she says they are just freinds and they havent did nothing ,staying out 3 or 4 in the morning leaving me and the kids home,and one time she saide she was at her mom but she wasnt, what to think
2007-10-22 17:52:51 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tiger,
Let me pull your tail.....
Hell Yeah it is cheating.
There is no way in thee hell that she stays out until three am or comes back the next day and she is not doing something nasty with this "Just Friend" guy.
How damn friendly a guy is he?
Why are you putting up with this?
She is a liar and a cheat.
Peace
2007-10-22 19:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by MissUnderstood 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would find it a little strange for her to be out till three or four with this man. I wondered did you ask her what they did till the wee hours of the morning? I also wonder why she would think it was a good idea to do in the first place. I am sure if you stayed out with another woman that she would not feel it was okay to do! I personally feel that there is something going on between them, but without any proof then I cannot say she was cheating on you. I can say that she was doing something wrong by being with another man so late. That really is not proper for a married woman to do.
If I were you I would have to sneak around myself and check up on them. I would want to be sure they were only being friends and nothing more. I really feel that there is something more going on!! She would never be able to leave me home with the kids again!
2007-10-22 18:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by craft painter 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely cheating. Sorry : (
If you need the hard truth in your face, then confront her, or get a babysister for the kids one night and go bust her. Also a lot of people are going to private investigators to find this stuff out now, especially as hard proof of infidelity gives you better standing in divorce proceedings.
I can't say I'd leave her straight away, though the trust is gone! Try councilling, if only for the sake of the kids. If she won't go then I'm truly sorry, but what else can you do but leave...? Get yourself a PI, a marriage councillor and a lawyer in that order.
2007-10-22 17:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Even if they are just friends (which I don't believe for a moment) she should be home with you at night past a certain hour instead of out with him until the following day.You already know this. Nothing about this seems right to you, nor should it. You're just partially afraid of the confrontation that's inevitable (and what it might mean for you both). But things can't improve through a veil of lies or by pretending what's happening isn't happening. So, get your feelings in order and resolve to face this thing and make her be honest. Don't be afraid to show anger...you should be angry. Just have a clear picture of what you want to convey before you get started. Good luck.
2007-10-22 18:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's lying and cheating. A married woman has no business being out like that with another man. She should be home with you and the kids.
2007-10-22 17:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i assume the actual unanswered area of your question would be: "i admire my spouse yet after 6 years of marriage, is it general for a married guy to think of of flirting with different females?" forget approximately the 'cheating' area. You raised that threat and IF, you like your spouse and are committed on your marriage, you would be able to desire to nicely known the extensive distinction between "flirting" and "cheating". Yeah, somewhat flirting in all fairness is often ok...Hell, you would be ineffective, guy or lady, in case you probably did not now and lower back do somewhat of that stuff, married or not. -yet maximum individuals loving adults be attentive to the place to attraction to the "line" - all of us be attentive to what's the excellent option and what's incorrect - and we don't take it to the MAX, in case you get my decide on the flow. essentially, Grace
2016-11-09 06:24:14 · answer #6 · answered by rimpel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if she's cheating or not even though it looks that way. But I can say that it is disrespectful to you and your children. She needs to figure out her priorities. If this man is such a friend then you should know him too and be able to hang out with them.
2007-10-22 17:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by humblepie1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry mate but YES. Just the fact that she lied to you should be enough to realize that she is doing the wrong thing.
Time for a difficult decision.
2007-10-22 17:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by L L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
her behavior speaks volumes about what her desires are, her heart isn't wit her hubby and kids, its in going out, staying out late, and with someone else. u can tell alot about a person by looking at their actions, and what makes them happy. why would someone lie, about their whereabouts if they did not feel guilty and had nothing to hide?
2007-10-23 00:19:28 · answer #9 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JESUS, look at all you negative b**tards, she cheating, slap her around. tell her that shes not to do that
She aint a piece of property.
well if you do have a problem talk to her,
are you more concerned with her going out at night because you know thats what you would do?
do you have legitimate reason to believe she is sleeping with this guy?
talk to her
2007-10-22 18:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Paul E 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋