2007-10-22 17:46:17 · 50 answers · asked by neha A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First u find out the reason y she betrayed u and u both sit and sort out the things...since she betrayed once u can't say every time she will betray u...mostly this situation could have taught her a lesson...if u really love her, go to her and talk to her....after all we are all human beings and will tend to make mistakes...forgive her...forget abt the past...and have a wonderful life..
All the best :-)
2007-10-24 04:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By not wasting another second of your time on her and move on. Don't fall into another relationship right away, give yourself some space and your ego some healing time. If you can, distance yourself so you are not tempted to get some kind of revenge. Just have some fun by going places where you know you won't run into her.
You don't want her back, it is only trouble. Don't start playing games with each other.
You asked, you received
2007-10-22 17:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by Older1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neha.
Just check out your question..
Why you are asking " How to get her back"..
Is this really necessary. Well.. There are many ways to get her back.. But, whats the use of doing that..
Can she really behave with you like she had before..??
Can you say that she again wont betray ..you??
Hey Neha..!!
She betrayed us means...
Her love is not true.. !!
Its just attracttion rather than the valuable word you used.." LOVE"
Yes.. just think.. a new product is released in to market, say a pen.. we feels like by any means to purchase and use it. After some days if another new pen released we simply stops using the old pen and starts using the new one.. Here no case of love..!! Just infactuation.. ( Attraction)
If you really love the pen.. thers no situation arises we leave it.. ... Though many models comes in to market..
Right??.
Love is the case.. where one has to respect another.. one has to live for another.. One has to die for another..
question you has asked.. If the same situation arises to me.. I really say heartful thanks to god.. for letting me know her behaviour.
I dont want to waste even a second thinking .." How To Get Her Back" !!
2007-10-22 20:24:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sweetness, I know that you love this girl and you want her back, but who is to say that she won't do it again. Take a little time and evaluate how she made you feel, its just going to hurt again if she is a "repeat offender." Believe me, I understand wanting someone back that can be so bad for you because you love them, I JUST had the same thing happen to me, I got dumped because he loved someone else too. Please don't put yourself through it. Its so lonely trying to get past it, but thats just it, you need to get past it, and once you do, you can be so happy with someone else. You just need to realize that you are a great person and be happy with yourself, don't think that this girl is the only one right for you... If she wronged you and hurt you then she doesn't deserve you. At least not right now, but don't wait around to see if she gets better, live your life and try to get to a point where you can be happy without her!
2007-10-22 17:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by libretti_mynx07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she has betrayed u,try to find out the reasons behind it..maybe she had to fulfill her parents wish n so she has betrayed u...in that case u need to talk to her n if necessary to her parents also if u r serious abt this relation n wanna settle down with her in future n if she has betrayed u for someelse then 4get abt her and move on cos everything is god's plan...earlier god felt that she is fit for u but later he felt that u deserve some1 better than her n so she is no more in ur life
take up some hobby or a new job or something for its not easy to forget some1 u r so attached to
god will definately help u out of this situation ...trust him
2007-10-22 18:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by jas 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If someone betrays you once, they will betray you again. Why would that be acceptable or attractive to you? Don't put yourself in that position. Find a new girl who is loyal and has integrity and fall in love with her instead.
2007-10-22 17:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
start being a gud friend of her maken her belev tht you are no longer interested in any kind of love makeing relationship but what you want is only clear friendship.and then on start speakin to her as a good friend, but mind you dont utter any good moment or bad moments that you both had spend in your past.then on start tellin her that there is a grl who is intrstd in you and you are going around with her.then on introduce her to any of your party and intro her to any of your special grl frnd and remember not to give her the slightest attention.coz the more you show ur attention on her the more she turn her face from you.so behave like a sweet poisoin and i promise you make her J IN THIS MANNER AND SHE WILL COME BACK TO YOU.but make sure her boyfriend is not around and even if he is dnt show her that it bothers you.
so all i can say is use your brains
and be a sweet poisoin.
this does work out !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-22 18:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by neha b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
haha don't get her back, if you love her let her go gracefully thats actually the best way don't be angry or act jealous dont completly ignore her just act as if nothing happend but dont stay and chat w/her that would prolly bug her the most that fact that you could let her go so easily. like she was never as much to you as she thought she was her ego will drop exceedingly
2007-10-22 17:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sylvia R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want her back after she's betrayed you? How do you know she won't do it again? How can you trust her now? Forget her and move on.
2007-10-22 17:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by Frosty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't try to get revenge that solves nothing. talk to her, find out why she did it. If she is being unfair to you leave her, forget about her. If she would betray you shes not worth your time
2007-10-22 17:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sebastian 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋