My friend and I just had a big argument and fight and she already cut and I rlly want to and I want to ******* end MY LIFE RIGHT! now...plz...im dead serious....i have a knive right beside me....i cant go to a pyschiatrist cuz they dont help (already went there after i jumped off my roof and tried to kill myself)....plz help me! SOMEONE!....im shaking like crazy....i dont know wat to do....i dont want to hurt her anymore...she was once my girlfriend (twice) and we rlly have thing going and we click and stuff with eachother!....SOMEONE! ANYONE! plz help me!
2007-10-22 18:28:45 · 13 answers · asked by heartlandanimalshelter.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO I DONT WANT TO HURT HE....OR HER LIFE.....im crying so hard.....im only 15 so no i cant have a smoke or alcohol...i used to drink but i promised the same girl that i wouldnt cuz it made her mad and i felt really bad about it.
2007-10-22 18:39:09 · update #1
OH AND BY THE WAY...IM ATHIEST....GOD OR J.C. wont help me here....i need help from real human beings...not spirituality and relgious stuff
2007-10-22 18:43:52 · update #2
Thank you to some of you...but others...just no comment!
2007-10-22 18:58:34 · update #3
Listen is it really worth it? I want you to know that you are a child of god. He wants nothing more for you than to succeed at life and prove to him that you love him. Help your friend to not do anymore to herself. You can get through this there is a whole life ahead of you. Please take what I said seriously.
2007-10-22 18:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kent J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life has highs and lows. You just happen to be in a low spot. Trust me, things get better. This is really odd but I was once at the same crossroads you are at. When I was 16 yrs old, I was fighting alot with my family. One night I put a knife to my throat and came an inch away from ending it all. I was all by myself, it was 3 AM, and it didn't help that I had been drinking but for some reason I didn't do it. Not too long after that night, my situation improved and my perception of life dramatically changed. I mended things with my family and we are all very close now. I take trips to different places across the country twice a year..... and to think I almost gave it all up. You sound young, think it over because later on down the road you'll more than likely find yourself in a happier situation than me. Good luck bro.
2007-10-22 19:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Haywood Jablomee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you stop it, being all negative? Perhaps its just those shitty hormones that got you shaky but you dont want to hear that, do you? I could say oh no dont kill yourself there are other fish in the sea, suicide is not the answer! but i wont, why do you have a knife right by you jeez are you an attention seeker, on some level anyway. Why would you want to knife yourself, i mean i would do the opposite of someone who I was mad at, besides youll get teased when you get tetnus or hepatitus c from that razor, then youll die anyway, and neither of us want that. Your young right? Its just petty romace itll be fine maybe she needs space, i think you do too. If you really are hurting feel free to email me, ive been in enough **** to lend you some advice.
2007-10-23 11:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Aleasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You will only hurt the people you love if you suceed, and they will hate you for putting them through the worry.
I have been through a painful break up before. It took a long time to completely get over it, but I did, and you will too. Just try to be strong, and reallize that this one was probably not meant to be. There will be someone out there that will love you and make you happy. Just be patient.
2007-10-22 18:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way to young to be thinking of the big S. No person on earth is worth your life. I know it's a cliche but there is plenty of fish in the sea.
I looked at your website you seem to have a good head on your shoulders, think of this you will not just be giving up your life but your sole...Suicide is the only unforgivable sin.
Plus think of your parents, I'm a parent and if one of my kids did the deed it would destroy me!
And if you don't believe there is a god, What if your wrong and there is a god?
2007-10-22 18:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by James 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hoooooooold on hun put things into perspective here...this is over a girl....being suicidal over a girl is the stupidest thing ever. i think u should call somebody right now anyone that can help calm you down....remember hun the human mind always makes things seem worse than they rilly are...it's just the way we're made...so plz talk to someone right now...i know how it feels...
2007-10-22 18:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GIVE UP. Dont give up on psychiatry. Sometimes it takes just the right doctor AND/OR the right meds. Its a struggle. I know. But commit to really giving it some real effort. If one facility isnt working, try another. If one med doesnt have any affect, go for another. If one doctor isnt hearing you, fire him/her and try another and any combination of these things, really! Just keep trying!!!!! You'll never know the joys and special surprises await you if you give up. DONT GIVE UP.
2007-10-22 18:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by finding_favor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for a long walk. Pray as you walk and tell God everything that is on your mind. Think of your own flaws and what you can do to correct them.
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2007-10-22 18:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm, how old are you??? put the knife down go have a vodka and take the dog for a walk dude!! Do you smoke??? that could help too...Maybe a valium
2007-10-22 18:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by stace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really don't want to hurt her then don't do it as it will ruin her life, do you want to hurt her? Yes or no?
2007-10-22 18:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋