Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

our relationship lasted for almost 7 years. Due to some personal problem we could not tie the knot. Now i am married to another woman whom i really love. we have 2 children.
Suddenly i found my 1st lover who still loves me although she is now married. We met and have talk for few months. I am again in serious love with my 1st lover although i love my wife really from the heart. Actually i love both the women really from my heart.
Am i doing anything wrong?
What will be my future?
What should i do?
Please help.

2007-10-22 17:56:39 · 23 answers · asked by nutralx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it is because of cast

2007-10-22 17:55:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

psychologically, emotionally

2007-10-22 17:54:58 · 11 answers · asked by padit 1 in Family

I mean im 14, should 16,17, be checking me out. I mean It's flattering but all the time....and second im with my mom.why do older guys stare at me like a piece of meat?

2007-10-22 17:53:36 · 9 answers · asked by **lexus** 1 in Singles & Dating

she says they are just freinds and they havent did nothing ,staying out 3 or 4 in the morning leaving me and the kids home,and one time she saide she was at her mom but she wasnt, what to think

2007-10-22 17:52:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He was never so much like this before until now. Why? Is it to get a reaction out of me or what is it? I don't get it. All of a sudden out of nowhere? He teases me playfully all the time these days and it does get annoying. It's not mean, but here are examples: When we're walking or he has the door open for me, he'll tell me to "hurry up" or "quickly". He'll ask me what I ordered for lunch and I tell him what I got, he'll say that it's "sissy food". When I ask him what's up, he'll reply "the sky". He does all this with a smile. I don't get it!!! Then when I accuse him of being mean to me, he'll ask "how"? and reach over and touch me/hold my hand. WTF?????

2007-10-22 17:51:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 17:49:18 · 13 answers · asked by sebastian n 3 in Family

Ok, so my ex and I were dating for about a half a year... I really liked her, treated her well, bought her gifts, made her laugh hysterically. We were away from each other for the summer, but kept in communication for most of the summer. When we got back to school, she dumps me and says she just wants to be friends with me. Obviously, there's more to the breakup, but is it too late to find out, and if not, how do I ask her? I've been dying to know for the past 7 weeks and have been in a lot of emotional pain. I really miss her, too... for some reason. She dumps me, yet I want her back. It's too weird. I really want to get on with my life, but I haven't been able to forget about her. I still care for her, and the girls I've been meeting don't make me feel like she did.

2007-10-22 17:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been separated from the mother of my children for a year we were not married but lived together for about six years, we have two girls 4.5 and 6 years of age. After their mom asked me to leave right a way I started to supply and comply with all of their needs, I have proof of me paying their full rent, utility bills, health insurance, and as for cash money I have a recorded voice that because she didn't want me to give her any money in the form of check. Almost a year later after my children were practically living with me, their mom is taking me to court for child support. Also, not allowing me to see my children during the week days, I'm allowed only during the weekends and is saying that time is going to be decreased as well. I have tried to come to an agreement where we work things out for the benefit of our daughters however, no matter what no idea is good for her.

2007-10-22 17:46:23 · 6 answers · asked by dad1George 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 17:46:17 · 50 answers · asked by neha A 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend got married a year ago whenever I ask her about her life she is in tears. She feels that her husband wants her when she is not around and when she is he hardly ever even talks to her.

She doesnt know what to do... I dont understand how things can get like this within one year of marriage...

Can anyone suggest what can be done?

2007-10-22 17:45:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 17:45:42 · 5 answers · asked by safeen q 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-22 17:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the context of when some is said to have too much drama in there life’s.

2007-10-22 17:44:09 · 22 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, normally I wouldnt go to a site like this to get relationship advice but it's a quick easy way to get some ideas. I have been with a girl for 6 months and we are in college together. Recently she has made it clear to me that she no longer enjoys kissing me or touching me at all like we used to do. We used to make out regularly and it added some spice to our already great relationship. Recently she has been kind of mean sometimes and kind of moody. I dont know whether or not it's just something to do with the college atmosphere or whether or not there's enough passion. So she's decided to take a break from kissing for a while so that she can adjust and see if she will like it. I really dont want to break up with her but if things continue like this with no passion I think I will be forced to. She says that for now we will just act like friends and hook up on the weekends for dates. So I'm just asking for some serious adult advice. Thank You very much.

2007-10-22 17:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend, and i have a long distance realation ship, he is 14 and im 15.
At the monent he is going through the state of depression, Last night he told me he is going to kill himself!!! last night i keept trying to change his mind, but he wouldd't budge.
Now he isn't awnsering my txt msgs , or he won't awnser his calls. He has already seen a therapst, and he bit there head off with in the first 5minutes of being there.
What do I do, PLEASE HELP!!

2007-10-22 17:36:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 17:35:48 · 13 answers · asked by John D 1 in Friends

2007-10-22 17:33:01 · 40 answers · asked by shottareds 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is a great guy, but sometimes he's really nice to me and sometimes he seems distant away. he admits that he's still in love with his ex, even though he does like me in a special way. we have great times together, but once in awhile something would remind him of his ex and he would only think about that.....even when that relationship ended more than 3 years ago....
i really like him, but i can't stand him thinking about another woman when he's with me. he doesn't seem to get better either. i just don't know what to do now.

2007-10-22 17:31:58 · 10 answers · asked by feb 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 17:24:56 · 24 answers · asked by shottareds 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I ve been waiting and I know my time is getting close. but what if i dont marry till im thirty? and what if he is not a virgin.

2007-10-22 17:20:35 · 26 answers · asked by Brina.B. 2 in Singles & Dating

Is this called we DATED. ? Was he my date? oR just Friends! Please read n tell me. Thanks! )
----- I'll say that we knew we were -FrIENDS,..for couple of months before Prom. We'd go to the movies,..dancing and stuff.
--But how do YOU GUYS see it?
The way it was,..i'll say that,..first he got me this flower,(that girls wear on their hands). We were together most of the time. And we were dancing ONLY WITH EACH OTHER. He wouldnt go dance with someone else,..n wouldn't let me alone either. And after the party was over,..he took me to a really nice restaurant..(very late at night.).

2007-10-22 17:20:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago but he still calls me every other week to see how the kids and I are doing and to throw things in my face but my question is how do I get over my heart break. This weekend I found out he is dating someone new and it broke me in two. What can I do to get over him??? I already told him to stop calling me but I want some ideas how I can get over him other than time will heal the pain.

2007-10-22 17:17:16 · 6 answers · asked by Sammie 1 in Singles & Dating

Just found out that my 70 yr. old mother wrote ALOT of bad checks before she had to come live with my husband and me. I need to know where to turn, or how to handle this. She did this in N.C. but is now in Mo. Not sure how to handle this "long distance" problem. PLEASE, help

2007-10-22 17:15:51 · 1 answers · asked by Myra M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When they get married do they take it one day at a time or do they see themselves with that person for the rest of their lives?

2007-10-22 17:14:36 · 11 answers · asked by ar_angel_2003 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do they normally go out and buy a cd or are you expected/allowed to provide it?

2007-10-22 17:10:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

is it bad that e pnd my boyfriend have oral sex. whenever i hang out with him i always end up in his bed room, . he says if i dont have sex with him then i dont truly love him. what should i do??

2007-10-22 17:07:41 · 49 answers · asked by cutie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

just a survey, let me know what your personal opinions are.. should PROSTITUTION be legalized in the united states?

me personally, i think it should, just curious as to others thoughts!!

2007-10-22 17:06:44 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i radomly ask this girl in my class if i could hang out with her at lunch or something ?

2007-10-22 17:06:31 · 7 answers · asked by ♥bbyLin 3 in Friends

I'm friends (for right now) with a young woman who is 26 years old and I'm 51 but I wonder if we should date or not?
(at least one good thing her parents like me) but right
now I see this relationship is more like Big Brother -little sister
but I;m slowly getting fond of her but my friends say her
parents would never let me date her!
(even though we have been to some event together)
am I robbing the cradle here?
we do have a lot in common though

2007-10-22 17:04:56 · 9 answers · asked by mobilemark 7 in Singles & Dating