Family & Relationships - 22 October 2007

Is there any good men out there after 30??

2007-10-22 18:37:18 · 9 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I find that alot of good men my age have 1) never been married and want children or 2) were married, and spouse didn't want children so they divorced. I am unable to have more children do to have my tubes severed for medical reasons after having my own children, and now am finding it difficult to find a decent man to remarry, esp. since I already have children, this seems to be a turn off. What do I do to attract a good man who doesn't need these things. Most of the men that want children fall for me anyways and will date me, but deep down, I know it bothers them if we were to get married and it does make me feel uncomfortable knowing that that is what they would want.

Help please!!!

2007-10-22 18:33:49 · 7 answers · asked by Time4Tivo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my boyfriend but i didn't tell me . So basicly he still thinks Im his girl . The reason i didn't say a word , it's cause we are in different state (boston and Florida).Trust me my so called ex is really complicated, so i find someone new who love me the way i wanted . Now i don't know what to do

2007-10-22 18:32:04 · 23 answers · asked by Mar 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I just had a big argument and fight and she already cut and I rlly want to and I want to ******* end MY LIFE RIGHT! now...plz...im dead serious....i have a knive right beside me....i cant go to a pyschiatrist cuz they dont help (already went there after i jumped off my roof and tried to kill myself)....plz help me! SOMEONE!....im shaking like crazy....i dont know wat to do....i dont want to hurt her anymore...she was once my girlfriend (twice) and we rlly have thing going and we click and stuff with eachother!....SOMEONE! ANYONE! plz help me!

2007-10-22 18:28:45 · 13 answers · asked by heartlandanimalshelter.net 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont like my mom's boyfriend. We were going on a day trip with him this past weekend. She said she wasnt going to make his lunch he was going to make his own, but then she went and made him a lunch for the trip. Today I went to make a sandwich for lunch and there was no sandwich meat left. I asked her where it was and she said its gone because she had to make her boyfriends lunch too.

I said "I cant believe after you said you wouldnt you made him a lunch anyway, and now there's nothing left for me because you gave it all to him"

I know I was wrong for giving her an attitude like that but do you really think I deserved to have an Extra Large Ice Coffee thrown in my face?

2007-10-22 18:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-22 18:23:43 · 24 answers · asked by honey 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year now, but it has been one rocky ride. We love eachother very much, but for some reason we get into ridiculous fights. He has a very bad temper and he snaps for the dumbest things. When he's good, he's great! However, he has the worst mood swings I have ever seen and for no reason he'll begin to shout at me for the most dumbest things, like over the dishes or if I'm going out with my girlfriends, he'll assume I'm meeting up with boys.

Of course I'm not the one to bend over, so I give it right back to him. It has gotten to the point where I'll just get out of the car when we're at a traffic light. I just don't understand why we can't get along. I care about him deeply and we have a great time together, but I cannot for the life of me tolerate his moodiness. I wish I knew what to say to him, but all I do is get angry with him.

2007-10-22 18:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by yayaquack 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband works hard and travels very often. When he comes home he wants everything that means family: good hot meals, house impeccable, gardens well manicured and the house is spotless. Never, In his life he takes me to the movies or for dinner, life is cero for me. He loves ESPN and FOX Sport and he enjoys more watching them that talking to me. Bedtime? God...It is like a took a valium of the size of a tampon, and he expect from me be watching and analizing the games and for me that it is a cerebral enema!! I feel like the maid of the house, cooking, cleaning and having everything organized. The only thing good that I do for myself is that I'll go the gym (I am afraid of getting to strong becasue next time I will break his neck) All men are like that to their wives? No movies? Not going out for dinner? No vacation? Please give me some feedback.

2007-10-22 18:21:49 · 14 answers · asked by MayanPrincess@sbcgglobal.net 3 in Marriage & Divorce

it is this thursday and i have no idea, i am a boy and my parents don't know what to get me so they said choose whatever i want as long as it is in the price range....so i am guessing like $200 - $300AU
dad is taking me for my L's as well, but he said that is just something he wants to pay for and it doesn't come out of that money.
so i dunno what i want
i don't want a gift-card or clothes (already have heaps) or the money (i will spend it on sh*t)
and i already got an iPod and the xbox/playstation games i want, and i did my bike up just last week so that is a no aswell, and i don't really skate...so yeah i am out of ideas.

any ideas???

(i personally just would be happy for my ex-girlfriend to say she still loves me or something like that, that won't happen so yeah, looks like it has to be a possesion lol)

2007-10-22 18:17:17 · 5 answers · asked by Dead-Set 3 in Family

My boyf and I are 16 and I really want to have sex with him. Would most 16 year old guys jump at the chance? We're virgins...

2007-10-22 18:17:05 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy, hot, nice, smart, and funny. how do i ask him out?

2007-10-22 18:17:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked a girl out to have dinner this weekend, she responded as" we will see ok." I'm not a native english speaker, what does she mean? is it a positive sign or nagative? how should i respond?

2007-10-22 18:16:04 · 20 answers · asked by Sicheng 1 in Singles & Dating

for the last 4 years, i've been so conflicted about whether to contact my dad. i was the last one in the family to still be in touch with him. everyone else given up, but i felt he would be more of a jerk if no one tried to deal with him. i thought he'd appreciate my faith in him, despite all the wrong things he's done to us all over the years (he was abusive and neglectful... but he also was so stoned on pot that he really thought it was everyone else that was wrong; pretty much paranoid, narcassitic, and a con-man).
i never expected magic from him, just kindness to his daughter. but finally i realized that if it were in his interest, he'd rip me off too, and that while i was a kid, he was never really there for me (in addition to the hitting and emotional abuse). i wrote him to not contact me until he felt like trying to be good to me.
now i have bad relationships with men, look to others to fill his role, and am worried he may die before i can be ready to contact him again.

2007-10-22 18:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by calm cool collected 2 in Family

I've been in adv. drama the past term, I haven't enjoyed it at all, I've just been hanging in. I'm ready to transfer out, it's just not worth it. My mom is so mad at me, every time I talk to her about it, she says "I really wish you'd stay in. It's good for you" But I just hate that class. I hate the teacher and I have no friends in that class. How do I get my mom to see it like I do?

2007-10-22 18:10:54 · 5 answers · asked by Riot Grrrl 2 in Family

I am 19 right now and in college and I think I am going to wait tell im like 80 or really old to have sex and kiss a girl for the first time. First of all I am really shy never had a girlfriend or a friend that was girl since I was like 5. I am way past ready to have sex and all, but I dont think I want to deal with all the drama of a girlfriend and all the other issues like babys( never want a baby ever in my life), diseases and emotions. So I think it is a good idea to just wait tell im like 80 and almost dead just buy a hooker and do it and not worry about it. It sounds like a plan to me what do you think?

2007-10-22 18:09:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend is constantly bringing up her ex and wont shut up , it really sounds like she is still in love with him after three years of being divorced. Ive talked to her about this and told her how uncomfortable it makes me feel, and how it really kind of pisses me off (i didnt tell her it pisses me off literally) but she got the point in a nice way. She says she is going to make a effort to stop and admitted it was wrong to say these things but it hasnt got much better. Well women, tell me how to handle this , or if im being too anal tell me that too.

2007-10-22 18:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by btmlsswatertrough 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 right now and in college and I think I am going to wait tell im like 80 or really old to have sex and kiss a girl for the first time. First of all I am really shy never had a girlfriend or a friend that was girl since I was like 5. I am way past ready to have sex and all, but I dont think I want to deal with all the drama of a girlfriend and all the other issues like babys( never want a baby ever in my life), diseases and emotions. So I think it is a good idea to just wait tell im like 80 and almost dead just buy a hooker and do it and not worry about it. It sounds like a plan to me what do you think?

2007-10-22 18:09:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How to know a girl is liking anyone? me?

2007-10-22 18:08:27 · 6 answers · asked by arj m 1 in Singles & Dating

this is a letter i sent to a friend right after the incedent

i was going to becca's house next saturday t spend the weekend with her, we were evcited for the time we were going to spend together. also of course there was the undertone f sex. she acked me if we could go to sleep right after then just wake up, sounded like a good idea to me.. it wasnt the only thing we were going to do obviously, i was going to take her to the movies, we were going to do other stuff, it wasnt about the sex it wa about the time together

she texted me today saying that she would be on the rag that wekend, i though oh no i wont be able to do what she asked and texted back maybe next weekend then?

yea... i have ber adhd and im uber impulsive sometimes, that came across as not i want to make you happy but ..if we cant have sex i dont want to come. also saying that kinda assumes that sex is the only thing that will make her happy, and its not the only thing.

2007-10-22 18:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by somedude 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 18:07:24 · 14 answers · asked by Elaine S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She met this guy recently in her math class from tutoring him, and she has been my gf for 2 years already. They have each other's phone numbers and yahoo messenger. It seems as though she talks to him once in a while either through chat or seeing him in school.

Do you think its ok for my gf to do this? or am I overreacting?

2007-10-22 18:06:40 · 9 answers · asked by Romeo 3 in Singles & Dating

Walking back with friends; Bo puts his Dave in a cart and were walking down a really curvy hill so anyway Bo pushes him and the cart hits me straight in the stomach and Dave falls over coming from the cart. My first reaction was to kick him then bop him on his head. I was born like that when someone touches you in ANYWAY you dont like you fight back so thats what i did. Anyways Dave's hand is bleeding and **** and i start swearing him out and he's like blah blah and i went up to Bo and was like you should apologize becuz you shouldve never pushed him and so & so and he was like nah i aint goin to apologize and so Dave is bleeding tellin me he goin 2 go get his cousin/sister so anyways i was like well whatever i really dont care and do you think when the cart came my way that you were going to go thru me? Its not my fault tho its really Bo's he shouldve never pushed him while i was there. ya'll think i should hold my head up high or apologize??

2007-10-22 18:05:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

could be you hated him or were just friends, then start liking him gradually or suddenly. what changed? how'd you fall for him?

2007-10-22 18:03:58 · 18 answers · asked by Mic Y 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you feel about guys who watch porn? Have you ever watched porn? Have you ever done porn? and will you do porn for me (male in college having a boring night)? (jk about the last one but hey, it's worth a shot, and i'll respond back with my own;) if you do).

2007-10-22 18:03:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is married. I am single. He's 47. Im 30. He has 3 kids. I have none. I met him in Feb. Fell in love in May. I knew he was married all along. But the feeling was too strong I just didn't want to wonder what could've been. I said goodbye to him in July. Then got back together again. Then yesterday I said goodbye again.

We have plans of moving to the states come 2009. He said "we can get married there". I believed him. But 2 months after that statement, he still goes home to his wife and kids every single night. Being an engineer, his projects will end by 2009. I talked to him abt moving out knowing he cant move in with me. He is not open to living on his own. Maybe its for economic reasons but anyway, my pt is, he still goes home to hes despite talks of getting an annullment.

Anwyay, last wk i again askd hm abt this and he finally said "no church or court will allow them to get an annulment bec they are still living together as a family. That was my turning pt

2007-10-22 18:02:55 · 14 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says he is having problems with his gf..and has also told me i'm the one.. yet he hasnt left her..
am i stupid to stay, is it wisest to go?
what and how do i ask him to make a choice?

2007-10-22 18:01:36 · 9 answers · asked by mestizachinita 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 18:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Amanda C 1 in Singles & Dating

he graduated when i was a freshmen. we broke up a month into the summer. we didn't talk to months, he came back alum weekend, we slept together (which i was ok with), but all of a sudden he starts calling again. and called a second time and invited me out. It's planned and booked.

is he doing this because he wants me back?

2007-10-22 17:59:54 · 4 answers · asked by kiki30 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

over the summer, i was in a serious fling with a guy who lives in a diff state. we still like each other and actually are planning on visiting each other. tho he is very intense with me and sounds nearly desperate for me, on the phone.. he is inconsistent with his communication -- i think becuz he is trying to play games and is insecure with himself and worries that he won't keep my interest (well hes smart.. becuz he definitely has kept me on my toes). however i also wanna keep him on his toes while at the same time avoiding games. PROBLEM = he plays so many gamesss (So much so, i feel i should play back in order to keep him interested). HOWEVER he also has big trust issues, so i feel like playing these games back just makes him wonder more if he can trust me or not. im worried tho that if all of sudden i beome very persistent and become the one always calling him, he won't feel he needs to chase me/pursue me anymore and thus may lose his interest. how should i act in this situation?

2007-10-22 17:58:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-22 17:57:22 · 4 answers · asked by Dave T 2 in Singles & Dating