we have sex almost everytime we get together its mutual we have a heck of a time not doing this when we try not too.
we have not had many dates with no sex involved but we have a had a few.
2007-10-23 18:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
with some couples it might be, just not with others!
it depends on the couple and what they want! if they dont get to see each other often and they are in a solid relationship where sex is involved then they may have sex at every chance they get to. however there is nothing wrong with that! as long as they know they do things with each other besides have sex such as go for a drive, a walk, to a movie,out to dinner, etc,.
sex plays a big role in a relationship but it is not the be all and end of one!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-23 19:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Now we see why most femalescant keep a man, cuz you they ask advice from other females... you wanna kno somethin bout a dude ask anotha dude... not to say that everything they say is or has wrong jus most of it.... From a guy's point of view sex DOES PLAY A BIG ROLE IN A RELATIONSHIP.. mainly becuz we see sex as females se tha long walks on the beach or tha candle light dinner by the fire.. IT shows us that you want to be there its like tryin to teach a dog a trick n not givin him the treat for doin it.. sex for guys says that pretty much i love you in guy words you kno... if you not ****** us then your ****** someone else, or you saving for anotha guy... its one of the main signals that lets us kno we need to start keeipin an eye on you... and if you not ****** him then you jus forcin him to **** someone else... jus like wit females you have a top ten list of **** you need out of a relationship, we have a top ten too and sex is WAY up there at the top... trust me if a female ***** more he'll love her more for it ... you already together he been waitin you love it he loves it and your relationship will be strong because of it... the problem with females today is they not thinkin about their guy really any more..... i mean you think you do but ya'll neva really ask wat we want... trust me, you dont see guys sittin around goin, "oh i bet she dont like to have sex she could use all that extra time cleanin, shes a keepper....." No guys want the sexy lady from next door that ***** her husband 27 times a day or the nympho asian twins that cant go 5 mins without a lil something... guys love sex, jus dont forget to make a lil time for it..... even if its a busy busy day sneak a **** in here or there you love it as much as he does... Just remember : HAVIN SEX CAN GET YA PREGNANT THATS REAL **** SO ALWAYS BE SAFE ABOUT IT....
2007-10-25 02:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by smokie_thablackbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think this relationship is doomed like everyone states.. in fact i'm kinda in a relationship thats the same. i think that that its important that you just don't have sex, and thats it.. i mean if you meet up, and as soon as you get together you have sex then the relationship is obviously just about sex.. but if you talk on the phone, have common interests, and when you meet up and go to the movies or have dinner or something and then have sex after that then i think it's ok and has a chance of lasting. The bottom line is though .. it is all about communication!!!
2007-10-24 02:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Heh, if thats what you guys like then its fine.. just dont confuse the sex and the lust that goes along with it with love.. So if this relationship is all about sex and nothing else really, then yah, you are kinda doomed.. but if you like the girl and the sex is just a bonus, i think it is great that there are still people out there who dont get tired of each others.. umm how do i put this... "delights" ;-)
2007-10-24 01:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you already you know your answer if you are worried about it. If the sex is over ruling then yah, that is a bad sign, but also could be a strength to say that you both have a good connection. Although, if there isn't anything else, I would say it started out on the wrong foot.
2007-10-24 01:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by Gohappy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds a little unusual. I'd just be concerned that the relationship didn't become only about sex. There is more to a relationship than sex, unless of course that's all you want out of it.
2007-10-24 01:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by ZCT 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You asked if it is common................No it is not...here is a lot more to any relationship than Sex. If you are always having sex there is so much more to life than sex . You ARE DOING SOMETHING WRONG Love is not all SEx. I am not going to tell you thaT sEX IS WRONG, iT IS A WONDERFUL Expression between two person that love each other but you need more than sex to make this work for you.
2007-10-24 02:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by littlerascal711 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The relationship seems to be purely about sex. That doesn't make for a lasting relationship.
2007-10-24 01:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Truth is elusive 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. It's a doomed relationship. You're already having sex, what's next? Kids without marriage?
2007-10-24 01:53:55 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well,I would sit down and ask yourself if you relay like him /her.Dating is not just about sex,it's about life.Try and think about it first then explain to your prater of what you want to do with it.They might just understand if your honest with one other.
2007-10-24 02:03:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋