his girlfriend. I can see what the problem is, you are so pretty that all the guys are afraid because they think you are out of there league.
2007-10-23 02:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by BILL 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have another twenty or thirty years of boy chasing or hubby hunting time before your biological clock gets too desperate. Also, with modern technological assistance such as test tube babies and plastic surgery you could be chasing boys or having children well into your sixties.
Don't be in a hurry to loose your childhood innocence, or set your hopes on the first boy you meet. You might have to date fifty boys before you find one good enough to keep.
By your picture you seem to have the correct number of eyes, ears, noses etc and in pretty much correct places, therefore if there is something wrong with you it is most likely a personality defect.
Peoples personalities are pretty much set by the time they are seven or eight years old, so your personality has been pretty much set for half of your life.
Fortunately, like physical makeovers, a few cosmetic tweaks can make you more attractive.
Generally if you try to understand others and do random acts of kindness or flattery people will love having you around. guys for example love bragging about themselves, so always act impressed, and if they have nothing to brag about come up with a problem. Even a simple task of opening a jam jar can boost a man's ego.
If it is only kissing you want to do, I suggest you join a dramatic society or drama club. Or better yet, make up a fake one of your own. Pretend you have the part of Juliet and get guys to audition their kissing skills for the part of Romeo. You can make it a requirement that only good looking guys are suitable for the role.
Seriously though, acting is a very good way of developing skills interpersonal skills. I once had to play an arogant snob. I was practicing my swagger and put on my superior aires. Two young girls saw me and immediatly started checking me out, thinking I was someone important.
Once you develop the skill of gliding into a room like a billionairess you will be able to get men flocking at your feet thinking you must be a movie star or something.
If acting is not your thing, pick a charity that needs funds and set up a kissing booth. Get another girl to help you out so you can take a break when the ugly guys turn up.
Another good trick is to take up a pastime that is only popular with members of the opposite gender. I play table tennis and chess. If you turned up to my table tennis club you would be swamped with guys wanting to show you a trick or two.
When I was a young lad I signed up for all of the girls sports, such as netball and tunnelball. My brother couldn't understand why I was surrounded by girls on the school playground.
Learning sports medicine or therapudic massage can give you a legitimate reason to get your hands on bulging athletic male muscles.
Good Luck.
2007-10-23 04:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Graham P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. As I guy I can say there is nothing wrong with your appearance. You are only 16 so don't worry about it too much, it will come in time. The piece of advice i will give you is to not base your self-esteem on what others think or do, otherwise you will be like a yo-yo feeling up then down. Guys really like chicks with a great friendly kind personality, so work on that, and the guys will come knocking.
2007-10-23 02:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by adamareallycoolguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. When the time comes it will happen. Do not force the issue because it will not turn out the way you want it, too. Just be patient and believe in yourself! Been there and done that...I understand what you are going through. Good Luck & Best Wishes to You!
2007-10-23 02:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anything is wrong with you. Guys will get more attracted to you the longer you wait and in about 5 years you will be able to pick out quite a few guys that you are attracted to. Don't worry about what "everyone else" is doing. Just be true to yourself and things will work out.
BTW nice pic
2007-10-23 02:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Joey R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl I think you are too young to worry about boys and kisses and stuff. Your friends are just that FRIENDS. Trust me if you lose your virginity you don't get to have it back. If you are thinking about kisses you are thinking about sex. Don't rush. Peer pressure will not do you any good. You'll have your first kiss with the right guy. I have done stupid things like that in my life and after that I was thinking it wasn't as great as every body said it would be,I kissed de wrong guy who went and spread rumours that, that is not the only thing we did.
2007-10-23 02:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by ms avarage 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most of these people commenting are being nice to you, but let's face it, they're not being very helpful are they?
So here's a bit of tough love for you.
While I'm sure you're a good person and not unattractive, even in your Yahoo Answers question what you've said makes you seem like you are quite openly attention & approval-seeking and overeager for a boyfriend.
Both of these characteristics you're projecting are very unattractive and are probably putting off guys who would otherwise be interested.
2007-10-23 02:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Christian D 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you are intimidated with your friends... a kiss means something especially if it's your first... don't rush into things... wait for the right time and the right guy to come along then you'll have that kiss that you've been waiting for... don't kiss someone just because all of your friends are doing it... be patient and someday you'll find the right guy... ^_^
2007-10-23 02:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what your doing now is right because your age is young don't like to you friends nothing wrong with you if you are not kiss by your age.maybe your boyfriend before is not for you just keep waiting your destiny you have right guy for you ok.your very young i know your beautiful.
2007-10-23 02:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋