Most of us have seen those love movies, like the notebook, where true love is portrayed in such a deep way. Love filled with such passion, care and longing for that other person, where you feel like no one else in the world knows you like that person does. Love where the other person completes you in every single way. Love where even after years and years the feelings are still there and you will always love that person because you know you and they are One. Does that love even exist? Or do most people just never find it? Reltionships these days seem to be lacking all of the above that i mentioned..
2007-10-23 18:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure of your background and if fully depends on your understanding/acceptance of my answer. According to my beliefs - whether you agree or not - when we first lose sight of that which we are meant to love first and foremost than all other things which we love secondary are compromised. We are first to be in love with our Creator. If we are able to love Him fully than the secondary loves that he gives us such as husband/family/children/friends/self will fall into their respective places naturally. Even Christians fail to put God first and wonder why their marriages fail or why they have everything they thought they would ever want and still feel empty. It doesn't make us look great, but I just want you to know that we are real and very similar to our unbelieving fellow man.
2007-10-23 18:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by christie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it exists, because (although i know this sounds cliche) i know that kind of love becuase i have expierienced it... the problem with people today is that they settle.. when they find someone who can make them horny enough that they think about the other person the rest of the day, they think it is love.. today people confuse love with lust and realationships suffer for it.. that is why we have such a problem with cheating and have soo many divorces. People need to start believing they are good enough for that love and not just settling for someone that they not only know it is not going to work out with but that is going to be unfaithful.. Love is out there, all you have to do is perservere.. thank god i found my love early in life or i wouldnt be able to answer this question.... =-)
2007-10-23 18:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that love in the movies is really just a part of the fantasy that we pay to see for the very reason that it is not real. Else we could just look out the window! It does not really exist. I also think that you , are putting a lot of pressure on one relationship, "Love where the other person completes you in every single way." Wow! I think that an attitude like that only ensures that you will be dissatisfied with every relationship you are in! I think that you can love a person for who he/she is but to expect that person to be literally the other half of your soul is unrealistic.
2007-10-23 18:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Tahseen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm here to tell you that it definitely does exist, for those who are willing to be patient until the "right" one comes along. I have that crazy out of this world passionate love, and for a while I felt like I was dreaming. Everything you described, I can relate to and he'll tell you the same. We complete each other in every way to the point where it's scary sometimes. I hope you find the same kind of love... it does exist..
2007-10-23 18:52:15 · answer #4 · answered by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that love existed and it continued up to today and it will go up to tomorrow. the truth is that the love that you see today is the continuation of the previous love. just like modernization.in the past, people go for a fight in some tribes the winner takes the most beautiful lady in the village. but today the more money you have you get the most beautiful lady. just like that. the love you see today will be different to the next generation and they will ask the some question.
2007-10-23 19:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Emmy Chang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or worse. . .does it last? What you're looking for is something that takes a lot of hard work. It doesn't just happen. It's a lot of give and take. . .whether you want to or not. And people change so much as they go through life and you can look at "that" person and wonder where he went. It's hard work to keep that relationship alive and well on the L/T.
2007-10-23 18:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also beleive in same type of LOVE and like you I am also waiting for this dream to be reality..All the best to u as well as to me..may our dreams come true soon...Because right now I am in LOVE with the feeling of being in LOVE.
2007-10-23 18:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by v j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's your problem. Those movies, are movies, they are fantasy. If they put real world love on the screen, people wouldn't watch it, because it's long, takes a long time to form and is pretty boring to those not in the relationship.
2007-10-23 18:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
that kind of relationship takes time and people now days want everything so fast they give up on the relationship before it has even started
2007-10-23 18:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it still exists...but the problem arise when you want someone to change for you. love will always be there. just have to be true to yourselves and be sincere. and to always hold on to that love no matter what happens..just be honest to one another
2007-10-23 18:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by brix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋