Okay, normally I wouldnt go to a site like this to get relationship advice but it's a quick easy way to get some ideas. I have been with a girl for 6 months and we are in college together. Recently she has made it clear to me that she no longer enjoys kissing me or touching me at all like we used to do. We used to make out regularly and it added some spice to our already great relationship. Recently she has been kind of mean sometimes and kind of moody. I dont know whether or not it's just something to do with the college atmosphere or whether or not there's enough passion. So she's decided to take a break from kissing for a while so that she can adjust and see if she will like it. I really dont want to break up with her but if things continue like this with no passion I think I will be forced to. She says that for now we will just act like friends and hook up on the weekends for dates. So I'm just asking for some serious adult advice. Thank You very much.
2007-10-22 17:40:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah she said today that everything I say to her doesn't really feel the same anymore, like when I compliment her. She says that she might just want to be friends. Then a while later she asks me to go out on a date!? Should I just end this now or give it a chance.
2007-10-23 17:53:12 · update #1
she isn't worth your time. leave her and find someone who will appreiciate you.
2007-10-22 17:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone who has crashed and burned too many times.
As soon as she refers to you as a friend, especially if you've never screwed her, it's already over.
I've been the dumper and the dumpee over the years.
It's time to start looking for someone else.
Your girlfriend is acting exactly like two exes of mine did right before they dumped me.
Save yourself the heartbreak and end it.
As for my exes, for two girls that dumped me, they only became interested again when they heard I had a new girl.
2007-10-23 00:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, yes. Just going off of my own experience.....I was with my ex for the past 3 years and one day he said the same to me.....I don't like kissing you, or holding your hand. We tried to make it work, and tried, and tried, and tried. I think that it's just the start of going down hill, and if you ignore it, trust me it only gets worse. UNLESS....you both want to work on getting back what you lost.
Hope I helped. Good luck
2007-10-23 00:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with her... shes trying to find a way to break up with you without making it look like her fault.... shes trying to pull away, but wants attention, so she keeps you around like some booty call for the weekends. break it off and find someone really great, someone who would never make you feel like you werent doing enough for the relationship. i hope this helps and im sorry if it doesnt
2007-10-23 00:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweetandspicybrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold sores? Herpes? Sore braces? Unless there is some good physical reason, I'd say she is making it real easy for you to pull the plug.
2007-10-23 00:47:13 · answer #5 · answered by jimanddottaylor 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with her.
2007-10-23 00:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think back again about how good she is, then maybe u will feel good again.
2007-10-23 00:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by wantaneepairin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay .. why ask when you know in your hart,, man don,t get hert...some people not worth it,
2007-10-23 00:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by rocketman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say break up you deserve better !
2007-10-23 17:33:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jeep1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how you feel about her
2007-10-23 00:42:42 · answer #10 · answered by Papi Chulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋